Casper• Lvl.18 He/HimLover of words and making them my own.Currently learning Spanish and Japanese :)Art, Poetry
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i said it was my favorite piece of media that i’ve hyperfixated on since the tender age of 12 and have not let go of since. i didnt say it was a Good piece of media
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honestly watching my metamour and my bf interacting has to be the sweetest thing ever.
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confused my gayass bf w this one. “do you prefer bf or partner?” whatever you want if you put some pizazz in it shawty
I can be your boyfriend (gender neutral) and also your girlfriend (gender neutral)
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I wonder why I’m poor and then impulse buy every stuffed animal that has even moderately good vibes
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What Boy Meets Maria Means to Me
SPOILERS AHEAD
CW: mentions of SA and pedophilia. These topics aren’t comfortable even with me most of the time. Please stay safe, okay?
So. I picked up this manga because I fell in love with the art style and heard it didn’t have the usual fetishization most MLM stories have in manga. It seemed sweet, if not exceedingly dorky. Two theater kids fall in love. A one-shot MLM grumpy x sunshine story.
I had no idea what I was getting into.
“There’s nothing worse than always being alone.”
Now, this story felt deeply personal for a number of reasons. Let’s start with the main character, Taiga. He wants to be the best actor in Japan. He’s loud, determined, and doesn’t seem to notice when people find him utterly annoying, nor does he seem to understand the social rules of the world around him. All in all, he reminds me a lot of my current boyfriend.
And then there’s Maria. Or rather, Arima.
I’ve never been so hurt by how close to home a character hit before.
Arima was raised by a mother who wanted a daughter. He was raised as a girl, and often felt enough like one to be okay with it. But it never felt quite right. On this alone, I could relate a lot to that as a more feminine trans man. Girly clothes felt fine, being referred to as a girl didn’t feel inherently wrong. But being a boy felt entirely right, and that was something to feel guilty about. But there’s more than that.
Now. This is hardly something I like to discuss, so I’ll keep it to a minimum. At a certain point, Arima’s insecurity with his gender got to a point where he was driven to ask his teacher how he’d feel if Arima really was a boy. And, as soon as that was said, that same teacher assaulted him.
Of course, reading this was beyond painful. It’s natural to read something like that and get the pit in your stomach that’s usual when hearing of other’s tragedies. But how the event changed Arima meant just as much. The event led Arima to view being seeing seen as a man as dangerous, as something scary and vulnerable. And he found safety in his femininity, as that was never subjected to the horrors his masculinity did.
It’s often speculated that trans men are the way they are because of some bad memory they have with their born gender, rather than it being a part of their identity. I face the blunt of this rather often, as a trans man that also happens to be an SA survivor. Seeing this told from an AMAB perspective made it feel less belittling, somehow. My struggle with my identity since that point feels more real. My assault followed the same pattern as Arima’s. I disclosed with someone I trusted that I might really be a boy. And then I was assaulted by that person the same day. And like Arima, I still find safety in being perceived as feminine. I still often hide behind it, as being seen as the man I am seems more vulnerable. I’ve never seen my exact feelings written out the way I feel them.
Now, back to Taiga. I mentioned that he reminds me a lot of my boyfriend. Taiga, throughout the book, seems to look up to Arima for his talents. Arima however, is jealous of Taiga for his ability to be so open and outspoken about who he is and what he wants for himself. Neither understand how the other could want to be more like them. This was something me and my partner struggled a lot with as well, for a lot of the same reasons. It felt so silly and cliche at the time, for us to be jealous of each other like that. And yet, there it was. Not laughed at. Not mocked. It was seen as a real struggle. The reason we grew was the reason they did. It was real growth, and growth I can be proud of.
“I couldn’t help looking up to you. I didn’t want you to see my weaknesses. But it didn’t matter what I showed you. With you, I could be masculine. I could be myself. That’s how I felt. It was refreshing. And now, I really can’t let you see how pathetic I am.”
I’m happy I can say that I was able to make the same progress Arima’s character did. Healing is painful. PTSD is painful. And seeing my own painful view of the world put into words hurt. But I needed it. And I thank the author for giving this to me. I will treasure it forever, even if it was only one small book in a sea of other wonderful works. This one is mine.
For those who read all this but never read the manga, thank you, I guess, for being interested in what I have to say. If you decide you want to pick it up, please check the content warnings beforehand. And if it grows to be too much, drop it. Nothing is worth risking your mental health for, let alone a single book. What means so much to me does not need to mean as much to you.
I love you all dearly.
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You’re safe here, I promise.
Hi hi. Just thought I should remake my card. It’s been a minute since I made the last one, and I’ve changed a lot since then.
So, I’m Casper. Hi again. I’m seventeen and angled aroace. I hope to share my writing, my art, and my language learning journey with you all. I’ll mostly be sharing original work, but you may see the odd fan-work as well.
Some little things about me
I’m an INTP 5w4, for those who are interested in stuff like that.
I’m a practicing luciferian pagan of around 3 years.
My favorite book is Howl’s Moving Castle by Diana Wynne Jones.
Any fandom stuff you happen to see will likely be: Twisted Wonderland, Toilet Bound Hanako-kun, or Omori.
I’m a huge romantic. I know it’s ironic considering the fact that I’m aroace, but I’m smitten with the genre and the one person I ever got to experience those feelings for myself with.
DNI IF:
Transphobic or homophobic in any way. I will block you.
MAP. I am a minor. I will report you to the authorities. And I will block you.
If you try to speak against the validity of mental illness and/or physical and mental disabilities. I have diagnosed depression, severe anxiety, and ADHD, and ARFID. I will block you.
If you choose to be intentionally hateful in any way here, I will block you. Whether I identify with the group or not, my blog is a place of love. Stay the f*ck out if you have any intentions of trying to change that.
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😳 <- this emoji but without the blush or romantic connotation. im not blushing im staring you directly in your fucking eyes
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my boyfriend has my tumblr. wtfwtf i siMP HERE. MY BAD POETRY IS EXPOSED ??? HELP??
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Vaguing on tumblr is bad, not for any reasons potentially hurting the person being vagued about, but specifically because often enough I do not know who you're shittalking and I hate not being in the know
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twst has me in a damn chokehold
#disney twst#twst#twisted wonderland#twst ruggie#twst idia#twst jade#ruggie fanart#tweels#jade leech#idia shroud#ruggie bucchi
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listen I may aspire to live that light academia lifestyle but i’m gonna let calculus kick my ass idc
#this is what majoring in english is for#what are derivatives#help#light academia#study blog#student#studyblr
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Me and my ptsd and dissociative amnesia
hate hate hate it when adults tell younger people they're "too young to experience (x.)"
pain, memory loss, mobility aids, and disability are not exclusive to older people. young people can be disabled.
im nearly sixteen, and i have a hellish mixture of scoliosis and kyphosis. on top of that, i experience amnesia DAILY. my back doesnt hurt every day, and my brain doesnt refuse to remember important things just for you to say only old people can experience these things.
#you can’t have ptsd you never went to war#you’re so dramatic#how bad could your childhood have been#people went through worse than you did#cptsd#cptsdawareness
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every social interaction i initiate feels like i’ve violated like 15 untold rules
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a ghost story but it’s just a conservative catholic woman haunting a goth gay couple
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Transphobes who say their pronouns are beep/boop or something else in their bio underestimate my willingness to adhere to those pronouns
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hello and welcome to my eternal simp era
#mlm#mlm blog#my aroace friend sees my blog#hello friend#i am fairly certain you’re laughing at me#oh well
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