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genderman: collect my 8 pronouns pages

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New Chronicles!

Not an April Fools this time around! Go read it!

Chapter 12: SV, AO3

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“I don’t care about dumb weed jokes,” I said naively, before I saw this

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i hate when you google a word and some fucking company comes up instead. Do you think you are more important than the english dictionary you piece of shit corporation

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it’s 2028. trump is dead. elon is dead. zuckerberg is dead bezos is dead they’re all dead

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So anyways here’s a pancake manatee 🥞

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French onion soup rats 🧅🐀

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Egg drop soup rats 🥚📉🍜🐀

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From the makers of rats full of soup, I am pleased to bring you soup full of rat 🥫🐀

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The charity event was so wild. The hermits put on such a fun show (and raised so much money for the GO Karts!!!!!!!! 800k by the end!!!!) that I wanna share some of the screenshots I snagged of the event that I particularly loved.

...Most of them are just hermits being friends irl tbh-

I have a couple more, but tumblr mobile only let's you put 10 images on a post and I'm not making a reblog. I'm tired and gonna go sleep-

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all these arguments about the new harry potter casting but all i can think is that every person involved in the series has willingly signed up to work with such an outspoken transphobe

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briefly forgot that porn was a thing and googled "doctor sex" looking for the tf2 meme. big mistake

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sometimes we (i) forgot

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Learn to say “can you love me a bit harder today? It’s a rough day” and then explain how you want to be loved harder.

Learn to say “I could use some support. Are you able to provide some? This is how you can support me -“

Learn to say “I feel lonely. Are you able to keep me company?”

Learn to say “I’m feeling overwhelmed. Can I talk to you about it?”

Do this instead of dropping hints or expecting someone to be able to read you. What may be obvious to you isn’t necessarily obvious to someone else. You’re often hurting your own feelings by not communicating your needs and just hoping people meet them anyways.

I know this is easier said than done. We often drop hints because we feel ashamed or bad about asking for help. But the truth is, for most of our loved ones, us hinting at things is exhausting. It can also set them up for failure because they don’t know your expectations. Sometimes they miss hints but sometimes they ignore them because it’s more draining when they aren’t asked directly. It’s very likely your loved one would appreciate you being direct.

People often want to support and help you, but a lot of them like to be told how they can do that.

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