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NCT2020 ✕ Among Us

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Sex stuff you probably won’t learn from fanfiction and/or porn:

Erotic fic and porn can be a lot of fun! But if you aren’t being provided with adequate sex ed through other channels (comprehensive sexual education, frank and open discussions with trusted adults, etc.), turning to fanfic and porn for your understanding of sex is gonna leave some major blindspots and may leave you with some unrealistic expectations. While there’s nothing wrong with these kinds of erotica, they are fictional and tend to leave out a lot of the more realistic, human parts of sex - they serve a great purpose, but that purpose isn’t primarily educational. The following is an incomplete list of some things you should probably know about sex that a lot of fic and porn tends to leave out:

It isn’t always super hot or super sweet. Sometimes it’s super silly. Or sometimes it’s sort of mundane and you’re both simply scratching an itch. That’s fine too. (Hell, sometimes you’re talking about comic books while boning and your partner is laughing that you’re getting REALLY ANGRY about spider-man while they’re going to town on you.)

You will probably not climax at the same moment. It’s a sweet idea, but extremely hard to coordinate, and if all your concentration is going into coming at the exact same moment, you’re probably not enjoying yourselves as much as you might. 

Sometimes bodies make weird, goofy noises. Squelching, slapping, air-escaping, un-sexy noises. It’s okay to laugh at this. 

Hell, it’s okay to laugh during sex in general.

Sometimes you fart. Sometimes you fart while someone is going down on you and it is embarrassing as hell. This isn’t the end of the world. Embarrassing body things happen. Heck, sometimes, with anal, there’s a little poo. You get over it.

Sometimes sex is… kinda bad? This doesn’t mean it’s assault, or something traumatic – sometimes it’s consensual but just kinda bleh and not what you hoped for. The best thing to do (if you’re talking about sex with a partner and not just a hook up who you can not call back) is talk to them about it. Figure out what went wrong, what you enjoy and what you don’t, and communicate what techniques you do and don’t like. Also don’t be afraid to stop someone in the middle of the sex act you’re not enjoying and offer guidance on how to help make it good for you too. (Side tip: masturbation makes great research into what you personally do and don’t enjoy sexually)

You won’t enjoy every sex act. Not every body is wired to find every thing pleasurable. You might find anal does nothing for you. You may find g-spot stimulation just makes you really anxious that you’re about to pee. You may not enjoy giving or receiving oral. You’re not broken if you don’t like something that every pornstar or smutty fanfic protagonist seems to have earth-shattering orgasms from. Everyone’s got nerve endings in a range of places – it’s quite literally, different strokes for different folks.

On that note, not all orgasms are earth-shattering. Sometimes it just feels warm and nice. That’s fine too. 

Sometimes, if you’re neutral on a sex act and your partner loves it, you can suck it up for them, and they’ll suck up something they’re not crazy about for your pleasure in return. But communicate preferences with each other! Know that when a partner does that thing you love that they don’t get much from, that it’s an act of care, and vice versa. 

Falling asleep in each other’s arms right after wild passionate sex seems really romantic, but dried and crusty fluids are gonna be a bitch in the morning. Also, after sex, you should both (regardless of your equipment) go pee to clear out the urethra of any gunk or bacteria to reduce risk of a UTI. 

Putting a towel down on the bed before sex means you don’t have to sleep on wet funky sheets. (it’s also verrrrrry useful for period sex if you or your partner menstruate.)

A lot of people don’t like dirty talk, or rough sex. Always ask first. (Fanfic on the whole does a better job than porn at showing communication, but a lot of it is still highly fictive on this point)

PROTECTION PROTECTION PROTECTION. Use condoms, dental dams, etc. not just to prevent pregnancy, but to reduce risk of STIs. (Yes, even couples with the same genitals who don’t need to worry about pregnancy).

Lube is great and very important, but random goopy things around you are not good lube. Random oils especially, since oil doesn’t flush out well and can trap bacteria inside the body – oil-based lubricant also degrades condoms. Use lube specifically designed for intimate purposes. Water-based and silicone-based lubes help sex feel really good!

Bigger isn’t necessarily better. A lot of people with vaginas don’t enjoy the feeling of being repeatedly punched in the cervix by a monster cock. Some people enjoy a larger size when being penetrated by an appendage or toy and some don’t.

Bodies are hairy. Genitals are hairy. You may get a pube stuck in your teeth at some point. If your partner is WAY fuzzier than porn ever led you to believe they’d be, well, that’s normal. 

Not everyone loves the taste of ejaculate. Sometimes it’s nasty (flavor tends to vary from person to person depending on their diet, but sometimes you just really don’t like it no matter what. Some of us hate the taste of peanut butter. People don’t always like things). It’s okay not to swallow, or to request a penis-having partner warn you so they don’t ejaculate in your mouth (in fact, it’s polite for them to do the latter). 

If you’re gonna have shower sex, get one of those rubbery mats for the shower floor that gives you traction, because otherwise it’s super embarrassing to call for an ambulance while dripping wet and naked because you slipped and accidentally broke something and your partner got a concussion while you were trying to bang in the shower. 

Moaning and screaming wildly during sex is fun but it will make the neighbors in the apartments adjacent to you hate you. Make choices accordingly. 

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Guys I might write a taeyong X reader series with smut

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Mark Lee [ Super M ]  ❤️ ‘

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REBLOG IF YOU THINK IS OKAY FOR  A BOY  READ AND/OR WRITE FANFICTION

I’m trying to make a point to a friend

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TAEYONG X DAZED

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I just unfollowed like 250 people so

if you post/reblog/talk about:

stray kids

nct

seventeen

sf9

astro

red velvet

twice

black pink

monsta x

being gay

any and all combinations of these

then mayhaps like and reblog this so i can check out some new people? thanks :)

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wait DID THEY REALLY DO RIDE WITH THE ROCKERS?? u not lying??

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in need of diru blogs to follow.

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going to see them pyramids while pretending to be 100% human and being in deep disbelief regarding human ingenuity 

humans are so unimpressive&weak unlike my brethren, they could not possibly have built this. time to eat some rocks

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Thanks for @taiyonikorosareta for tagging me ^^

ONE/ name alias- people call me Lin but I call myself obutsu cause...yeah I'm obutsu

TWO/ birthday 2nd June

THREE/ zodiac sign- gemini

FOUR/ hight- 1,70

FIVE/ hobbies- learning German and Japanese, listening to music.. sleeping

SIX/ favourite colour- Black

SEVEN/ favourite book- either honour by Elif Şafak or No longer human- Osamu Dazai

EIGHT/ last song you've listened to- LINDA~candy dive kinky heaven~ by The GazettE

NINE/ last movie you've watched- oh god I forgot I think sleepy hollow by Tim Burton

TEN/ muse- I don't think I have one

ELEVEN/ dream job- translator for bandmen

TWELVE/ meaning behind your URL- well this band damy has a song called obutsu and I can really relate to the line kawaiku naritai obutsu

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I don’t normally add captions, but I just want everyone to know that this is the best thing I have posted and that I have to post on this blog. Everything from here on out will be disappointing in comparison. 

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Old School VK Twitter Links

Trying to make a masterpost of public social media accounts of vk musicians from the era this blog focuses on. I’m not really posting people who are still heavily active in the scene (Kisaki, Kamijo, etc…) but people that you might not have heard from in a while. Please feel free to send me anything I should add to this list, as I might not be THE master stalker with no life. 

Aliene Ma’riage

Mast

Kyoka

Ray

Azalea

Hina

Das:Vasser

Kyohei

Hideaki

Eliphas Levi

Kei

La’Mule

You-ya

Nao

Madeth gray’ll

Izumi

Mirage

Akira

Yayoi

Missalina Rei

Aya

NeiL

Teruhiko

Noi’X

Shina

Sleep My Dear

Kohey

Speed-ID

H.L. Euro

Syndrome

Shion

Vasalla

Sin

Shun

Kaie

Leaya

K-Suke

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苦悩の中の耐え難い存在／deadman