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I remember getting this anonymous asks YEARS ago where they accused me of talking way more about being Chinese than I do about being white and like I hope that person knows I made a gluten free brown sugar banana bread recipe by myself and feels stupid as fuck now

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It's your duty to be developing a banana bread recipe to pass down for generations no cheating

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Anyways it's hard to find a nice silk qipao in America smh

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The absolute treasure trove of Reddit asks where it's just a random white woman who wishes she was Asian asking the entire online Asian community if it's okay if she wear a qipao or whatever to her wedding for no reason besides she loves Asian stuff and studied abroad or some shit and half of people being like sure I don't care and then the rest being like no and also I'm gonna kill you myself

The secret is just not hating yourself or your own heritage to the point of feeling the need to dress up in someone else's then not even having the confidence to own it and then asking the internet like it's your mommy like girl if you want it that bad then just do it - just know some people will laugh at you and that's life

Literally there is like an endless amount of these exact scenarios flooding Reddit it's wild to me I like genuinely feel bad for people who so clearly wish they were another race it's sad

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Really into turning lean ground meat into super flavorful nourishing meals + the local lavender ice cream scoop waiting on laundry

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Constantly remember how full of choices life is and how if you let your guilt or shame lead you instead of joy you truly will have no one to blame but yourself when you are living a life that feels heavy and constrained instead of happy and free

When you are not a child anymore you have to make decisions based on your own beliefs and no one else's and if you can't then no one is gonna save you - it's something you do for yourself regardless of how it looks to people around you and no one is gonna tell you to choose yourself

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Saturday after full moon cry I love you

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Ended up having such a transformative and amazing full moon last night just talking in the kitchen and crying with my husband about so many of my feelings that I've been bottling up around family and living away from home and it was so unexpected but needed and always makes me feel so lucky I found the man of my dreams and live life with him every single day and he understands me the way I need to be understood

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Trying to find a good hat in this day and age impossible shit is an over saturated market with nothing in it

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Nothing more tragic than finding out years in that someone you thought had greasy straight dead hair actually has beautiful airy waves that they have been choosing to straighten to death the whole time

I'm such a believer that everyone looks better with their natural hair and every time I see it it just makes my opinion more iron clad

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Actually I take that shit back - it's perfectly possible to make a children's movie that totally holds up for an adult viewer and has artistry and nuance despite it being for a younger mind's consumptions and plenty of movies I loved as a child have only become MORE beautiful to me as I grew up and reflecting on them

Sailor moon has no right to be this one dimensionally written at this point fire those bitches in charge fr

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La toilette (1889). Henri de Toulouse-Lautrec.

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was like damn this new sailor moon movie was lowkey bad

then i remembered its not bad it's just made for a like 10 year old girl

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Every time I complain about Instagram I just realize it's my own fault for who I follow

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It's crazy that they chose to make Turning Red which is an amazing movie, in that truly terrible modern Pixar art style everyone collectively hates

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Do I dare watch the sailor moon movie for the first time on the full moon.....

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Going to therapy you think it will make you realize you're not actually as hate-able as you thought and that actually it's all just negative self talk

But when the therapy is good enough it just makes you see that you are hate-able to many many people and that it's not an issue like at all and totally livable