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Earlier Today...

Eight-year-old: *stares at her laptop screen intensely and furiously starts scribbling away on a pad of paper in front of her.*

Me: What are you doing?

Eight-year-old: I’m drawing love.

Me: *glances at her laptop screen to find a picture of Kai and Taemin.*

Eight-year-old: Like I said, love. 

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Me: You can’t go to sleep with your merch for the concert.

Eight-year-old: I need to.

Me: And exactly why do you NEED to take all that merch to bed with you?

Eight-year-old: So I can send Taemin positive thoughts while I sleep, dummy! I need to beat the fanclub president somehow.

Bless her tiny little heart.

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I feel like I should talk about what I found my little sister doing today...

Eight-year-old: God, I promise to tell my mom I broke the living room table. All I want is Taemin’s new album to be released soon in return.

The little Taemin fan has resorted to praying and making deals that involve her probably getting grounded for life. This is  what all the waiting has done to a eight-year-old Taemint...

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Me when NCT’s Teasers Dropped : *gnaws nervously on nails*

Me when SM Still Didn’t Mention Taemin: *silently rocks back and forth*

Me hearing about EXO’s September Comeback: .......Taemin, would you like to sign to a new agency? I don’t know, maybe people like Simon Cowell will know what to do with your talent.

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{170816} tvN Wednesday Food Talk Full Taemin cut (watch+download by Kindergarten)

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lee taemin, that was smooth af 

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Please Stop With The Death Threats And Fake Facts:

I really hate that this is what the world has come to. A bunch of people hiding behind their computer screens and asking for another person to be destroyed and removed from a drama he has been working on. Have we really become people who want success but would take it away from someone else in a heartbeat if given the chance?

Yesterday I made a post about all the death threats I found being sent to Onew and the rest of SHINee on social media and for some reason I thought that once people knew that the girl/victim had stated it was all just a misunderstanding AND that Onew was the one who wanted to further the investigation on her part EVEN when she told him it wasn’t necessary, that people would stop with all the negativity and bad labels. But my inbox and my feed are as filled with hate as ever.

I ask you again, what type of person are you that you can casually type up a death threat and throw around a title like rapist as if though its the most normal thing in the world to do? How do you not feel an an ounce of guilt for wishing harm on another living being? How do you look into the mirror everyday knowing that  there’s another person out there who you’ve just told to kill themselves while you breathe and go about your life? Are you so perfect that you can bash and completely demean another person’s life? 

I hate that we live in world where we continue to let people run around and wish harm on others. I hate that people think it’s okay to hate and threaten other people just because they can hide behind their computer screen. I hate that this is the world we live in now.

Words hurt. They send people down a dark spiral of depression that can and will lead to suicide. As someone who suffers from depression, I know all that very well. You can’t go around bullying people and wishing them harm and then want to pull up your shoulders and cry when they do exactly what you told them to do. Or is that the kind of person you really are? The type to send death threats every few seconds and hope the person actually does it? If that is the case, you need professional help because at the end of the day you are leaving the world in a worse condition than you found it in.

Lee Jinki is a human being who made the mistake of drinking himself into a stupor where he couldn’t walk without stumbling to the ground. Which is what happened. He stumbled and grabbed onto her leg to keep from falling. None of his fans or any Shawol has excused his drinking habits or called out the girl/victim. All we have done is speak out on the matter and correct the facts a lot of haters are still running with. 

Onew didn’t molest her and he certainly didn’t rape her. You can’t go about spreading things like that when they simply aren’t true and because you want to stir things up. We understand completely how the woman must have felt at the time to have someone stumble into her like that, someone who she doesn’t know in a crowded club too. Onew and his friends did apologize and she was the first to state it was all a misunderstanding. Onew wanted to further the investigation even when she told him it wasn’t necessary, he wanted to be sure he hadn’t hurt her in any way possible. He didn’t try to pay her off or use his status as celebrity to sweep it under the rug. He pressed for answers because he wanted the woman to be sure she was okay after everything.

I have no idea where some of you are getting your information but please direct your hating ways to Dispatch’s official report. The situation had been stated to be a misunderstanding and all of you still running around with fake facts and calling Onew a rapist aren’t giving anyone chance to heal over the situation. 

We are all human and we don’t deserve to live in a world where it’s okay to wish harm on others. 

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Please Update Your Facts On The Onew Case If You’re Going To Spam My Inbox With Anti-Onew Posts

I sometimes wonder if we live in a world where we only hear what we want to hear. See what we want to see and remember what we want to remember. Because there are still people spamming my feed and ask box with posts calling Onew a rapist.

For those of you who haven’t received the news:

THE GIRL/VICTIM HAS STATED THAT THE ENTIRE SITUATION WAS A MISUNDERSTANDING AND THAT ONEW WAS THE ONE THAT INSISTED ON THE INVESTIGATION ON HER PART EVEN WHEN SHE TOLD HIM IT WASN’T NECESSARY! ONEW STUMBLED IN THE CLUB IN HIS DRUNKEN STUPOR AND GRABBED ONTO HER LEG FOR SUPPORT. 

Not one of his fans have defended his drinking habits. In fact, if you actually read our posts...We’ve all asked him to work on it and reflect on what happened. None of us have pretended what happened was a joke or publicity stunt. NONE OF US.

All of you haters still going around and calling him a rapist are exactly like a newspaper running with a story that has already been proved to be false. And please stop asking his drama to remove him from the cast. He made a mistake, drinking himself into a stupor to the point he couldn’t walk without support. He didn’t rape anyone. Stop throwing around labels like that so casually please.

I don’t know if you didn’t receive the news or anything...But please do more research before going on bashing spree. Dispatch cleared up the situation with the girl’s help yesterday....And people are still getting their facts wrong. Please stop asking us not to support him.

Funny how everyone says they themselves don’t deserve to get hated on but those are the exact people hiding behind computers and spamming his drama’s website to get him kicked off.

Just please stop.

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wow, your excitement is lethal.

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For all of you who said, Onew was hiding behind being a celebrity to avoid investigation.

“Note that all parties acknowledge it was a mistake but it was even Onew and his lawyer that pushed for further investigation. He agreed to go to the police station right away, this was not swept under the rug.”

credit: @bumkeykPD

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It’s really about the fact that Onew got so drunk. Good lord, I’ve been holding my breath for too long. I can’t explain my relief in having a concrete proof that everything was not intentional.

I hope that the victim is well and I hope that this issue will be over soon.

Thank you Onew for telling the truth that you don’t remember anything. Thank you for not meaning to touch her. Thank you dispatch. Thank you police. Huge thank you to the victim and the friend who took Onew’s drunk state in to account. Thank you fellow shawols who have kept a steady and open mind. Thank you translators.

This is a lesson learned indeed. Everyone, drink moderately.

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Stop Wishing Death Upon People!

Over the course of the last 48 hours, I’ve had to listen and read to so many opinions but nothing could prepare me for the spree of people wishing death, jail and even the disbandment on SHINee. 

What type of person are you, that you can feel comfortable with wanting someone else to suffer and die? And in this case not even one person, but five people who have always given their 100% from day one? Do you have no idea how much words can affect someone? How words can actually lead to suicide and depression? Though judging by so many comments on this situation, that’s exactly what people want and the mere thought of that makes me sick to my stomach.

Do we really live in a society where we judge and prosecute a person without all the facts OR giving them the chance to defend themselves? My tumblr feed was filled to brim with people calling Onew (and even the entire SHINee) a rapist and people who said that he was no longer their bias or ultimate bias, hell even people who said they now wanted nothing to do with SHINee!

And they all judged him without all the facts. Fans, the media, and so many others who condemned him for something that has been stated by the victim to be and I quote “a misunderstanding”. None of you who talked so badly of him will ever be able to take back the words you said about him. NONE OF YOU.

This doesn’t excuse the state Onew was in or how the victim had every right to feel as she did before she realized it was a misunderstanding BUT for those of you who haven’t been updated with the latest facts...Onew stumbled in the club and grabbed onto her leg for support. Her leg, not her privates as so many of you went on and on about. She had every right to feel like something was off because getting touched in the club by someone you don’t know is scary, an accident or not. The point of all of this is that Onew is not and has never been a rapist, a label none of us should be throwing around so casually like that either.

As for the people who went on bashing the rest of SHINee...How long have you been waiting to do this? To say you hate and want nothing to do with them? Your posts just seemed a little too excited to me. Do I need to remind you all of just how much SHINee has done for their fans, kpop as a whole and charity? Taemin donates to charity each and every time he loses an item and doesn’t really accept gifts from fans because he’d much rather his fans do something for charity than him. Hell, they all do.

I guess after all this we know who the real fans are. Those who waited to hear the entire story before jumping the gun and unstanning Onew and the rest of SHINee. A real Shawol wouldn't have given up one someone they apparently loved and supported without all the facts. The situation had hurt me too and I spent a long time yesterday just crying and staring at the merchandise Onew and the rest of SHINee had signed for me at fan meets over the years. I cried and I waited for more to be heard. I didn’t jump to conclusions and start hating on people who dragged me out of my own depression.

I hope Onew finds a way to work on his drinking problem after this and I want him and the rest of SHINee to know that I for one won’t be giving up on almost 10 years together anytime soon.

We need to stop accepting a world where it's okay to wish death and harm upon others.

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So fucking done with fans taking stuff when they don't know fir aure who ia gulity and blowing it up

Well at least we all know who the real fans are now. The ones who waited for the mess to clear up and be sorted. So many people went on sprees of wishing death upon Onew and now the mess has been cleared up by the girl herself who stated it was just a misunderstanding. No one can take back what they said about him now. What made me even angrier was all the people bashing on the rest of SHINee and saying that they were a group of rapists who need to disband as soon as possible. I don’t know what type of a person you are when you go around throwing a label like that around when all that happened was: Onew stumbled and grabbed her leg and they stumbled to the ground (not her privates as so many fans went on ranting) and she thought he was trying to assault her. BUT she later said that she reacted to quickly and in hindsight she realizes that she may have jumped to conclusions. It isn’t even just fans who targeted him without all the facts, the media did it too. They ran with the story because of who he is and now they’re all left looking like fools because of Dispatch actually speaking to the girl and clearing up the entire mess. 

If Onew was such a bad person, he wouldn’t have insisted on the investigation for heaven’s sake. He wanted to be sure he didn’t do what the media and others were accusing him of.

Onew has spoken about trying to stop drinking for a long time now. Hopefully this is what he needs to snap out of it.