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Dating or whatever it is now

Dating in 2019 has taken a tremendous turn from when our parents were dating. Since these decades are so different do we really understand what love is? I’ve been in a relationship for a year and essentially a half at this point. For context I live in New York, I just turned 19 and not only do I work, but I also am a full-time college student. Even though my age may fool you I've had my fair share of experience in the dating world. I would classify this as my first relationship like a real relationship. I had a high school boyfriend but he doesn’t really count since I never introduced him to my family, we really just blackout those 8 months from my memories LMAO. Anyways the whole point of this post is how do we know if what we’re doing is right? I be thinking I’m having the time of my life with this boy but am I too dependent on him now? I’m a Virgo so you know how important our independence is to us along with stability. He’s also a Virgo so you also know we go head to head A LOT. The relationship I personally feel is like the old ones not like these new ones where everyone fucks over each other. 

I write a lot of papers about society and from a first-hand perspective I can tell you without a doubt our generation is the most fucked up out of the rest. Teenagers addicted to nicotine, depression, and self-hate are as popular as the Kardashians what happened to us that this is our lives. It is amazing that I feel like I’m going to thru it just as everyone else is though. Do you think our generation is just more vocal than the others? Like did our parents feel the same way as us growing up but in their society it was deemed as weak? Being perceived as weak is truly the worst thing anyone can tell me. If someone ever called me weak I would have to reevaluate my life. I take incredible pride in being able to take care of myself and provide for myself just because i don't know when you’re a girl you kinda have to prove everything u do. I'm not complaining but I’m just saying our generation has popularized things that shouldn’t be popularized because if we have the biggest voice of the century and if we use it the wrong way we would be joker instead of batman.