your-radqueer-dad

[your-radqueer-dad]

A lot of my friends have started acting extremely b1g0t3d and have been just acting really rude in general. I think it's just a phase, I know they're good people. I think they're good people. I don't know, they make me uncomfortable and I don't want to associate with them but at the same time I don't want to be left behind. I don't want to be alone.

I just don't know what to do.

I think you should advocate for yourself, and if they insist that it's "just a joke" or something along those lines when it's hurting you, except that you might not be able to be friends with them during this phase.

Sticking with a group of people just so you don't feel alone is worse for your mental health than being alone. Especially if they're mean to you or people like you.

[your-radqueer-dad]

yip! hi papa!! idk if youre fyip (fine) with that, so just tell myip (me) if you arent :3 but how are yip (you)!!

Papa's just fine, kiddo💖💕✨️🍓🌈

[your-radqueer-dad]

hey dad… I’ve been feeling really confused and wahh recently. I’m scared of spiralling again (•᷄- •᷅

is it bad if I play video games all day

It's not an unhealthy way to cope. As long as you still try to fulfill your promises and responsibilities to the best of your ability, there's no harm in it.

[your-radqueer-dad]

Good night littles and kiddos 💕 ✨️🌙💖💕

Sleep well and have sweet dreams and nightmares💖💕✨️

[your-radqueer-dad]

dad ive been feeling seriously down and alone recently

can I get a hug or I dont know flowers

-Alois

I'm sorry you've been feeling down and lonely, I hope this helps a little✨️💕💖

[your-radqueer-dad]

I didn't even know you could do that! We're very new to being an awake system, and none of us have any control over who is front.

Thank you for adding your insight for the kiddo here!!

im kinna at an empass...

our host is transharmful (transbigot) and he's like. really into the transition n shi which most of us were cool with bc he wasn't hurting nobody

but then he started like. trying to get us out of the rqc n the queer community in general bc "he doesn't wanna be associated with fags" and is constantly starting fights w people. and i just learned he got us to vote for trump and NEVER TOLD US and i feel really fuckin gross and betrayed. we're bodily black too so this is so much worse on us

he refuses to change his mind on any of this. i wanna support him but like... i feel like he's taking it WAYYYY too far. some of the others wanna force him into dormancy and thats stressin me out a bit. if you have any advice please send it our way

He's got into the point where he's hurting people who are not consenting :(

He went from transbigot to cisbigot... like good for him on his transition, but I doubt that this was his original goal... to get to a point where he's hurting everyone...

If it was his original goal, he probably was always a cisbigot looking for something to excuse his behavior...

My point is he has taken it too far because he's hurting people who are not consenting now. He voted for someone who specifically hurts everyone. And making a political decision without consulting the rest of the system is not only rude but against system etiquette.

He's not considering anyone while chasing his goals of being harmful when consent is the biggest thing for transharmful individuals...

I'm repeating myself. I know that, but it's hard for me to process how someone can be like that when there's queer people in the head with them...

[your-radqueer-dad]

Okay ! So the term is 'transcountry' . I made it cause we have a lot of countryhumans fictives who identify as a country (it's odd but that's what happens when you get hyperfixated on history and countryhumans really young -) and don't really do so with the body being human . So ! We made the term to give them something (it can be used by any though !!!) -🌠🌟

That's the flag !!!! ^w^

That's amazing!!💕✨️💖💕 I've never heard of this before, this is so interesting💕✨️💖✨️ and the flags look wonderful✨️💖💕✨️🌈🍓

[your-radqueer-dad]

Hi dad!! :3

I'm glad you're fronting again

I have some updates like my new transstim which is transyipstim :3

Also I reached my goal on Duolingo!!

I set my next one to 50 because it'll help me commit to it more

That's amazing!! I'm so proud of you💖💕✨️💖🌈🍓

I'm glad to be up front too💖✨️ I really missed you guys💖💕✨️

[your-radqueer-dad]

goof morning dad! - 🦷🐇 ( @bigbearlittlepuppy )

Good morning kiddo✨️💖🌈🍓

[your-radqueer-dad]

Hii dad! First time ask u!

I realized I'm transfilipino! Just thought I would share it with u lol

Thank you for sharing!💖💕✨️💖 I'm so glad that you found something about yourself💕✨️💖✨️🌈🍓

[your-radqueer-dad]

im gonna bite you that's it :3

Lmao 🤣 I'm going to take that as a compliment, thank you💖💕✨️

[your-radqueer-dad]

Hi!

I'm transrussian (really wanna do a dna test to see if I'm a bit cis as well) but I really struggle to accept myself because we (system) have been really anti rq in the past. We really go from being rq to anti and back and I feel like it takes a toll on my mental health :(

I just really don't wanna disrespect any cisrussians and I'm having a hard time coming to terms with the fact I am transnationality. I just want to be proud of my identity and eventually move to Russia when Putin is gone. Why is this so difficult :(

Oh kiddo. You're not disrespecting any cisrussians by being yourself. They're going back and forth on being an anti or rq is definitely taking a toll on your mental health. I know it did mine.

I'm not sure what I could say to help you come to terms with your identity, but I support you, and I love you for who you are, not with the world tells you to be 💕✨️💖🌈🍓

[your-radqueer-dad]

I know I js sent an ask, but I js wanna get smth off my chest. Sorry for venting again. Life's just been shitty lately, and there are not many upsides to yap about yk?

I hate relating to Jimmy from Mouthwashing because people automatically assume I want to rape somebody. I AM NOT A FUCKING RAPIST. I just have self aware NPD and know I act a lot like him. Thinking I can fix everything, but instead messing shit up and ruining lives (NPD crash go hard) . The jealousy he feels towards Curly. The way he didn't feel sorry for hurting Anya, he felt sorry that he had to deal with the consequences.

Even worse when they use it as an exuse to mock the fact I'm a (anti contact) zoo. Making jokes about me being attracted to animals? Sure wtv idc. Only making those jokes because I'm a Jimmy kinnie? Objectively funny imo. But a combination of the two pisses me off.

God, he's so me. It hurts how relatable he is.

Obviously, I don't support non con (cnc is different because both parties consent) ppl r freaks for assuming I am a/support rapist(s)

I've personally not watch someone play or played mouthwash, so I'm not sure exactly what's going on. But I know you would never do those things. You can't control who and what you're attracted.

You're not a monster just because you kin, you're not a monster for not feeling empathy. You're not a monster✨️💕

Some of the sweetest individuals I know have NPD. I know one whose personal rules are "no one deserves to suffer" and "no one deserves unkindness" and this has lead them to be one of the kindest individuals I know. Empathy is not the end all to be all, it's your personal morals.

The point is I'm sorry that people can't see past your lack of empathy and your kin to see the kind individual you are.

[your-radqueer-dad]

Hey, dad. Sorry I haven't been active much. I hope you have a good day. I'm currently trying to get out of bet. Fuck R I'm literally perfect she tried to ruin perfection why is it getting to me. You're awesome btw.

-🍓🌙

You're awesome too! I just started fronting again, so far the day it's been pretty good. I've had a cup of coffee and a little bit of a migraine, but that will go away soon.

[your-radqueer-dad]

Hi dad !!! How are you today :3

I just coined a term today ! (Possibly , I'm not sure !) I think it looks cool :3 -🌠🌪

I know it's no longer the day of, but that's awesome! I would love to hear about it💕✨️

I'm doing alright, a little dizzy, and have a little bit of a migraine, but I'm okay🥰

[your-radqueer-dad]

Oh goodness, it's been a while since I fronted... Sorry it's been so long, kiddos! I'm going to work on some asks after I'm done with my coffee.

Good morning, littles and kiddos!

[your-radqueer-dad]

im kinna at an empass...

our host is transharmful (transbigot) and he's like. really into the transition n shi which most of us were cool with bc he wasn't hurting nobody

but then he started like. trying to get us out of the rqc n the queer community in general bc "he doesn't wanna be associated with fags" and is constantly starting fights w people. and i just learned he got us to vote for trump and NEVER TOLD US and i feel really fuckin gross and betrayed. we're bodily black too so this is so much worse on us

he refuses to change his mind on any of this. i wanna support him but like... i feel like he's taking it WAYYYY too far. some of the others wanna force him into dormancy and thats stressin me out a bit. if you have any advice please send it our way

He's got into the point where he's hurting people who are not consenting :(

He went from transbigot to cisbigot... like good for him on his transition, but I doubt that this was his original goal... to get to a point where he's hurting everyone...

If it was his original goal, he probably was always a cisbigot looking for something to excuse his behavior...

My point is he has taken it too far because he's hurting people who are not consenting now. He voted for someone who specifically hurts everyone. And making a political decision without consulting the rest of the system is not only rude but against system etiquette.

He's not considering anyone while chasing his goals of being harmful when consent is the biggest thing for transharmful individuals...

I'm repeating myself. I know that, but it's hard for me to process how someone can be like that when there's queer people in the head with them...