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what she says: i'm fine

what she means: the aos writers killed off lincoln campbell and said he 'earned' his death. what does that even mean? lincoln campbell has also been canonically confirmed to be an alcoholic and depressed and suicidal, so why did they think it would be a good idea to have him die by sacrificing himself? on a related note, why did he even need to sacrifice himself? the quinjet was already supposed to fly into space, he couldve just grabbed daisy and jumped out before it left. also why do the writers insist on Not Giving daisy a freaking break? why does everyone she gets close to have to have either a mysterious secret or have to die? and also, why did the final scene bt daisy and lincoln HAVE to mirror the Iconic™ steggy scene? its too much of a coincidence to happen irl.

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You’d think the way some people know you they wouldn’t do shitty things but then they just go ahead and surprise you

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To be of good quality, you have to excuse yourself from the presence of shallow and callow minded individuals.

Michael Bassey Johnson (via paigelovesrage)

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To My Former Best Friend

There was a day I thought I could not live without you.  There was a day that I rushed to hit your name on my phone with every piece of news because there was no other person I wanted to share it with more.  If there was tears in my eyes I wanted nothing more but to hear your voice.  A cup of coffee with you was the best day yet.  There was a day that when I was shopping and everything reminded me of you from the lime green pants, to the thin mint girl scout cookies, and even the song on the radio. 

Then one day just like all the years we spent building the relationship it vanished.  I slowly came to see you in the light that perhaps you always stood.  All the years I spent giving into the relationship.  Answering the phone no matter what time day or night for you, rushing to save you from whatever mess you had landed yourself into, being there no matter what you faced in regards to all the crisis you found yourself in with your marriage, and bailing you out of financial crisis to the grief of my own financial collapse.  Then one day I needed a friend a brief moment of need and just when I thought I could rely on a person who I had been there for I found that was not the case.  Much to my surprise the years that followed showed me that you never intended to be a friend the way I was for you.  Loyalty was never returned.  My heart shattered as I realized not everyone gives as I do.  Not everyone is a friend as I am.  Not everyone speaks the truth as I do. 

Detangling the emotions of a friendship was almost like getting a divorce from someone you thought loved you.  That used you and emotionally played you.  It took years and several attempts before I finally severed it.  My heart was left raw. Nights were spent sleepless and in tears, then slowly it started to heal.  Then one day I could talk to you again.  I could see your face without the slightest emotion.  My heart grew colder. Yes, I talk to you and yes, I call you friend.  Just like you do me.  I serve you the same cold dish you did me for years.  I can brush your phone calls aside and lie about what I am doing.  I can not answer your texts with urgency.  I can not worry about if you are dying because at one point I was and it didn’t even matter.  Matter of fact if you were to ask me for a favor I would probably say I could do it and not even show up without the slightest remorse.  Why?  Because I have no emotional ties anymore.  It took a whole year for me to let it go and emotionally disengage from you.  To survey the damage you did.  To really see just what you have done and what someone who even had respect would do.  I have found more steady friends.  Friends who are there no matter what.  Who give back.  I found loyalty.  I found those who believe as I do.  Those who meet me for lunch or dinner or coffee.  Who answer my calls or texts.  Who don’t lie or steal or fail to keep promises.  Who don’t use friends lightly.  Those who when I gave them recent news of things I was going through told me “we” will get through this and they have been there every step of the way with me.  They know me and I am proud to say I adore my friends now.  I found myself again.  I found love.  I found true love within me and within others.  I found it cannot be bought or played for.  I found that I can live without you on speed dial or on my thoughts and that I am actually happy. 

And to my former best friend: Good riddance dear “friend”.  I hope you find more friends like yourself that are shallow and using; because birds of a feather usually flock together.  We can continue to pretend to be friends just like you always did.  Two can play that game now. Soon you will figure out that others are playing you even better at that game…but to each their own. Life is all about the lessons you learn. I learned mine.

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Don’t be friends with people who:

downplay your accomplishments & success

aren’t happy for you

try to belittle you

treat you more like a puppet then a friend

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Signs you need new friends

• they gossip about all your other friends to you (this means they most likely talk about you behind your back)

• they knowingly put you in positions that make you uncomfortable

• they actively try to get you away from you family and other friends

• they make you want to change (and not for good reasons)

• you find yourself feeling self-conscious after being with them for periods of time

• they only value you for certain things you can offer

• they don’t invite you out

• they act differently around you than they do with each other

• they don’t take what you have to say seriously

• you always find yourself trailing behind on the sidewalk, sitting in a row by yourself on the bus, or being pushed to the back of the group

• they always talk over you

• they make fun of your hobbies and interests

• they always bring up past mistakes you made

• they pressure you into things you don’t feel comfortable doing

If you can relate to most of these things, please get new friends. I care about you, and you shouldn’t be dragged down by people who don’t love you.

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Some people really need to see this.

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A “friend” who never invites anywhere or talks to you isn’t your friend

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I forgive you. I forgive you for not being a friend. I forgive you for not knowing how to be there for someone. I forgive you for being careless with my feelings. I forgive you for lying to me. I forgive you ruining our friendship. I forgive you for not apologizing when you did me wrong. multiple times. I forgive you because I realize that if I don’t, I will never be able to have a good day where I don’t think about how much I hate you.

I hate you but I forgive you. (via makenzesteph)

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This is too true

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You think you know someone. You think there isn’t a knife in your back. And then they twist it.

E.K (via eric-khach)

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I noticed if I don’t text them first.. I don’t get a text, at all.. Ever ✌️