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i know we've long since passed the event horizon of recipe blogs becoming 99% Stuff That Isn't The Recipe but i still occasionally stumble upon an example of this phenomenon in the wild so blatant it makes me snort air out of my nose

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the wild thing about being autistic as a young adult is having no interest (and even a slight aversion to) drinking, drugs, partying, etc. but watching all the people you've known since childhood slowly leave you behind for them. it feels like abandonment even though they're just doing something very developmentally normal for this life stage, and it makes you feel like you are infinitely behind and an absolute loser lol

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Healthcare issues reflected in yaoi ✊😔

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more characters should be 30+ years old

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Snooooowww~ ❄️

its snowingggg

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My nails have gotten to the point where a break feels inevitable, so I figured I'd get a pic while they're still long and painted so nice~

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I wish there was a way to completely OPT OUT of AI. Like you could set your ENTIRE Internet browser to NOT shove it down your throat.

When social media was getting big, you could just NOT get a Facebook or a Twitter. It was simple as that. You can't do that with AI.

Trying to find a job? It goes straight to an AI filter. Trying to look at art? Here's 100+ ai shit. Trying to look up who was in what movie from the 1980s? GOOGLE GEMINI IS HERE WITH THE COMPLETELY WRONG ANSWER!

Someone PLEASE create a way to allow people to get AI the FUCK OUT of our lives if we DO NOT WANT IT!

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By this I mean, what is the most influential on your decision? E.g., for me it is the summary because I rarely pay attention to the title or stats, and only read the tags after I've liked the summary enough to want to give the fic a go.

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struggling with empathy as someone with npd is really difficult. i care a lot about my friends and partners and i care about how they feel, and i care if i upset them. but good god do i struggle to understand

i can reconize when i mess up and i can own up to it. but that doesnt mean i GET it. even in theyre just a little upset and bring it to my attention, im happy to take the criticism and i objectively GET why theyre upset. but at the same time my brain goes, "seriously? youre upset about this? get over it dude"

its insensitive to them. and i DO care about how they feel. like of course i care i made you upset but why are you even upset by this thing in the first place ?? its not that serious

like ill be there 4 u however little question marks will be spinning around my head as i do so

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chivalry isn’t dead. service tops exist.

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Have you ever wondered whether or not you’d be canonically queer if your life was a story? Look no further. This quiz will tell you your canon queer status. 

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and if yes pls respond/put in the tags with what you’re reading and whether or not you like it i need new books for the new year <3

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Y’all we have to stop making eachother feel bad for having sexual attraction. Lesbians are allowed to be horny we don’t have to be sexless pastel princesses holding hands in a field or smth. Be horny, it’s frankly revolutionary to be a sweaty horny dyke.

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You've been isekai'd into a fictional setting. Spin this wheel to find out which one.