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The Best Things to Text a Guy You Like (That Actually Get a Response)

Let’s cut the cute act—texting a guy you like can feel like a high-stakes game. You’re trying to strike the perfect balance: be intriguing, but not over the top; flirty, but not cringey; casual, but still memorable.

It’s exhausting if you overthink it—but here’s the secret: texting doesn’t have to be complicated. If you want to grab his attention and keep the conversation flowing, what you text is only half the story. It’s about how you make him feel when he reads it.

So, let’s talk about the best things to text a guy you like that are guaranteed to spark his interest without putting you in the “too much” zone.

💡 Step 1: Start Light and Playful

Here’s the deal—guys love playful energy. Texts that make him smile or laugh automatically raise your value in his eyes. Start with something fun, lighthearted, and easy to respond to.

Examples:

“Okay, settle this debate for me: Pancakes or waffles? (There’s only one right answer.)”

“You get one shot to impress me—what’s your go-to karaoke song?”

“So, I just tried the world’s worst cup of coffee. On a scale of 1 to 10, how tragic is your day going so far?”

Why It Works: These texts are more than just “Hi” or “What’s up?”—they’re engaging without trying too hard. They give him something to reply to, which gets the conversation rolling without too much effort on his side.

🔥 Step 2: Throw in a Compliment (But Make It Subtle)

Let’s be honest, everyone loves a compliment—but the key is not to overdo it. A simple, well-placed compliment communicates interest without making it seem like you’re fawning over him.

Examples:

“You’ve got the best taste in music. How do you find all these songs?”

“Not going to lie, you’re way too good at making me laugh.”

“You’ve got this effortless cool vibe going on. I need to know your secret.”

Why It Works: Compliments tied to personality or effort hit different—they come across as genuine and thoughtful without feeling like flattery.

💬 Step 3: Tease Him (In a Fun Way)

If there’s one thing that builds chemistry, it’s playful teasing. It shows confidence, creates intrigue, and makes the conversation more dynamic.

Examples:

“Okay, I’m officially concerned about your taste in movies—how have you NOT seen [insert classic film]?”

“I bet you’re one of those people who texts ‘lol’ but never actually laughs, aren’t you?”

“I have a feeling you’d beat me in trivia…and I honestly don’t know if I could handle that.”

Why It Works: Teasing builds playful tension and keeps the energy flirty. It shows you’re not afraid to have a little banter, which is endlessly attractive.

🤔 Step 4: Ask Him About Himself (But Skip the Boring Stuff)

One of the simplest ways to keep a guy interested is to get him talking about himself—but let’s leave “How’s your day?” in the trash where it belongs. Dig a little deeper with questions that reveal his personality and passions.

Examples:

“If you had to live in one city forever, where would it be?”

“What’s your most embarrassing childhood memory? (I promise I’ll share mine after.)”

“If you could drop everything and take a trip tomorrow, where would you go?”

Why It Works: Men love feeling seen and appreciated. Thoughtful questions that go beyond surface-level show you’re genuinely interested in getting to know him.

🚦 Step 5: Drop a Flirty Hint (But Keep It Cool)

If you want him to know you’re into him, sometimes you’ve got to turn up the charm—just a little. A flirty text that feels playful and confident (without being clingy) can go a long way.

Examples:

“Careful, you’re dangerously close to becoming my favorite person to text.”

“I feel like you’re secretly trying to win me over… and honestly, it’s working.”

“So, when are we going to make this texting thing a real-life thing?”

Why It Works: Flirty texts keep the excitement alive, but these examples leave enough space for him to lean into the conversation if he’s into you too.

🔥 Pro Tips for Texting the Guy You Like

Match His Energy: Don’t double-text or send novels if he’s giving one-word responses. Mirror his vibe to avoid coming off as overly eager.

Be Yourself: Don’t craft texts thinking, What would he want to hear? Say what feels natural and authentic to you—it’s way more attractive.

Don’t Overthink the Timing: Stop obsessing over how long you should wait to text him back. Just reply when it feels right.

Why These Tips Matter: Confidence is the sexiest thing you can bring to a conversation. When you text authentically and with ease, it shows you’re comfortable in your own skin—and that’s impossible to resist.

🎯 Final Thoughts from Phoenix Gray

Here’s the truth: texting a guy you like doesn’t have to feel like walking a tightrope. The best texts aren’t about impressing him—they’re about creating real connection, chemistry, and fun.And if he’s not responding or you feel like you’re putting in all the effort, don’t waste more time spiraling about it. Instead, grab my free “Text Recovery Blueprint.” It’s packed with strategies to handle ignored texts, ghosting, and awkward silences—so you can flip the dynamic and take back control of the conversation.

👉 Download your free Text Recovery Blueprint here.

The right text can spark a connection, but the right person will never leave you guessing.

You’ve got this.💬✨ Phoenix Gray

Disclaimer:

This article is for informational purposes and general dating scenarios. Individual results and texting dynamics may vary. For complex emotional challenges, consider personalized guidance. 🌟