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abnormallyattrctive · 3 years ago

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Most western women believe in fairytales not lawyers and that the love dove dropping on them from above will protect them! What nonsense. Men don’t marry for love or out of infatuation but because they think that there life would be better with a wife and finds an applicant well suited for the position with good conditions.

Men who have money, intelligence or affluent friends make women sign prenups where they end with nothing or get good lawyers where they end with nothing. It’s not enough to get lawyers, most of them don’t do there job, but you have to take law courses, spend time at the law library not to get screwed over.

Ladies you are SINGLE UNTIL YOUR PRENUP IS WRITTEN IN TERMS THAT WONT SCREW YOU OVER.

Have a rotation. If you have heard dare multiple men without sleeping with them. The word “girlfriend” is the biggest misogynist scam on the planet. A man gets the exclusive use of you time, body, mind, soul and you get nothing. Only a fool or an idiot would be proud of being called a girlfriend or partner as a woman. Of course a man would be proud, how smart he is getting something for nothing. Your youth decreases and his money increases and he has that exclusive right? Those in the Hyperagamy community know all this but this is for the rest of women here as well, hide your boyfriend from social media burin you get an engagement ring so you don’t look like a fool to men.

In a free society, you are expected to be equal to men but the ones your age are children. So you are not equal because the ones that can afford to be fathers of your children are older and if they are not smarter their friends are and will spend time at the law library, will invest in good lawyers while young women are flailing around with this stupid stupid love dove from above nonsense.

Get the love nonsense out of your head. It’s not real, just chemicals in your head that will die in a couple years. It’s called infatuation or chemistry. If you feel chemistry- run, he is bad news. It’s a cave woman instinct that usually leads you chasing a bad abusive man who can protect you from a saber tooth tiger. Marry a man because he is good for you, takes care of you and provides a comfortable standard of living. Date men who actually like and respect you. Of course you have to cultivate yourself to get high value men to connect with you emotionally, respect and like you especially if there is an age gap.

So basically the reason western women are so oppressed in practice is that given freedom, they don’t assert themselves and expect an invisible mosque/church, patriarchy and sharia law that doesn’t exist to somehow protect them if they are nice. It’s like a zebra who once lived in a zoo released in the wild expecting lions to not eat it. Most churches are museums and apartments ladies and the patriarchy is long gone.

You are your own patriarchs ladies and are responsible for your own self defence in this cruel world. Look out for yourselves and look for the best deal like a high value man. You are not five years old to believe in silly Disney delusions like love. Men don’t express love or anything with words to each other, they express it with actions. It’s like cats don’t meow to each other but only meow to communicate with humans.

Most men will screw you over financially if you don’t look out for yourself because they are told, there is no religion, a super high divorce rate where a woman can take everything you built so look out for yourselves.

You can’t marry rich in a secular western country or build a business with a man and not expect to end up on the street if you are a woman. It doesn’t matter what western law says, it’s not sharia law - so it’s just a piece of paper where the party with the best lawyers or knows the law wins.

In 5 years in a marriage you are not as young and he had a monopoly over your body at this time. You aged but he made more money. Sisters get real. If you signed a bunch of stuff, the infatuation hormones die. You may have a kid and are arguing over his education or you don’t like how he snores and maybe should go to the doctor and do something about it. Whatever it is, then he is like I am not infatuated with her anymore, why do I need this, and throws you out for someone 5 or 10 years younger. And you are thrown to the street, left with nothing.

The law only works in favour of the woman if she didn’t sign her rights away. Many women say they don’t want to be starter wives. The first wife is the only time men might not have a nasty prenup like Melinda Gated and Mackenzie Bezos.

You don’t get younger over time so know your rights. A man who is just using you for your youth won’t give you a penny in the prenup and will throw you out in the street. Develop yourself so that you can have a genuine emotional connection. This way if he actually loves, respects and admired you as a person even if you were a man, he is less likely to screw you over.

My husband says men watch out for their back so women should be smart and do the same.

The smart thing is not to marry men for money but date men for stock tips, financial advice, mentorship, get a stock broker license when you are young. Date successful men and learn from them how to be successful on your own. It’s not a 50-50 thing but you need leverage if you date up.

If you are just a pretty girl dating successful men you are screwed. They will use you and spit you out. Sure it’s less bad than dating an average boy who will bully you for sex like he is PETA and you are Russian fur coat lady. And then he used you for sex and throws you out when he is tired and you got zero out of it except tears from your oxicotin bonding.

I told a lady online that before you sleep with a man at least he should buy you something so if there is a break up you don’t feel so bad. He got her a beautiful dress from I think Armani. Then she got intimate a month in because “come on I am a modern woman and it’s the 21rst century”. He left her a week later. She wrote to me

« thank you, I am crying but I don’t feel so bad like my last break up. I will wear this dress to find the next one. It took the sting out of the break up. I don’t feel badly used.”

Yes you have all the freedom in the West but all the women who are better off than Saudi women are stoic, stomp on their heart and use their brain instead.

If you date a man older than you remember he is smarter than you. If you keep developing yourself you would be smarter than the you of now and his friends are smarter and often look down on younger women out of envy and their bad experiences.

You have to know your rights or you have no rights. There is no Sheikh to tell you how to live. You are your own sheikha, so be a sultana.

You need to build your own income and multiple streams of income. You need to spend your money on legal and financial literacy. If you have leverage and know your rights you won’t get screwed over in any system.

You can’t just marry a rich man and get an easy wealth. There is no easy wealth. Only scammers say that. You have to look out for yourself legally and financially. Then you can marry someone who will take care of you.

Don’t just be a silly housewife but actively invest your money and protect it with a prenup or post nip. If you do a business together hammer out a legal agreement in terms that favour you so you are not left with nothing in a divorce.

Also in a prenup don’t except to assume your man’s pre marriage assets since you wouldn’t be willing to assume his debts but you have a right to sweat equity to money earned in a marriage if you are going to network for him and promote his career and or raise his kids.

I was asked isn’t it better to date someone who will mentor you who to make your money than to date someone with money. Exactly. Others ask me why these young ladies want to date someone older with money when they are beautiful and have a great job, good salary and education? It’s not money that makes Gen Z girls do that but because boys their age are toxic. Either they are so feminine and girly as well as being irresponsible children that they prefer to be single or the attractive ones are these very rude demeaning “red Pill” MIGTOW Boys who think being rude to enough women since women are more agreeable than men, one will put out and give her kitty cat for free. Older men as in by 20 years older actually have social skills and many are gentlemen in the older generations - but if you are not attracted to the person physically they find if he is able to provide a comfortable life financially they are happy.

Young women want out of the mean catty workplace where it’s not about doing the work but knowing all the office politics and playing the right intrigues. Working from home is helping. Young women want to be housewives and raise a family. They don’t see how being their boss’s slave is a form of empowerment. The question of how to be a housewife if that of leverage. You need to have streams of income and knowledge of the law that you are not out on the street with nothing.

Men will even demand jewelry given in a relationship back. You have to know the law and not accept it as gift unless he signs he can’t take it back then it’s a gift to himself.

In short you have to be assertive, financially literate, wise and look out for your self interests the way men twice your age look out for theirs or you will get screwed over in this world and die alone in poverty in old age.

You have to be assertive, selfish, put yourself first and look out for yourself because no one else will look out for you.

Free women most of the time have fewer rights than unfree women because free women don’t excercise their freedom since it’s a lot of painful work.

The one who doesn’t take care of their financial interests will always lose the money they have.

You want to be better off in real life than a Saudi woman under sharia law? Go to the legal library today and learn your rights. Learn financial literacy. Start with Latte Factor and Rich Dad Poor Dad.

Take care of yourselves ladies if you want to be taken care of. Know your rights, assert yourself and excercise your rights and build your own wealth yourself to have leverage.

I know someone who inherited her husband’s business. A widow. His business partners screwed her over and left her with nothing. If you are not sharp with money someone is going to take what you have away. And legally. And will get away with it since you were asleep and didn’t know your rights and how things works.

If you don’t watch out for your money, your kitty cat, your self interest, someone will screw you over from all you have. This used to be your father and the church’s job but western women got rid of religion and patriarchy because you don’t choose your father and some churches are abusive. So now you have to be your own 50s father and church and look out for your self interest ladies or you will be robbed blind and thrown in the gutter when you are to old to get out of the gutter by yourself with no one to help you.

Take care of yourselves ladies and put your self interest first.

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