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THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. It may save a life, It may save your life.)

An Article from Neena Susan Thomas

“Through a rapist’s eyes. A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interview…ed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh – HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:

a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.

If u have compassion reblog this post. ‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.

REBLOG THIS AND LET EVERY GIRL KNOW AT LEAST PEOPLE WILL KNOW WHATS GOING ON IN THIS WORLD. So please reblog this….Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.

THIS COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.”

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(X) DOUBT

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Late 80s/Early 90s Robert Downey Jr being a style icon ✨

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That smile

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Bruce, Steve & Tony vs their past selves

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HBC Summer Meet Cute for @that-never-happened

Request: Bucky meets a tattooed woman and thinks it’s The Sexiest smut ensues

Pairing: 1940s!Bucky x Tattooed!Reader

Bucky met her at the diner. She was sipping a strawberry milkshake and ignoring the judgemental glares of the other patrons. She was bold, confident. Red shorts, shorter than anyone he had ever seen dared to wear. A black tank top exposing her cleavage, midsection, and shoulders. Scandalous for a woman to wear such a thing at that time. Little black heels, one loosely hanging off her foot as she gently moved her crossed leg back and forth. 

The other customers of the diner may have thought of her to be a floozy who had no self-respect. Bucky, however, thought she was the sexiest thing he had ever seen. The confidence, her bright smile and the wink she gave him, her outfit, the way her hair was tied up with a bandana, all those things were attractive but what really got Bucky going was her ink. He had never seen a woman with tattoos before and she had so many. Her arm was covered in a sleeve of orange flowers wrapped in green vines. Matching vines ran up her leg. Smaller ones along her ankle and wrists that he couldn’t quite make out. 

He had to talk to her. Especially after the way she had looked at him when he walked into the diner in his army uniform.

“Hey, Solider” she had said when he walked over to her

Now here she was in his bed. She was even more beautiful naked, hair tussled and falling down around her face as she rode him. Her hands pressed against his chest, his hands running up along her arms. His fingers danced over the sleeve and he could envision them getting tangled in the vines that wound around her arm. He gripped her thigh, fingers indenting into the inked skin as she came, walls tightening around him, milking his own orgasm as she screamed his name. 

He rolled her over and brushed the hair out of her face, leaning down to kiss her flushed skin, trailing his mouth all over her neck and chest, moving to her arm to lick up the vines until he reached her mouth, taking her into a heated kiss. Her fingers tangled in his hair as he hummed against her. 

Bucky couldn’t have imagined a better way to spend his last few hours before leaving for the war. 

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Most of the intelligence community doesn’t believe he exists.  

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Tom Holland holding “Peter Barker”

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For Holland, he drew inspiration for the mentor-mentee relationship from real life. “It’s always a bit nerve-wracking when you meet someone you look up to,” Holland says. “I was just really grateful when I met [Jake] and I found out he’s a lovely guy and a great dude.” - Tom Holland for Entertainment Weekly

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thank you buck, but I can get by on my own.

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Chris Evans and Tight Shirts (2/∞)

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I truly love the line: “Now go to sleep, or I’ll sell all your toys.” Because it is legit just SO Tony. Like he’s the same guy we’ve grown to love, he’s just interpreted that into being a father. No offence to some fanfictions (I love and read them all whenever I can!) but often stories seem to change Tony’s character when he becomes a dad, almost making him this perfect cliche parent who loses some of his funny snark.

And I REALLY love Morgan’s reaction after he says it because you know he says this kind of thing all the time but obviously it’s not serious. Like Morgan definitely has her dad firmly wrapped around her finger.

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Not sure what character(s) for this but laying in bed with him and he slips a ring on your finger and whispers his vows before you slip his ring on and murmur your vows before he kisses you. Although it’s not a legal marriage you’re happy as can be. Sorry it’s kinda bad but I couldn’t stop thinking about this idea

I can imagine someone like Clay doing this 

Marriage Thursday™

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The cast of Avengers: Endgame attend the World Premiere at the Los Angeles Convention Center on April 23, 2019 in Los Angeles, California

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Hayley Atwell attends the 61st BFI London Film Festival Awards on October 14, 2017 in London, England.

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Same energies.