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WHERES THE LIE THO

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Lmaoo

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Worker, drone, and queen - the 3 genders

this little freak keeps sneaking into my garden and rubbing himself all over my flowers??Hello?????

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Steve's been acting differently lately. Tony is a little conflicted and confused about what Steve is trying to say.

For the: ✦ @Cap-ironman Stony Bingo 2024 Round 2 - Pet Names [September Monthly Mission /Replacing O2] ✦ @tonystarkbingo Round 8 - IMAGE: Focused Tony with a toothpick in his mouth [T3] (Card: 8050)

Word count: N/a - Art Title: Find Out, Tony! Rating: Teens Universe: Marvel Ultimates Pairings: Steve Rogers/Tony Stark Characters: Steve Rogers, Tony Stark Warnings: None Major Tags: Humour, Pre-Relationship, Aggressive Flirting, Pet Names, Elevators, Steve is trying…, Mark Tony down as Scared AND Horny!, Flustered Tony Stark, Bisexual Steve Rogers ~ Summery: Steve's been acting differently lately. Tony is a little conflicted and confused about what Steve is trying to say.

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This joke isn't mine. This was a years-old WIP that I redid. I can't remember where the joke was from, but I think it was a text post I came across on Tumblr?? About a shirt somebody wishes existed or something. I really can't remember.

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I be keta, you be mine

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Yeah I’m once’s again posting about Heartstopper especially about Isaac.

God last night uggghhh. I felt so called out in many scenes like you won’t even believe. The “asking your friends to ask them how does it feel to like someone” gave me a wave of embarrassment cause I did that when going through a time I felt like I had to like someone who liked me. Plus the smallest scenes and moments showing Isaac’s dilemma while noticing all the couples around him with the kind of slight doubt and unsure feelings written in his face like UGH I GET IT.

And it hurts me that only I get it.

Watching this with my friend and her boyfriend in the same room was a doozy. Of course I didn’t mind them cuddling and flirting, it’s just, looking at Isaac and seeing the isolation and inability to fall in love while being surrounded by his friends who are all participating in their own romantic journey was like having a mirror directed at me. I feeling of seeing myself play put on screen felt so alien cause I never could relate so badly to a character before. But what kinda ruined the experience was my friend who seems to not understand that Isaac was going through an AROACE story. Not just an asexual story.

Spoilers moving forward:

Ever since my friend found out that James was going to be a potential love interest for Isaac, she was stoked, while I knew very well this was going to be a “realization” story. I knew from the beginning that this was going to be an aroace experience about how even though someone likes you, you can’t like them back cause your unable to feel anything for them. Still, for some reason, my friend still pushed and wished for the potential ability of Isaac getting romantically involved with James and it made me realize she didn’t see Isaac as being aromantic. She knew he was asexual but she was doubting the fact that he was aromantic and had the mentality of “he is asexual but he can still feel romantic love.” It wasn’t until that Isaac talked to the artist in the exhibition and they explicitly said “aromantic and asexual” that she finally admitted that Isaac is aroace. Like, she really needed to be told by word that Isaac is aromantic to basically confirmed his validation. Which… hurt cause… it isn’t obvious???

Throughout Isaac’s whole journey there were so many hints and clues about him going through his aromantic and asexual identity but it seemed she kept pushing for Isaac to be at least being alloromantic because… love??

The fact that an explicitly aroace character was still getting amatonormativity pushed upon them was just… so sad…

I felt for a second erased. Misunderstood. Or like the possibility of being aromantic isn’t possible cause I mean who could reject love?

I left her house basically about to break into tears because of Isaac’s journey but I hold it in cause I didn’t wanna bother her about something that she wouldn’t understand.

It’s just… it hurts really. The one character created for us to represent the aspec community being pushed aside and have their identity be invalidated or turned around made me realize that no matter what we can’t escape the expectations of society. The need to get into a relationship cause it’s just “oh so beautiful” and “everyone will meet the one” .

Im so happy to see myself in Isaac, but just so… miserable too.

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Me: how did you know I'm aromantic?

Someone: you literally dedicate love songs to your friends

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What Christ AFAB????

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Wednesday was terrible

velma and wednesday shows have proven to me that network executives cannot be trusted with our weird girls we need to take them back by force if neccessary

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I swear this shit is garbage

Don’t u think those i am not a robot tests are getting harder in the way i think artificial intelligence can totally solve this but I can’t bc of my fucked up vision :/

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I love r/autism

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Marx was a fun drunk as it turns out

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I love the bit when you go back home after meeting someone and Google 'signs someone likes you' and giggle.

It's all downhill after that. So i Dilly dally and enjoy this bit 🫣🥰

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🤣

Here some Steve that finally snapped after all of Eddie's inuendo and now is aggressively flirting back. Eddie didn't expect it and panics <3 I found it while rummaging around my folders!

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🥺🥺

Autistic Flirting: he helped me gain two new special interests in the span of a year and he’s a huge part of my involvement w both of them <333

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I don't like when people touch me, but I don't mind as much if it's you.