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I’m feeding you because I care about you. I want you to have good food that makes you happy. Nothing makes me feel more fulfilled than seeing your eyes light up when you eat something delicious. The rosiness of your now chubby cheeks when the food makes you excited makes my day. That growing belly of yours is just a sign that I’m taking good care of you. Your fatness is a testament to how much I love you ❤️

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Feedees are allowed to change their minds

Feedees are allowed to lose weight

Feedees are allowed to be overwhelmed with the changes to their body

Feedees are not just here to satisfy our kinks!!!

Relationships are also about cherishing and loving our partners for who they are!

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Reblogging for feedists looking for community

How do you begin to explore this type of thing? genuinely curious

If you're just finding your ✨feedism and weight gain kink✨ welcome!

Start Discovering! What about this kink do you enjoy? Feedism is a broad amalgamation of many different subkinks and fetishes, and even though it falls under one umbrella, people with this kink can like very different things. Are you a feeder or feedee? What weight is most appealing? Do you like gaining or just stuffing? Is eating itself erotic or more the power dynamic? Do you like praise and encouragement or teasing and humiliation?

Ask yourself these questions and think about what you enjoy. It helped me a lot to discover what about Feedism really appealed to me. For reference, you can use a jar of kinks like the one below the cut!

Find a Community! To really explore the Feedism community you have to go where the people are. Here are a few places and what you can find there:

• Tumblr! My favorite, of course. Great for everything, from erotic lit, kink ideas, fat empowerment, and of course, lots of feeders and feedees posting their content. You can try searching hashtags like #feeding kink or #weight gain to get started.

• Curvage! Another good hub to checkout and home to many Feedism models. They also have text forums with many different kink topics.

• Reddit! /r/weightgaintalk is my personal favorite, dedicated to discussions and questions related to Feedism. /r/stuffers is for female feedee pictures, and /r/gainers is for any gender.

• Feabie! The black sheep of the Feedism community. Probably the best dating site for Feedism, but it's known for being less than ideal. Still, there are a lot of people active there, and a good starting place for relationships.

• Fantasy Feeder! Old but gold, at least when it comes to erotica. Checkout their stories if you're into that kind of thing. You can also checkout DeviantArt and AO3 for erotic lit, but personally I haven't had as much luck there.

Ultimately, you just gotta search for what you're looking for. Start with finding out what you like, and then do some searching. Trust me, there's plenty to find.

Good luck, you dirty little pervert, and enjoy 😈

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As a scrawny little kitten, she wanted everyone to pet and hold her. But now, as a full-grown cat, you've gotta stuff her tummy with treats before she'll rub her big butt all over your body. (@neko_chan)

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reminder of the day: feedees actually have feelings & limits & personal lives too! hope this helps <3

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a love language

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Y'know, despite being a feeder, I've found I've become really submissive as of late. Pin me down with your weight, use me as your personal toy, and I'll feed you whatever you desire- to feel your softness is enough for me.

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Yearning to be on my knees, underneath my partner and eating them out, but to also feel their soft belly and fupa pressing on my head. It's hard for them to reach, so they're desperately moving themselves as close to me as they can to feel more...

and honestly, more is such a hot word for a partner to be begging.

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I think the concept of ‘relationship weight’ shows that when you’re being properly loved, accepted, and cared for, you tend to eat more intuitively, rather than focusing on maintaining society’s aesthetic standards

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The perfect relationship? Finding a beautiful princess to spoil and pamper in every way, especially if it means adding extra pounds

Providing such a surplus that your girl can’t help but grow bigger and softer as you indulge her desires? A dream come true

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You talked about your hard no's and things you would never do during sex but what are things you NEED like certain kinks you have that NEED to be explored

The big thing isn't even a kink it's that emotional connection. If I don't want YOU then I don't want to have sex with you. And if I want YOU then YOU are more important to me than my kinks. Like I have a HUGE mommy kink that's probably my biggest one, but if I was with someone who didn't feel comfortable calling me that, that's fine. I care more about your comfort than a title that gets me off.

In general, relationships require negotiations to work, so of course I'm willing to negotiate and figure out things in the sexual aspects as well.

So, there's no kinks I NEED to explore. Kinks I really WANT to explore? Yes. But that's not my priority. My priority is the person I'd explore them with.

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Opened up my asks in case there were people who wanted me to indulge in anything specific on this blog. Tummy hot, cnc hot, uhhhh..... yeah!

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i love super needy boys who will start humping my thigh because they’re so desperate for my touch. like aww, use your words darling and maybe i’ll give you some attention. <3

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Sleepy cuddles and groping that turns into forcefully breeding you at 3am because you're just too fucking hot for me to wait until morning to use you.

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Normalize in CnC and even free use relationships having sex at normal intervals just as well as having nonstop fucking. Both partners are human beings and bodies have physical limits. Sometimes hyper sexuality cannot happen always.

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