veridisloves

[veridisloves]

imagine going to bed with your f/o. crawling into the bed and settling under soft blankets. feeling the heat from their body create a cozy pocket of warmth. imagine drifting to sleep to the sound of their soft breathing, and depending where you live, to the sounds of traffic or crickets or planes. basking in the soft gray light from the moon, casting stripes from the slats in the blinds onto your blanket.

alternatively, imagine going to bed before your f/o. they're getting home extra late, and they don't want you to lose sleep waiting up for them. you drift to sleep, waking slowly when you hear them arrive home. imagine hearing them stepping gently around your home, setting down their things, maybe getting a snack or a glass of water. you can see the warm golden light from outside your bedroom. they make their way to the bathroom and turn on the shower, and the ambient pitter-pattering of the water lulls you to sleep again, until you feel them finally climb into bed next to you. they wrap their arms around you and kiss the top of your head before falling asleep themselves.

there's nothing to do the next day, no alarms set, just pure peace ♡

[veridisloves]

Your f/o would not be mean to you for using stim toys (or for stimming in general). They would not be embarrassed to be seen with you, they would not find you annoying, and they would only want you to stop/redirect if you were really hurting yourself.

Your f/o would not be mean to you for owning/collecting plushies or other "childish" things. In fact, they might even buy more of them for you if it's something you'd like to receive as a gift.

Your f/o would not be mean to you for talking to them about your special interests. They're always so happy to see you enjoying something you're passionate about. They'll ask you questions about it and maybe even try to get into it themself so you can share that together.

Your f/o would not be mean to you for avoiding certain foods/ingredients because of sensory issues. They'll always make sure you have foods that you enjoy with nothing that you don't like in it. They don't think you're just being picky and they wouldn't try to trick you to eat anything.

Your f/o would not be mean to you for being "too sensitive". Even if they don't understand exactly why you're feeling a certain way, they respect your feelings and will do anything they can to help you feel better again.

Your f/o would not be mean to you for messing up or making mistakes, or for needing instructions confirmed several times so you can avoid making a mistake. They don't think you're stupid. They'd never think that.

Your f/o would not be mean to you for having a meltdown. They know it's not your fault and they know you're aren't just throwing a tantrum on purpose. They will do anything to help you through it.

Your f/o would not be mean to you for not having the spoons to do something. They wouldn't accuse you of being lazy or selfish. If it was something that really needed to be done they would help you or they would do it for you.

Your f/o would never see you as a burden. They only ever see you as the person they love.

proship/darkship/neutral DNI

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Imagine your f/o caught you silently crying in bed. They wrap their arms around you as they pull you closer, worriedly asking what's wrong in the calmest tone. They turn you to face them and cup your cheeks as they gently dry your tears with their fingertips.

If you tell them you're struggling with your mental health, they won't judge. They'll listen and place your head on their chest so you can calm down to the sound of their heartbeats.

They love you. Every part of you.

dividers × pro-shippers dni

[veridisloves]

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TW: Menstruation mention for those who are uncomfortable with it (this is geared towards afab people and f/o who aren't familiar with the term)

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So, it's that time of the month? You're lying down on the bed with a heating pad, water, and even weighted blankets as you watch your favorite media when all of the sudden your f/O rushes in. They seem worried, scared even, that you look like you're sick or even in pain (which the latter might be the case).

Once you explain that it's just your weekly period, they're even more worried as they run to the kitchen / store to get chocolates, Tylenol, snacks, anything to help ease the pain. Once they rush back with the supplies, you try to calm them down. Throughout the week, they're sticking by your side and keeping a extra eye on you.

They care A LOT about you, so to see you in pain (even of something they don't fully understand) makes them worried but determined to take care of you. If you're trans and experiencing this, it doesn't make you less of the gender you identify to them! It's just a part of the body that tends to be a jerk sometimes. :p

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[veridisloves]

Whenever in some type of pain, imagine your F/O right nearby you and comforting you. If it helps they will pull you closer, allow you to hold them or them holding you. If it is too painful however they will soothe you the best they can. Maybe with soft touches or just their presence.

They will let you rest, knowing that you need it whenever possible. If you wish they will even rest alongside you. All to make sure that you feel comfortable in these moments.

Maybe they are a little clumsy, even when trying to treat you with care, but know that they mean well and are trying their best to help you out, ease the pain. You do the best for them and they will do their best for you!

Proship / Comship do not interact please!

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Your f/o would never, ever out you. Or use the wrong terms for you unless your safety was on the line! Even then, once the two of you were at a safe space, they'd give their own form of reassurance. Reiterating that your identity is okay. That there isn't anything wrong with being yourself and that they love you, no matter what. Your f/o would do what they could to help you feel better, more comfortable, and as safe as they possibly could.

proship/darkship/neutral DNI

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I made a strawpage dedicated to my f/o. /pos

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Imagine seeing the holiday lights with your f/o:

The whole town is decorated in beautiful fairy lights and you couldn't wait to show all of them to your f/o! You both spend the whole day excited about what the night has in store for you.

Once you head out, you're both met with beautiful decorations and lights all over the town square, it makes your f/o's eyes sparkle in wonder like never before.

You both take a moment to take some pictures together and your smiles couldn't be wider! They hold you close and make sure you get their good side in every picture you take!

You both hold on to each other's hand while walking around, just admiring the view and enjoying each other's company as you talk about anything that comes to mind.

After a bit, you both decide to get something to eat, so your f/o takes you to your favorite restaurant. You both share your favorite meal while the city sparkles all around you.

proship/darkship/neutral DNI

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Imagine a self care night in with your f/o! You spend the evening in comfy clothes drinking your favorite hot drinks. Maybe you do each other’s skincare, feeling the cooling sensation of the product while you gently apply it for each other. The night is slow and calm as you catch up and get away from the chaos of your daily lives, letting all the usual facades and masking fall away in each other’s company.

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Okay, I gonna make the "My hubby is vewy sowwy." Disventure Camp reference way too much now.

[veridisloves]

imagine f/o laying next to you to soothe your tummy ache, whatever the reason is. if you want, they'll rub circles on it, their touch feather light and gentle. if it's too much to touch it, they'll just be there, maybe wrap and arm around your shoulder, trying to avoid pressure on your tummy. they place gentle kisses on your face, reassuring and comforting you that the pain will go away eventually. they'll be there as long as you need <3

[veridisloves]

I’m longing for my snug pajamas and my F/O’s arms around me.

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Imagine your f/o giving you a long, warm hug.

Or

Imagine you giving your f/o a long, warm hug.

proship/comship/neutral DNI

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Imagine your f/o wrapping you in a comfy blanket. They give you a small kiss on the lips and then lean onto you, hugging you, letting themselves rest while you rest as well.

proship/comship/neutral DNI

[veridisloves]

for self shippers who feel like they "cry too much"...

your f/o would never walk away from you when you cry. if you're okay with physical touch while you're emotional, they'd hold you while you cry and whisper reassurances that you're okay. your emotions aren't "too much" or "too big" for them to handle, they'll always be at your side while you're dealing with them. they want to be a comforting presence for you, and would provide you with water and anything else you may need when you start to calm down ᯓ★

dividers made for me by kynibyou! ✦ prosh¡p dni.

[veridisloves]

Your f/o knows you're doing your best, and they're proud of you.

proship/comship/neutral DNI