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I MADE MY FURSONA!!! He is pup-bee :3

this was a f2u base, just wanted to make that clear, i left the creators tag in ^^

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💜 Bright Heart Raccoon 💜

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💚 Gentle Heart Lamb 💚

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🌸 Lily the Flutter Pony 🦋

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🌧️ Grumpy Bear Stimboard 🌧️

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Might be looking into ordering stuff to make a custom paci for myself... but if I made KISS and rock band themed custom deco pacis.. would anyone be interested in those? /gen

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If you have one, what is your favourite hard candy?!

I have root beer flavored hard candies I like a lot!! :3

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friends asked me to draw a bee with a binky here you guys can have it too

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Carnelian frog amulet, Egypt, 18th Dynasty, 1540-1296 BC

from The Cleveland Museum of Art

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🍋 Lemon Meringue Stimboard 🍋

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Real picture of me playing minecraft by my little self

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something that isn't talked about

(but is important to bring up)

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Caregivers can be caregivers to bad littles as much as littles can be littles to bad caregivers. I've never seen a post bring up this topic so I will.

Littles who manipulate their cg to take care of them longer, do exist. Littles who make their caregivers feel bad over something they can't control, exist. Littles who will ghost theirs caregivers to make them worry and/or to punish them for something, do exist. And littles that are bad DO EXIST.

I'm tired of this common trope around the community where it brings light that tell littles the red flags in caregivers, (which is important); but so is letting caregivers know what is the red flags in littles as well. There are bad caregivers, and there are bad littles as well. I've seen it brushed under the rug a lot simply because "oh littles don't know any better they don't know blah blah blah-" yeah well that isn't an excuse to treat your caregiver horribly. /Not at anyone (reading this post)

Caregivers aren't robots that are gonna be there 24/7 to take care of you. to protect you, to coddle you, etc. They have feelings and have their own bad days too. Please don't use that against them simply because they don't feel the best that day. Treat caregivers with the love and respect they deserve. They do so much for us already that it's unfair to treat them like all they are is to be your caregiver, and not some friend or anything.

Thanks for coming for my tedtalk. ~Cole, they/it, a fellow caregiver 🐰

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funshine bear <3