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You said “kill your sympathy before it kills you” how can i kill it. I am trying but failing

You need to have enough sympathy for yourself to readily distance yourself from the people who consistently stress you out in some way. You don't always need to frame your desire to distance yourself psychologically as wanting to deprive other people of your emotional labor, you can simply view it as you wanting to take care of yourself.

Regarding your question, what did it for me was coming to the realization that, by extending my sympathy and subsequent support to those I considered harmful, I was implicitly harming their victims because I was the one providing them with more resources to continue with their abuse; which doesn't sound empathetic at all, as far as I'm aware. Of course, the other issue with this is that you need to have enough trust in your ability to tell who's truly harmful and who isn't to not get further confused in the process, as evil people will rarely allow you to perceive them for who they really are, but, when it comes to goodness and evil, I can tell you the following thing: a sensible person would never hold people's mental fatigue against them or demand that they wring themselves dry for their benefit, and the people who do that are not worthy of your attention at all.

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“The world will knock you down plenty. You don’t need to be doing it to yourself.”

— Elizabeth Scott

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Sorry in advance for sharing this because it’s a lot to put on another person: My greatest struggle has always been that I don’t know what I want. I have been stuck in the same spot for so long. I’m afraid on some level I’ll just end myself because I’m too afraid to do anything. I don’t even know what I would want to do. I feel so alone. I don’t know what I believe anymore. Maybe this is a good thing because it is pushing me into the depths of everything I fear but I wanted to see if you had any advice for this because I feel like I’m lost in the dark. I was a shallow ego driven person and left all that behind and now I don’t know who I am or where to begin since I’m no longer doing what this world wants me to

Before anything else, I'm going to tell you this: if things didn't matter to you, you wouldn't be scared of doing them. You would either be indifferent towards them or follow through with them because both action and inaction would have very little impact on your emotional state. Fear is an indication of some kind of attitude being present towards a thing or person as much as happiness is when it comes to personal preferences.

Since you don't specify the subject of your fears, I don't feel like I can give you any particular advice on how to deal with it because some of them could be quite reasonable, after all, but I was in a similarly ambivalent, emotionally distraught position as yourself a couple of years ago, and I can tell you what I did back then: I stopped relying on my emotions to tell me what my preferences were and started looking into the frequency I was engaging in something at.

Back in the day, I struggled with emotional suppression and had, essentially, no internal compass to rely on because my emotional spectrum ranged from shame to numbness and fear and nothing in-between, which wasn't exactly contributing to me figuring out the things I enjoyed the most, or at all. I would eventually come up with an alternative solution that didn't involve emotional feedback, which was paying attention to the things I had known myself to consistently engage in at the time and even years prior; I would explain it as it having to do with one's genuine personality residing in the subconscious mind because the psychological perspective made much more sense to my atheistic self, even though I currently believe that, at the soul level, people will always express themselves according to their divine essence regardless of external circumstances and it will be reflected in the things and themes they are drawn to throughout their life. Regardless of what this pull could be caused by, acknowledging that there were things I was inexplicably drawn to and exploring that was the method that would eventually work out for me and nowadays I can say with certainty that I know what the things that make me happy are, and what happiness even is.

When an emotional struggle of the nature like the one you describe is involved, it can be difficult to tell what it is that you are trying to figure out in your search for fulfillment because you have no point of reference for how certain emotional states are supposed to feel, which was why I decided to tell you what indifference isn't at the beginning, or, at the very least, my perception of it. On the other hand, being in the presence of a thing that makes you happy feels like warmth and the promise of long-term contentment — and, as complicated as it is, it definitely is a feeling instead of it being a logical train of thought like 'I should like this because...', which in itself could only ever point to underlying emotional suppression. We decide upon the things we enjoy by taking note of what we feel the strongest about or keep coming back to, and, if you don't know where to begin at all, either one of these could be a good start.

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“The soul usually knows what to do to heal itself. The challenge is to silence the mind.”

— Caroline Myss

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your talk on this page and your twitter account about soul projections, reincarnation, etc. remind me of the stuff i've read about dharmic religions. do you identify as buddhist/hindu/etc. or does your philosophy just overlap with them?

There definitely is simply an overlap instead of it being deliberate... I am not a member of any religion and that is unlikely to change.

My beliefs, rather, the knowledge I share, are simply the working principles of the universe that I have become aware of; they may be imperceptible to the naked eye, but so is the molecular structure of things, and both can be observed with the right set of tools. In truth, reincarnation and karma are such mundane phenomena that, to me, categorizing them as a philosophy is similar to creating a religion out of knowing that the sky is blue.

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Dishonored: The Knife of Dunwall screencaps: None Like Her [1/4]

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restrict the lying tongue that is like a spark in a man's mouth. it is such a little thing, yet from one spark an entire city may burn to the ground. the father of a lie will suffer a punishment compounded by each person relayed it. better to live a life of silence than unleash a stream of untruth. the echoes of lies come back as the voice of the outsider

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I find it interesting that certain women have it in themselves to presume the victimhood of every group of women, from religious lunatics who mutilate their daughters to patriarchal enablers, and feel compelled to make them feel welcome in feminism, yet no similar accommodations are being made for the women who speak out against the abuse women perpetrate when the strong language said women use clearly points to them being frustrated with the sexual abuse perpetuated by women i.e. trauma.

Could it be that some bias is present there?

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I want to pray to God to remove any friend of mine that's jealous out of my life but I'm actually scared to lose some people I love despite that they do "harm" me. I'm also afraid that they may start spreading stuff about my business since I'm no longer their friend.

Definitely ask God to intervene and remove them. One prayer that God doesn't play about answering extremely fast is that of removing people who don't serve us from our lives. I'd also advise you to "quiet quit them". If they invite you to things, politely decline and do not share any more personal details about you or your business with them. Lie if you need to. Jealousy is dangerous and shouldn't be underestimated. I'm proud of you for recognizing it.

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only after thoroughly internalizing that women are as heinously sexually abusive as you perceive them to be do you realize how messed up it is for people to be demanding to be considerate with enablers and predators of you

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Ladies selfish women achieve their dreams and compassionate & humble women are taken advantage of, guilted to be smaller, chewed up, spit out and thrown out like an old pair of shoes.

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it is hilarious how dumb cunts will accuse you of being a male. if information is true, it is true regardless of who says it. they are clearly craving a daddy to tell them what to think cuz thinking on their own is clearly too much for them and anyone who does it must be a male lol!

"You're saying i'm responsible for my actions so you must be a man"

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Distillery District ☛ Granny Rags' shrine DISHONORED 2012・dev. Arkane Studios

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I think you're right about people manifesting a painful pregnancy. I used to follow someone (before they started posting mommy content) but the last post I saw from them was that they had a completely normal pregnancy, painless right down to labour. She's a Christian, so I don't think she consciously believed in manifestation, but her life seems to work out as she wants it.

I... am not entirely sure if I believe this "painless pregnancy" perspective, especially considering that the woman relaying it is a Christian. I would expect a painless pregnancy to be a sign of righteousness and purity among women in those circles, regardless of Christian men's perspective on what a "real" pregnancy should be like, and would expect for them to not be entirely honest about their experience with childbirth due to the aforementioned reason.

I was mostly talking about human reproduction being a painful, horrifying ordeal by default and I struggle to separate a process that is designed to tear and crush down your organs and siphon your body's resources from the quite inherent suffering that comes with it.

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kill your sympathy before it kills you

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weird question, but do you think the anon from the blackpill feminism threads on lolcow.farm/2X is right or is it mental disorder / karma

I will... not be opening that site, sorry. I can't comment much because you didn't send any screenshots or hint at any particular topic in your message.

Regarding karma and the way women are treated, what I'm going to say is that women are very good at gaslighting and downplaying the extent of their wrongdoings and that people as a whole are very good at overlooking them, so it appears as if women get treated unfairly for no particular reason whatsoever when the treatment they are receiving is very much proportionate to their actions.

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This post makes no sense because change is the core tenet of nature. Biology is rooted in change and adaptation to one's environment, that is how evolution works; fish are learning to walk as we speak.

I understand wanting to theorize about the world, but being wrong within the framework of your own belief system and demonizing other people's quite reasonable opinions at the same time is an entirely different thing altogether.

The idea that misogyny is "biological" is a harmful way of looking at things because it leads to people thinking that women are doomed to be harassed and attacked, that it's the natural order of things and not something that we can change. Misogyny is something that is taught and socially rewarded for perpetuating. Hating women is not an inherent biological trait in men, it's learned behavior.