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[wander-whimsy]

Hi birthday boy,

As another year rolls around, I find myself reflecting on what it truly means to celebrate this day—not just as a marker of time but as an opportunity for growth and self-love. The biggest act of self-love is to live for myself, not for the expectations of others.

In the hustle of life, it’s easy to forget what we genuinely desire. We often prioritize what others think, what they want us to do, or how they believe we should celebrate. But this year, I want to break free from those expectations. It’s time to embrace the joy of living authentically.

I’ve always dreamed of attending that art class, the one I’ve postponed because I worried it wouldn’t be worth it or that I’d look silly. But what if it’s precisely that experience that sparks my creativity? I’m ready to immerse myself in new experiences, even if it means going alone.

Listening to my favorite song on repeat? Absolutely. There’s something profoundly healing about surrendering to music that resonates with my soul. I’ll revel in the lyrics and melodies that lift me, allowing myself to be fully present in those moments.

And that movie I’ve been dying to see? It’s time to buy that ticket. I don’t need someone else’s company to enjoy a story that moves me. The thrill of popcorn and a big screen can be my own indulgence, a gift I give to myself.

Going to concerts has always ignited a spark in me, too. The energy of live music, the feeling of being surrounded by people who share my passion—it’s electric. This year, I’ll seek out those shows that make my heart race and dance like no one’s watching. I’ll let the music wash over me, connecting deeply with the moment.

Let’s not forget the places I’ve dreamt of visiting. Traveling doesn’t have to mean sharing it with others. Exploring new landscapes and cultures, tasting different foods, and experiencing the world on my own terms can be liberating. It’s about stepping out of my comfort zone and into a life that feels vibrant and alive.

To detach from the expectations of others, I must first embrace my own desires. I’ll remind myself that it’s okay to say no to plans that don’t serve me, to choose solitude over obligation, and to prioritize what truly makes my heart race. By recognizing that my happiness doesn’t hinge on others’ approval, I reclaim my power.

So here’s to living truly, to diving into experiences that resonate with my spirit, and to celebrating this birthday as a commitment to myself. May this year be filled with moments of joy, creativity, and adventure—done freely and unapologetically.

With love and excitement,

John Rick

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my 5 year plan is to get back my joy

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It’s amazing how some experiences can make us feel vulnerable, yet deeply connected to our roots. When we return to the familiar rhythm of our hometown or reconnect with old friends, it’s not just a comfort—it’s a return to the essence of who we are. In these moments, the world feels less daunting and more manageable. The connection we share with our past and those who were part of it can be a powerful reminder of our strength and resilience. Sometimes, facing our fears and recharging our social batteries requires nothing more than the reassuring presence of our closest companions and the familiar sights of home.

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Adulthood brings a poignant realization that friendships, once spontaneous and effortless, become harder to maintain as schedules fill up with responsibilities. The challenge of coordinating time with friends can evoke a deep sense of loneliness, as the ease of past connections gives way to the complex realities of growing up.

There’s something incredibly bittersweet about adulthood that hits you when you least expect it. You spend your early years with friends, practically joined at the hip, making endless memories. But then, life happens. Jobs, responsibilities, and the daily grind take over, and suddenly, everyone’s calendars are full.

You find yourself reminiscing about those spontaneous hangouts, late-night talks, and the simple joy of just being together. Now, it feels like trying to align everyone’s schedules is like solving a puzzle no one has all the pieces to. The saddest part of being an adult isn’t just the responsibilities or the stress; it’s realizing that even though your friendships are as strong as ever, it’s harder than ever to actually spend time together.

Growing up means embracing the reality that life pulls us in different directions, and sometimes, those paths don’t cross as often as we’d like. And that, honestly, can be one of the loneliest feelings in the world.

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Be cringe with me. Always text me, annoy me, send me messages or even call me anytime. Tell me about your day—I love hearing it all. Your little quirks and everyday stories make me smile, and I wouldn't have it any other way. Let's keep being silly together, because that's what makes everything so special.

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My Fist Has Always Been Clenched Around the Handle of an Invisible Suitcase: There Is No Single Room in This World Where I Belong

There is a sensation I have carried with me as long as I can remember—an ever-present awareness of my own transience. It's not that I dislike the places I've been or the people I've met. On the contrary, I've cherished many of those moments. Yet, beneath it all, I’ve always felt like a traveler in a land that never quite feels like home.

From the cramped, noisy apartments of my childhood to the more spacious, but still alien, offices of adulthood, my life has been marked by an undercurrent of readiness to move on. It’s as though my very being is tethered to an invisible suitcase—a suitcase that I hold tightly in my fist, always poised for departure.

This suitcase is not one of necessity but of choice. It’s a metaphorical vessel for my constant state of flux and a symbol of my reluctance to settle. It seems to embody an innate belief that no single place or situation can truly satisfy the wandering impulse within me.

Growing up, I had a room adorned with posters of far-off places and shelves filled with books about adventures and discoveries. My parents often wondered why I wasn’t content with the familiar. I’d always respond with a nonchalant shrug, masking the truth: I was already mentally packing my bags for somewhere else, even as I sat comfortably in my own room.

As I grew older, this restlessness evolved into a broader existential questioning. Jobs, relationships, cities—they all felt like temporary waypoints on a journey whose end was never quite clear. Every new setting brought a sense of excitement, yes, but also an undercurrent of unease. The feeling of belonging always eluded me, and with it, the sense of permanence I longed for.

Despite this, there is an undeniable comfort in the knowledge that I am not alone in this feeling. I have met many who share this sense of perpetual displacement, this uncanny sensation that no single space can claim us entirely. It’s a condition of our era, perhaps, where mobility and choice are paramount but where true grounding can be elusive.

In moments of reflection, I wonder if this is a curse or a blessing. The constant readiness to leave means I never fully immerse myself in the present, but it also means I am perpetually open to new experiences and perspectives. The suitcase might be invisible, but its weight is very real, a constant reminder of my ongoing journey.

So, while I may never find a single room where I truly belong, I am learning to embrace the journey itself. The handle of that invisible suitcase is now more of a companion than a burden. And perhaps that is where my true sense of belonging lies—not in any specific place but in the ongoing act of moving, learning, and evolving.

Ultimately, it seems, my journey is my home.

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A Note of Thanks to My Old Self for Persevering

Hey Old Me, I hope you’re reading this with a smile, wherever you are and whatever you’re doing. I just wanted to take a moment to express my heartfelt gratitude. Thank you for holding on during those times when the journey felt endless and the goal seemed unreachable. I know there were moments when giving up seemed like the easier option, and progress felt invisible despite your best efforts. But you kept going, even when things were tough, and I truly appreciate that. Your determination and decision to keep pushing forward despite the obstacles have made a huge difference. You faced challenges head-on and continued moving forward when quitting would have been simpler. Your hard work and dedication have led to the improvements we’re seeing now and made the light at the end of the tunnel much clearer. I want you to know that every small step you took, every bit of progress you made—even if it seemed minor at the time—has contributed to something significant. Your efforts have paved the way for the achievements and growth that have followed. So, thank you for not dwelling on the past and for continuing to move forward, even on the hardest days. Your resilience has been a key factor in how far we’ve come. I’m incredibly proud of you and grateful for everything you’ve done to get us here. Keep believing in the power of small steps and the importance of persistence. Your journey has shown that even when progress isn’t immediately visible, it’s always happening. With all my appreciation and pride, Your Future Self

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Open Letter to my Friends My Lifelines in a Turbulent World

Dear Friends,

Today as the National Friends Day, I sit down to write this letter, my heart overflows with gratitude for each and every one of you. You are the answered prayer I never knew I needed, the shining lights that guide me through life's darkest moments. In a world where everything seems uncertain and chaotic, having you by my side brings me immeasurable comfort and strength.

Life is undeniably hard, filled with twists and turns that often leave us feeling lost and alone. But with you, I never have to face those challenges alone. Your unwavering support, love, and friendship remind me that no matter what life throws our way, we can overcome it together.

In a world where true friendships are rare, I consider myself incredibly fortunate to have found each of you. You are not just friends; you are family – the family we choose for ourselves. Your presence in my life fills it with laughter, joy, and countless cherished memories that I will hold dear forever.

In times of need, you are always there to lend a listening ear, offer words of encouragement, or simply share a comforting hug. Your kindness knows no bounds, and your generosity of spirit inspires me to be a better person every day.

I want you to know that I appreciate you more than words can express. You are the rocks upon which I lean, the pillars that hold me up when I feel like crumbling. Your friendship is a gift that I will always treasure, and I am endlessly grateful to have you in my life.

So here's to us – to the laughter we share, the adventures we embark on, and the bond that ties us together. Thank you for being the answered prayer I never knew I needed. I love you all more than you'll ever know.

With all my love and gratitude.

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Hey you there,

I hope you're doing alright, or at least on your way to feeling a bit better. Life has a funny way of tossing us around like waves in the ocean, doesn't it? Sometimes it feels like we're surfing effortlessly, catching every break just right. Other times, though, it's like we're caught in a storm, struggling just to keep our heads above water.

I want to remind you of something important—life, much like the ocean, is incredibly diverse. It's not just about the calm waters and sunny days; it's also about the turbulent waves and unexpected storms. These challenges, as daunting as they may seem, are what shape us and make our journey unique.

Think about those big, blurred waves crashing on the shore in that photo. At first glance, they might appear chaotic and overwhelming. But if you take a moment to really see them, you'll notice their power and beauty. Each wave tells a story of resilience and strength, of overcoming obstacles and moving forward.

So, when life throws its challenges your way, remember this: you are like those waves. You have the strength to rise above the turbulence and find your way back to calm waters. Embrace the highs and lows, knowing that they are all part of your journey. Just as the ocean remains breathtakingly beautiful despite its occasional storms, so too can your life be full of beauty and wonder.

Reach out to friends and loved ones when you need support—they're your lifeline when the waves get rough. And don't forget to celebrate the moments of calm and joy, relishing in the simple pleasures that make life so precious.

Keep riding those waves, my friend. You've got this.

With waves of support,

John Rick

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Hi luv,

I hope this letter reaches you wherever you are in this wide world of ours. There’s something I’ve been thinking about lately, and I wanted to share it with you.

For once, I want to feel like I’m not the only one who’s scared of losing someone. I’ve always found myself fighting to keep people close, wondering if I’m doing enough, if I mean enough. But I want it to be different with you.

I want to feel your heart skip a beat at the thought of me walking away. I want to see you fight for us when things get tough, not because you have to, but because you can’t imagine a world without us together.

I’ve spent a lot of time being the one who’s afraid, who’s trying to hold on. For once, I want to feel the warmth of your arms pulling me back when I start to slip away. I want to know that you’re in this with me, that we’re a team, facing whatever comes our way.

So, when we find each other, let’s promise to cherish what we have, to fight for it when it’s worth fighting for, and to never take each other for granted. Let’s be scared together sometimes, and let that fear remind us of how much we mean to each other.

I don’t know when or how we’ll meet, but I’m hopeful that when we do, we’ll recognize each other in an instant. Until then, I’ll be here, saving a space in my heart for someone who’s ready to be scared of losing me, just as I am ready to be scared of losing them.

Take care, and I’ll see you when the time is right.

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Today, I want to share something that often gets lost in the shuffle of our daily lives: the power of living in the present moment. Whether you're navigating the ups and downs of teenage years or reflecting on a lifetime of experiences in late adulthood, this message is for all of us.

It’s so easy to get caught up in what’s next or dwell on what’s passed. But right here, right now, lies the essence of life itself. It’s in the laughter shared with friends, the quiet moments of reflection, the simple joys of everyday existence.

Let's take a moment to pause and truly appreciate where we are. Let's cherish the present for all it offers—possibilities, connections, and the beauty of simply being. Whether you're amidst the chaos of youth or the wisdom of age, each moment holds its own magic.

So, let's commit to embracing the present. Let's set aside worries about the future and regrets of the past, and instead, immerse ourselves in the richness of now. Because when we do, we find that the most important moments of our lives aren't waiting for us—they're already here, all around us.

Here's to living fully in the present moment and savoring every bit of this incredible journey called life.

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Hey @parmesancheeze ,

Congratulations on your graduation! I couldn't be prouder of you and all the hard work you've put in over these years. Your achievement today is a testament to your strength and dedication.

I feel so fortunate to have you as my friend. Our journey together has been filled with laughter, support, and unforgettable moments. You've always been there for me, and I want you to know how much your friendship means to me.

As you embark on this new chapter, I have no doubt that you'll continue to succeed and make a difference in whatever path you choose. Remember, I'll always be here cheering you on every step of the way.

Here's to celebrating your success and looking forward to many more milestones together. Congratulations again, my straight guy best friend!

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Lately, I've been thinking about the idea of a slow burn kind of love. You know, the kind that creeps up on you and just feels right. That's how I feel about you.

You've got this way about you that's just easy to like—your humor, your kindness—it all adds up to someone I really admire. Whether we're chatting about random stuff or just hanging out, it's always a highlight of my day.

I'm not sure if you've noticed, but there's something more than just friendship brewing here on my end. Maybe you've caught a glimpse of it; maybe not. Either way, I'm cool with letting things unfold naturally. No rush, just enjoying the journey.

So, here's to more moments together, and who knows, maybe our slow burn will turn into something even brighter.

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Dear Forest Jam,

I've been thinking a lot about what you said—that you consider yourself "problematic" and a "walking red flag." And you know what? It doesn't change a thing for me. We all have our struggles and challenges; it's part of being human. What matters most is that you acknowledge them and are working on becoming the best version of yourself. That's something to admire, not shy away from.

I want you to know that I see beyond these labels. To me, you're someone with depth and potential, someone I care deeply about. I believe in you, and I want to be there to support you, not judge you. Your journey is yours, but please know that I'm here to walk alongside you, to help you grow and overcome whatever challenges come your way.

Don't worry about being "problematic" or a "red flag." To me, those are just parts of a bigger picture—a picture that includes your kindness, your humor, and all the wonderful things that make you who you are. I'm willing to accept all of you, because I believe in the person you are and the person you're becoming.

So, let's keep talking, keep sharing, and keep supporting each other. Whether it's as friends or something more, I'm here, and I'm not going anywhere. Because I believe in us, in what we could be, and in the beauty of being flawed, yet striving to be better together.

With all my heart,

John Rick

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All the known luck I need, may it find me with speed.

I've got an interview lined up for my dream job, and I could really use some luck since I might used them all. I've been prepping for about a week now, and it's been nerve-wracking knowing it's tomorrow. I feel ready though; the job description fits me perfectly. Still, here's hoping for a great interview and the best possible result! 🍀

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Dear Jessell,

It's been seven years, and not a day goes by without thoughts of you crossing my mind. Your absence has left a void in my life that can never be filled, and I find myself longing for the sound of your laughter and the warmth of your embrace.

I miss our late-night conversations, where we would delve into the depths of the universe and ponder the mysteries of life. You had a way of seeing the world through a lens of wonder and curiosity, and your insights never failed to leave me in awe.

I remember how you used to talk about infinity – how you believed that the universe was vast and boundless, filled with endless possibilities waiting to be explored. You saw beauty in the unknown, and you embraced the uncertainty of life with courage and grace.

In your absence, I find solace in our shared memories and the lessons you taught me. You taught me to live with passion and purpose, to cherish every moment, and never take anything for granted. You showed me that life is precious and fleeting and that we must make the most of our time.

As I navigate through life without you by my side, I carry your spirit with me always. Your love, your laughter, and your wisdom are etched into my heart, guiding me through the darkness and lighting the way forward.

Though you may no longer be here in the physical sense, your presence continues to inspire me every day. I see glimpses of you in the beauty of the sunset, the gentle rustle of the leaves, and the infinite expanse of the night sky. You are everywhere and nowhere, existing in the boundless reaches of infinity.

I take comfort in knowing that your spirit lives on, soaring through the cosmos and dancing among the stars. You are free now, free to explore the infinite wonders of the universe and discover the secrets of eternity.

Until we meet again, my dear friend, know that you are loved and missed beyond measure. May you rest in peace, knowing that your legacy lives on in the hearts of those who were fortunate enough to know you.

With love always, John Rick

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