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happy valentine's day!!

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not to be anti-religious but i do wonder if teaching children that they are innately flawed and sinful is, perhaps, not a healthy worldvi

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Userbox hoard continued

Hello. My name is Ophelia.

I'm an intrusive thought holder, a rape memory holder, and likely a persecutour. I have essentially no empathy, so I do come off pretty "brash," but I assure you I'm not. I'm just myself and see no need to mask it online.

I have a British accent in the headspace, and for this I have no clue as to why it happened. I'm likely introjected partially from multiple headmate packs, specifically ones that deal with lovecore. I like lovecore, it's how I cope with being raped.

I'm a lesbian and a demigirl, I go by she/they + any love/romance themed pronouns, and this is my blog.

I enjoy music (romance and love mourning themed), true crime, criminal psychology, and poetry.

In the @sp4d3s4ndplur4l1ty system

DNI below in full--in short DNI RQs, Paraphiles, and anti-endos + my userboxes

I do not want anyone who is paraphilic (in the pedo, zoo, necro, or rape sense) on my blog, it's highly triggering and pisses me off. I understand it's not something everyone can control, but I'd prefer those who have those paraphiles to stay away.

I am anti radqueer--you cannot be dysphoric of not having neurodivergencies. That's not a thing. That's a coping skill. You need a better one. I also don't support trans racial, or literally any form of radqueer.

Regardless I support endogenic, otherkins, and therianthropes. You're all cool, I understand the psychology behind that enough to support it.

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Sitting funny upsets me.

I sit there and I sit wrong

and the memories all flood back

a rush--blood running to my head

my heart working doubletime,

because it's scared it happened again.

And it may, but not today,

today I'll sit wonky,

and the blood will rush.

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'Blood Will Rush', 2024 by Valentine's Day's Favourite

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shoutout to persecutors and protectors.

shoutout to sysmates that lash out to protect their system. shoutout to persecutors that aren’t willing to “reform”. and shoutout to sysmates who are tired of the hate they receive for their role. you are loved and you are important and you are valued and you deserve happiness.

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The leadup to love is lust.

You breathe in her pollen,

And exhale a false sense of love and want.

Inhale her,

exhale the misery of being left.

She may be gone for only a blink,

but who says it's a real one?

She comes back and you think an untended spark is lit,

little do you know that night of ember was mere of ash.

Untitled, 2024, by Valentine's Day's Favourite

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Just fucking realised:

I FORMED AS A LESBIAN BECAUSE ROACH'S SUBCONSCIOUS SAID "IF I WAS A LESBIAN I'D ENJOY THIS" EVEN THOUGH HE DIDN'T WANT IT. HE SAID NO. HE SAID IT WASN'T POSSIBLE. BUT THEN SHE ASKED AGAIN AND AGAIN AND BEGGED AND NOW I'M SITTING HERE TRY TO COPE WITH A TRAUMA I STEMMED FROM. MY ONLY FUCKING PURPOSE.

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WDYM I CAN'T MAKE DAZEY AND THE SCOUTS MUSIC BE MY COPING MECHANISM?

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Currently the only thought in my mind is: "all alone in my bedroom, with the lights turned on, and my roommate gone. I know it's over still I can't cry" or whatever 'Wet' by Dazey and the Scouts says

oh my fucking lord that song hits. Makes my head NOT want to Kurt Cobain/hj

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Can you make some stressgenic userboxes? ::::>

“this blank is stressgenic” userboxes!!

Srry for the long wait anon >.< requests r closed!!

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Lesbian userboxes! (Full pack!)

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"This Alter has low/no sympathy, but that doesn't make it a bad person." - 🎴

Versions for Headmates:

Versions for System members:

Versions for Sysmates:

Versions for Parts:

Requested by anon!

Feel free to use! Credit is not necessary, but always appreciated!

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can i get a userbox that says "this alter struggles to care" and one that says "this alter feels uncomfortable about source"

darker colors, maybe blue or gray

Here ya go! Sorry I couldn't do darker colors, it didn't look good with the images I was using :'3

Custom emoji was drawn by @/beesemotes, go check them out!!

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TRAUMA HOLDER USERBOXES

[Pt: trauma holder userboxes]

[Id in alt]

Made by: mod 🖖🏽

Requested by: N/A

requests: open!

✺✺✺

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not a request, but I'm curious about how you make your userboxes? :>

We use ibis paint!!! We have posted temps in the past BUT we will 100% re post them!! also specifically for Bots userboxes they just find pngs on tumblr and use those for the deco!!

OH ALSO. PINTEREST!! Use Pinterest for finding images!! For flags we check on pluralpedia and LGBTQIA+ Wiki(the Mirahaze one)

anyways-

MY(link) STYLE

text settings:

JUNE’S STYLE

text settings:

BOT’S STYLE

text settings:

RAHHH HOPEFULLY THIS IS HELPFUL!!! -???

NOTE: GUYS WE WOULD LOVE TO SEE IF U USE OUR TEMPLATE(s) IT MAKES US SUPER HAPPY/nf/gen

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may i request a userbox saying "this user frequently dissociates" with neutral color tones? BWEHHH THANK YOU!!!!!

“This [blank] frequently dissociates” userboxes!

emoji used is by @ghosting-emojis (aka us :3)

requests are close ;3!

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This x is constantly tired :( (emoji art by me!)

This user !;;

This system/collective/constellation !;;

This alter/part/headmate !;;

The emoji on its own :) (drawn by me !)

Requests open !

like / reblog if used 💙