#femininity tips

[honeytonedhottie]

hyper femininity⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🎀

im super excited to write this post because my relationship with my femininity has been something that i remember rly well and im super grateful for. i feel like embracing my hyper femininity has made me grow and glow so i wanna share ways that i embraces and strengthened my femininity 🎀

TRUST UR GUT AND INTUITION ;

we have gut feelings for a REASON. most of the times when we have gut feelings about someone or a situation we are nine times out of ten RIGHT. something that i've learned to do is listen to my body and my gut intuition more.

and to add onto this, TRUST UR OWN JUDGEMENT. a lot of the time we are used to being preached to about how we should feel and respond to certain things, and something important to always prioritize is discernment.

but please trust ur gut and trust ur own principles and judgement because no one knows u better then you. at the end of the day u know whats best for u and u are responsible for doing whats best for u so dont put that responsibility/power in the hands of others.

HAVE WOMEN TO LOOK UP TO ;

having women that u look up to is so so good for u because it gives u a role model. some women that are my role models include ; kimora lee simmons, jang wonyoung, bella hadid, megan thee stallion, jia song, alexa demie, paris hilton, and SO much more.

also having lots of female friends, watching female influencers etc i think all contribute to my girlyness. my absolute favorite female influencer is manifestelle because shes so smart and wise and AMAZING to listen to.

BUILD A STRONG SELF CONCEPT ;

know ur worth and own it. as a woman, make sure that u keep company that uplifts you and keeps ur confidence high because in this world everyone is so obsessed with "humbling" women.

do lots of confidence and self concept work to the point where absolutely NOTHING can phase u because ur so secure within urself and ur femininity. confidence is important for everything but especially important for women.

BE SOFT ;

being super in tune with and aware of my emotions has helped my femininity bcuz i used to have a bad habit of repression because i thought that being sensitive was something that i had to be ashamed of. but i learned that its NOT true and i learned to embrace it through doing lots of journalling and shadow work.

SELF EXPRESSION ;

i found that my femininity was strengthened when i allowed myself to express and be creative. doing things like dancing, song writing, journalling, keeping a blog etc has just been so good for my girlyness as a whole.

being able to express urself in how u speak and advocate for urself is also immensely important because no one is gonna speak FOR you so u need to speak for you and express urself clearly. you can do so by starting to practice saying no and saying when u like something and when u dont like something.

[theambitiouswoman]

Inner beauty manifests in our outer beauty. You should spend as much time working on your inner self, as you do your looks.

Some feminine attitudes you can work on:

1. Happiness: when you’re happy with yourself you radiate positivity, joy and peace that is magnetic. You are a joy to be around because you make others feel good just by being around you.

2. Classiness: being classy is more than how we dress. It’s also about our attitude, our manners, how we speak and interact with others.

3. Kindness: being “nice” can be faked. Kindness cannot. Kindness comes from the heart, it’s warm, loving, caring, and compassionate attitude that comes from a person who isn’t lead by their ego.

4. Authenticity: authenticity means being the real you, unapologetically. being the real you without living for others or getting triggered and offended by others thoughts about you is the core of self confidence. People respect real confidence and can see through fakeness.

[exquisiteelifee]

Traits of a high value woman

1. She loves and respects herself

2. She embraces her femininity

3. She knows her worth

4. Shes sexually confident

5. Shes happy on her own

6. She has strong self esteem

7. Shes self sufficient

8. She has her own life

9. She has high standards

10. Shes kind

11. Shes emotionally intelligent and stable

12. Shes committed to personal growth

13. She knows how to set healthy boundaries

14. She's self aware

15. She knows how to keep her expectations in check

16. She takes care of herself

17. She embraces her vulnerability

18. She's comfortable expressing herself

19. She doesn't chase men

20. She understands her purpose in life

21. She dresses well

22. She’s educated

23. She gets money

[chichiscloset]

WHAT IS THIS SEASON OF LIFE TRYING TO TEACH YOU?

When you’re in pursuit of the life of your dreams along the journey there will be many seasons. Some seasons will be triumphant and you’ll feel like anything is possible, while others will be so difficult you’ll be unsure how you’re even going to make it through this season of life.

I want you ladies to remember, and as a reminder to myself as well, that the only constant in life is change. When change comes are you able to withstand the turbulence of life while remaining faithful and focused? And when things are great can you show gratitude for all that you prayed for and received?

“To whom much is given, much will be required”

I love that quote! It’s a reminder that if you want a lot you have to go through a lot. The best things in life are found through effort and experience. I know the “soft life” has convinced us all that being a “bad bitch” is enough to achieve the life of your dreams. However, in reality, that’s not all it takes! The life of your dreams doesn’t just appear! It is a treasure, and like a treasure, a hunt is required because you only find what you seek!

God/the universe, whatever you believe in, is always guiding you to become your best self. Let life mold into what you need to become, so that you can receive the desires of your heart. There is a lesson to learn in every season, and it’s your job to have enough wisdom to let life be your teacher.

At the end of the day, as much as we all want to, there is no avoiding the process or the discomfort that different season bring. If you are not already born into money you’re going to have to figure out how to get everything you dream of. Which means, you’ll have to go through some thangs!

How to embrace each session if your life?

I. PRAY

Pray, pray, pray.

Seriously! Without getting too religious, prayer works! Plenty of the darkest seasons of my life required a crap ton of prayer to get through the days. You have to remember nothing is happening to you, and everything is happening for you. You are where you are because that’s where you’re supposed to be. Trust that God has a plan, and it’s more beautiful than anything you could imagine.

Pray for guidance, pray for clarity, and pray for wisdom. Prayer has a way of providing calm in the midst of a storm.

II. SLOW DOWN

Take a moment to reflect on everything that lead you to where you are today.

Realize that some days will be productive, while others will feel like you aren’t doing hardly enough. We are all human, and growth is never linear. If you’re always moving and doing it’s hard to hear your intuition. It’s ok to slow down and listen to what the universe is trying to tell you.

III.FIND A NEW PART OF YOU TO EXPLORE

As humans we’re always evolving. We change the way we dress, the activities we enjoy, who/how we like to spend our time, and everything in between.

As you enter a new season of being take the time to reflect on what’s changing about yourself. Is it a change you like? Are you regressing? Take the time to explore and get to know this new version of yourself. Be curious without being judgemental.

IV. PRACTICE GRATITUDE

Practicing gratitude is the quickest way to call more good into your life. By being thankful for the good things in your life, no matter how big or small they may be it allows you to focus on the positive aspects of your life and acknowledge the good things that have come your way.

Some ways to practice gratitude include keeping a gratitude journal and expressing gratitude to others, taking time to appreciate nature, and focusing on the present moment. By practicing gratitude regularly, you can improve your overall well-being and increase your happiness, and better weather any season in your life.

Ultimately, accepting the changes and transitions that come with different stages of life, whether they be joyful or challenging. It means acknowledging that life is a journey with ups and downs, and learning to appreciate each moment for what it is. By embracing the seasons of life, we can grow, learn, and become more resilient individuals.

Until we talk again ❤️

Chichi

[princessprettyprivilege]

10 Pretty Privilege Affirmations FORCED

My beauty brings men to tears every nanosecond

My desirability increases by 10,000% increments at the universe’s speed

I am a show-stopper at every place I visit every nanosecond

My confidence is increasing in magnetism at the universe’s speed

My pretty privilege makes me money every nanosecond

I am immune to low quality experiences every nanosecond

My walk brings traffic to a standstill

I am so stunning, I naturally have a spotlight every nanosecond

I am immune to time wasters every nanosecond

My pretty privilege is opening every door I desire at the universe’s speed

[decadencediary]

[theblackfemininesociety]

Just a reminder that: You Can.

You can do whatever you put your mind to. Do you have good ideas ? Great now put in the work. Your results aren’t aligning with your plans? Pray about it & get back to the drawing board. Struggling between the girl you are and the women you want to become? MOVE LIKE SHE WOULD FROM NOW ON.

You Can.

You Can.

You will.

So work towards it. everyday. No matter the length of the labor you put into that day, the effort you put into reshaping your mind and focus will soon put you in the rooms you’ve once dreamed of…

Don't give up on YOURSELF

I promise you will become HER.

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— The Black Feminine Society 💋

[hajar-diamond]

Stop breaking your feminine standards, being authentic pays off.

If you don't like swearing/cussing, don't.

If you like elegant and beautiful clothing , wear it.

If you don't like to wear street wear, don't wear it.

If you don't like vulgarity, don't engage.

If you like to read books read, and don't be ashamed.

Vice versa for everything as well. It's common for some to follow negative influences. If you stick around those people longer than 3 months, you might turn into a totally different person. Everything you didn't want to be.

Don't lower standards, don't belittle your likes and dislikes, keep your standards, say no, or simply don't engage further.

Be who YOU want to be as a feminine woman. We all want to fit in, but don't fit in at your own expense. ✨

[daughterofcainnnn]

I deserve to be spoiled and treated like a princess! 🎀

[wickedxvixen]

[gent-illmatic]

STOP BEING EMOTIONAL IN ENVIRONMENTS WHERE YOU SHOULD BE STRATEGIC!

[theambitiouswoman]

Resting in your feminine means:

💗 Having self control.

💗 Having standards and setting boundaries.

💗 Building your financial literacy.

💗 Seeking help even when you can do it yourself.

💗 Trusting that all of your needs are met.

💗 Maintaining hobbies and habits that make you your best self because you know you deserve it.

[exquisiteelifee]

Ways To Heal Financial Trauma

1. Talk about it, pray to God for guidance

2. Write a forgiveness letter

3. Educate Yourself

4. Create financial goals & write down your money visions (S.M.A.R.T goals)

Also, just remember money is out here, heal the blockages that are causing your ability to receive.

[letssweettalk]

4 Red Flag Lovers To Avoid At All Costs

There might not be a clear-cut rule on how to pick the ultimate partner, but there are at least four types of lovers you should avoid like spoiled leftovers.

1. Unrefined Leader

“Women don’t know how to be submissive.” It may not be that women don’t know how to be submissive, but rather no woman feels safe enough to let him lead. To be submissive, you must be able to trust the person you submit to blindly. You’ll learn that this person is not as dependable as they believe they are, and while you may love to submit, their actions don’t allow you to rest in their guidance.

2. Humble Pie Server

“You think you’re too good.” Carefully watch out for lovers whose primary goal is to humble you. They always find a way to remind you the things that make you happy are out of reach. There is no shame in being “too good” for something that would otherwise make you feel small. These insecurities show up when you express your interest, dreams, or plans, and they seem unattainable to the person you are sharing them with.

3. Jealous Lover

“Congratulations…” Jealousy flows without borders and can show up in relationships through backhand compliments and anti-celebratory comments. You’ll find that in moments when you have accomplished something big or small, they drag their feet to show you support. If it isn’t congratulations, then it could be hating.

4. Alpha Male Regurgitator

“I’m an alpha male, so that won’t work.” Self-taught masculinity often begins in an unrefined and toxic atmosphere. If a man's masculinity is cultivated through youtube and social platform leaders, they are likely to digest these messages in an unhealthy manner. The most dangerous part of false alphas is they will suffocate the flame of the pure feminine.

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[princessprettyprivilege]

I Challenge You To..

Be as delusional as possible for a week.

Take 2 selfies a day. You need to be very self aware of your beauty and pretty privilege. Do not wait 5-10 years and see how it’s like to feel average.

If you only drink water when you brush your teeth, begin drinking at least 1 bottle of water (16.9 oz) every 2 hours. Water changes your mentality and enforces self-discipline.

Literally embody your feminine archetype. If you’re worried you’ll be seen as an attention seeker because your archetype or femininity is trending on social media, GET OFF OF SOCIAL MEDIA AND SMELL THE ROSES.

Grandiose displays of femininity have ALWAYS been around but we now have pictures and audios within arm’s reach! Wear that outfit you’ve been staring at, hang up a woven teabag full of Epsom salt, orange zest and rose petals on your shower faucet, wear the lipstick that’s been sitting on your counter and speak the language you’ve been practicing for years in public!

Remove self-limiting beliefs and restrictions. You are the blueprint, a sex symbol and inspirational. You don’t need permission to wear what you want and to act emboldened because they’ll copy you anyways. Some people will sell their souls for your voice intonations, skin color and hair.

Pause overthinking. Referring back to displays of femininity, do not waste your time, sanity or money watering down what could happen if you take up space in a room or envision yourself as a desirable goddess.

View your self esteem as a trophy behind glass in a vault. No one can intrude unless they have your fingerprint.

[decadencediary]

**a manifestation board of being with a man who adores you, the ground you walk on and takes pride in providing for you**