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having sex with life

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Women have been duped by this culture because we have not been properly taught the value of our self-care and wellness over self-sacrifice. I have never had a lover ask me if I'm bringing 50/50 to the table. If you are meeting lovers who are asking very low -wattage questions like 'what are you bringing to the table,' it's a good indication that your feminine energy is missing. Our elder grandmothers were never asked these type of questions. A potential lover would FEEL blessed just to be in their presence and I do not mean it in a self-indulgent arrogant strict binary way but in a way that simply calls a spade, “a spade.” A woman in this new generation must learn to value and take supremely good care of herself and any potential lover will naturally see the value in her without her needing to prove her worth. What you bring to the able should be evident in your quality of health, depth of heart, aura, posture, smile, ease, thoughtfulness, relaxed nature, and attention-to-detail. --India Ame'ye, Author

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He could see her smell; it glowed against the backs of his eyelids, pure shimmering gold to deep undulating amber. And he could taste each note; savour the melting progression on his tongue, the shocking, perfect combination of contrasts, underpinned by a creamy, intensely carnal core of raw sexuality.

-Kathleen Tessaro, from The Perfume Collector

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How to be more organised ౨ৎ⋆ ˚｡⋆

Step 1 -> Clean up. ˚ ༘♡ ⋆｡

Go through your emails, messages, photos, notes, etc.

Clean your room and find a place for everything.

Donate everything you don't need (clothes, old toys, books...)

Clean your makeup and throw away everything that might be expired.

Step 2 -> Structure. ˚ ༘♡ ⋆｡

Get used to tidying up throughout your day to avoid creating a big and overwhelming mess.

Get a physical planner or calendar to write down important dates, exams, deadlines, and plans.

Be mindful about what you buy and remember: Quality >>> Quantity.

try meal prepping if you're often busy, this makes grocery shopping and hasty mornings a lot easier.

Step 3 -> Routine ˚ ༘♡ ⋆｡

Make it a habit. Staying organised can be tough, but keep yourself accountable and stay on track, and soon, it will come naturally to you.

Work on finding a good balance between work/school, self-care/alone time, and your social life.

Take it slow, day by day, and don't overwhelm yourself with silly 30-point to-do lists... keep it attainable!! <3

As always, please feel free to share your own suggestions and tips in the comments!! ♡*̩̩͙❆ ͙͛

❆‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧౨ৎ

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Gabbie Carter

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Take responsibility for your own choices, not just someone else’s actions, because how you respond is entirely within your control. Blaming others for their behavior without acknowledging your role in the dynamic keeps you stuck in a cycle of frustration and powerlessness. By owning your choices—whether it’s setting boundaries, walking away, or staying—you reclaim your power and foster growth. It’s not about taking on their mistakes but about being accountable for how you show up and what you allow. This shift not only protects your peace but also strengthens your sense of self.

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queen of the organic produce aisle 👑

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A High Value Woman

doesn’t give more than she receives in a relationship

doesn’t beg or try to convince a man to be with her

she has the mindset of abundance

always associated with fun and positivity

keeps some mystery about herself

she listens more than she speaks

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upgrade your life by taking note of the objects you use most and slowly replace them with the most beautiful and high-quality versions of those things you can find.

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Sarojini Patayat, from a poem titled “Cool Silver December Moon,” written c. 2013

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One thing about me is that I don't allow terror inside my home. My home is a safe haven for love, sound, rest, play, beauty and increased decolonial cellular function, and when I am inside my home, I opt out of everything else. That doesn’t mean that I strive to be “happy” all the time, a dis-ease of the mind. The aim for me is to be so free in mind and body to not live addicted to cortisol spikes earned from observing barbaric acts which doesn’t mean “happiness all the time,” but it does mean truthful and sovereign. I advocate for collective liberation when I set standards for my home and do not give permission for any and every frequency to enter it (or my body). I do not permit images or videos of barbarism and human brutality inside. The Western world was built to keep us terrorized--all the violence and brutality inhabit the nervous system and inhibit us from experiencing higher realities in our loving, cooking, creating, bathing, resting, etc., no longer feeling expansive and capable or miraculous and magical. Then we *unconsciously* thrive off the fight or flight and other loops and cords of chaos that live in our minds, cells, floors, walls, and bed sheets and feed nutrients to global systems. Ask yourself--how can your home be consciously created and crystalized for higher resonances, a finely-tuned emissary of love and joy down to the smallest details? What ways of perceiving can you allow yourself to outgrow? What clutter can you let go of today? What new habits can you come into alignment with? What coping actions can you stop doing like shopping online to buy more dresses and shoes?-India Ame'ye, Author