whatidonttellyou

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i been pulling myself out of dark places alone since i was a child. i’m built for anything

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“I’ve found that growing up means being honest. About what I want. What I need. What I feel. Who I am.”

— Epiphany

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i can’t wait to meet someone and realize i was never asking for too much

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“Keep the ones who heard you when you never said a word.”

— Unknown

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how they treat u is more important than how much u like them

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“When you lose a person, a whole universe goes along with them.”

— Lang Leav, The Universe of Us, from “A Whole Universe”

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you never knew me did you

it was never about me

just who you thought or assumed i was

it’s been so lonely being with you

if i ever find love in someone else

i wanted it from you first

it was never about me

and you still don’t know me

or at least

i don’t feel known

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It took me days of spiraling over the fact “what did I do wrong?” “Where did I lack?” “When will I be enough ?” And many other such questions to realise people can LIKE something and still not WANT it. People can WANT something and still not MAKE THE EFFORTS to get it. So it’s okay to not have the guy who you thought for a moment loved you , it’s okay to not have some things because with people it’s always a two way effort. Even when you give your 99percent to have them , there will still be 1 percent effort of them just saying yes to have them. So let it go, you have a lot waiting ahead for you. If you won’t move you’ll never discover those. So STOP MARINATING IN YOUR WHAT IF’s , and SHOULD’VE’s.

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“The saddest truth is realising you have fallen madly in love with what can never be.”

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Rousham House, Oxfordshire, England by Lindsey Renton

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Normalize seeing inconsistency as a red flag. Never let their mixed signals fool you—indecision is a decision. You deserve someone who is unquestionably loyal, consistent, and sure about you.

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