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me: immune system why do i have a fever

immune system: well the bacteria can’t survive outside 37 degrees for long so i thought i’d raise the temperature to kill them off!

me: 

immune system:

me: 

immune system:

me: we also can’t survive outside 37 degrees for long

immune system:

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reblog if you dont scream at 5am

trying to prove a point to birds

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me: wants to be multilingual, a musical prodigy, an artist, an author, a poet, an honour student, working in a well-paying job, successful and happy

me: sits on my couch eating three(3) party-sized bags of salt and vinegar potato chips and watching thirty-one(31) episodes of my favourite tv show in one sitting

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MBTI you are late!

xNFx: You are late!

xNTx: A queen is never late. Everyone else is simply early.

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1981 Magazine poster

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britpop in brief: Suede: doing coke in the loo of a gay bar Pulp: rifling through a friend’s mum’s underwear drawer Oasis: getting pissed and pissed off at a shit local pub Blur: looking for a bit too long at your mates in a locker room Elastica: your older sister’s friends that are way cooler than you

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10 Intimate Photos Of New Order That Capture The Manchester Legends’ Dark Magic - Photographer: Kevin Cummins

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we can do it lads

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Jag vet inte vad jag gjorde, men varför är det stelt mellan oss? Allt jag ville var bara att vi skulle hålla kontakten men antagligen var väl jag för på som vanligt. Tråkigt i vilket fall, Att de människor jag tycker om inte tycker om mig tillbaka

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Idk but today I feel very lonely and out of control and the things that I used to like doesn’t interest me so much anymore. And idk why I feel this way. I feel like times slips away and my life hasn’t lived up to my expectations. If you have my number feel free to call me... 

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You can boast about caring about your customers all you want but if you are paying your employees min. wage you are essentially only offering me a min. degree of care.

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Drinking gives you vivid dreams

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Debbie Harry by Andy Warhol

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I found myself reading a news article on a topic I am quite knowledgeable in and couldnt help but scoff at how poor the reporters knowledge of the topic was. I go on to read a different article I know nothing about and caught myself taking the article as completely true.

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me: *explicitly asks for validation*

someone: ur beautiful!

me: why am I literally surrounded by liars

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Hi! I was wondering about your opinion on a question: why do some people prefer to follow rather than lead? Thanks in advance.

Related answers:

ENTJ: Leadership

Short answer: It’s easier.

Long answer: Leading requires more time and energy than following. Most people think that leading is like sitting on a throne at the top of a mountain barking orders down at everyone below them. In reality, leading is like standing in the center of a busy intersection directing traffic while being bitched at by everyone around them.

The pains of leading include:

Managing everyone else’s responsibilities, not just yours 

Receiving blame for failure(s)

Navigating criticism and resistance for every decision made

Re-training, disciplining, and/or removing low performers

Resolving conflicts between group members

Sacrificing free time for the team/organization/project

The pains of following include:

Putting up with the occassional douchey boss or coworker then complaining about it on social media

That’s why they call it the burden of leadership. I used to judge people harshly for not rising up to lead when they clearly had the skills, intelligence, charisma, and moral compass to do it well but now I finally understand why the price can be too steep. Done correctly, leading is one of the fastest and most direct ways to impact positive change but it’s not for everyone.