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I only just realized that r80085 is supposed be rBOOBS but like… w/ numbers omg

I’m an innovator

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I don't really draw machines much ":)

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She is so dear to me, i've never seen my existential struggles being represented so well before ❤️‍🩹

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females, am i right? heh.. complete bakas.. won’t even send their masters feet pics! what foolishness.. her bazonkas are the only reason i keep her around, that and the ramen she makes! so kawaii!

YOURE SO RIGHT SKIBIDI ALPHA....

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i’m straight jorking it.. and by ‘it’ heh… i mean… her BAZOONGAS!! WOWIE!! while she peans my nuts you be jerking in a circle! heh! you could say i just hawk tuah different beat, y’know what i mean… hehe! i’m a nefarious wizard!

YOU DIDNT NEED TO SEND THIS FOUR FUCKING TIMES HELPPPP

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this is a hate comment i am hating. on what? im hating just deal with it B) haters gonorrhea rhea rhea rhea

bro think he the hater

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people should NOT be allowed to say they met their partner online when they used a dating site or app. if you say "we met online 🥰" i expect to hear that you got into an argument in a homestuck fanfic comment section and fell in love. that you met in a furry discord server and got married. not that you swiped on tinder until you met fucking josh who lived 3 miles away.

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DONT LIKE, REBLOG

so people who do this may see it.

The growing problem of "they" for trans people

Something I've noticed growing more common in my life recently has been people using exclusively "they" when referring to binary trans people who don't use "they"

Why is this a problem?

Using "they" when referring to someone when you don't know is seen as "better" in a lot of spaces now, which I can agree with as you don't know what their actual pronouns are. The problem I've noticed is that when meeting a trans person, a lot of people seem to default to "they" even after being told what pronouns they actually prefer. This can be for a lot of reasons, but the most common ones I hear are "I didn't want to assume" and "its not misgendering, they is neutral!"

Example situation

Person A meets person B, a trans woman. A doesn't know B's pronouns and so refers to B as "they." B corrects A, saying she prefers "she," but A continues to say "they" because its gender neutral. However, A does not do the same to cis women.

Do you see the problem now?

The use of exclusively "they" on trans people but not cis people, no matter your excuse, shows that you don't really see them as what they identify as and is quite transphobic since you're literally ignoring their identity and not seeing them as how they want to be seen.

"Okay, what should I do?"

Simple, just ask them their pronouns and then ACTUALLY USE THEM!! If he says he, DONT USE EXCLUSIVELY THEY! If she says she, DONT USE EXCLUSIVELY THEY! If they say they, well. yeah, use they, obviously. If xe say neopronouns and you don't know how to use those, just ask! If any part of someone's identity confuses you, just fucking ask them instead of assuming, for the love of god, and once they tell you, don't ignore what they said.

That's all. Just please stop calling people who don't use "they" by that.

Edit:

I got this comment and thought I should clarify and add on some MORE things you should avoid doing now that this post has aged a bit, and I've had more time to think!

Please do not attack this person, i dont think they meant it in any bad way

Clarification on the term 'misgendering'

While yes, 'gender' does not directly tell you someones pronouns or what terms they're comfortable with, but misgendering doesn't only mean calling a man a woman or a woman a man. Misgendering is usually thought to only mean using a trans person's assigned sexs' pronouns or deadnaming, but it's actually more than just that, it includes what terms you use for them, how you group them, and what societal expectations you put onto them based on their assigned sex, not just their gender.

Other things you should avoid

* Obviously, these won't apply to every situation. These are just general rules to follow UNTIL YOU KNOW THE PERSON. Once they tell you what they're comfortable with, then do what they ask, not what some random tumblr post says

Calling gender non-conforming people 'it'

Deadnaming, obviously

Using gendered pronouns for a non-conforming person

Arguing with someone over the validity of their identity

Automatically introducing someone as trans

Assuming someone is out to other family or friends

Using incorrectly gendered terms, including when referring to a group

Exclusively using gender neutral terms/compliments

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every time I see someone draw Gabriel with a skinny waist/leaner bodied I think “oh whyd they twinkify him” and then I remember that’s kind of just what he looks like, somehow I’ve just convinced myself otherwise. I don’t know, I just need there to be more meat on those bones. A little more padding. Give that angel some fat he needs it to fly south for the winter. Or whatever birds do, I’ve never read the bible.

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a simple wish

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I’m trying I’m trying I’m trying ehaaaaaaaaurgh

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Perfect hatred!

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I love tumblr because I can just post random stuff whenever and like so many people are just used to it at this point that I feel like an animal at a zoo doing little tricks in my enclosure except instead of jumping through a hoop im talking about my oc bouncing on that thing

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There's nothing left to fight for.

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For the lightning bolts in my arteries