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And that's on complex characters!!!!

"Stolas isn't wrong for choosing his own happiness for once after years of abuse and depression"

and

"Octavia isn't wrong for feeling betrayed by her father and fearing she's been only an obligation to him"

are two concepts that can and should coexist.

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There's no way people in that picture exist....rapist stolas is the worst take I've ever seen

You are a blessing though i love this analysis 🎊🎊

We've got a lot we could say about this, but we decided to address how these folks LOVE to come after the fans.

Shallow Criticism of the Fandom:

The statement about “cognitive dissonance” in Stolitz shippers is often used as a dismissive way of accusing fans of hypocrisy. However, this argument oversimplifies the complexities of fan engagement, especially in shows that feature morally ambiguous characters like Stolas. To assume that fans who support the Stolitz ship automatically ignore the character’s flaws is reductive. Fandoms are, at their core, about interpretation and engagement with narrative themes and character development. It’s not about denying the flaws of a character, but rather appreciating the story of their struggle, growth, and redemption.

In the case of Stolas, the character is depicted as deeply flawed. He has made mistakes—cheating on Stella, neglecting Octavia emotionally, and living in a world of privilege that he largely takes for granted. However, the show doesn’t hide these flaws, and many fans are drawn to Stolas precisely because of his imperfections. He’s not presented as a flawless hero or a straightforward villain. Instead, his arc is a slow exploration of self-awareness, accountability, and the search for meaning beyond superficial desires. Fans don’t “ignore” these flaws; they embrace them as part of his journey, understanding that flawed characters can still be lovable and worthy of growth.

Moreover, Helluva Boss is not about offering idealized or flawless characters—it’s about showcasing a variety of personalities and exploring the tension between people’s desires, their actions, and their consequences. Fans who enjoy the Stolitz ship often see it not as a glorification of privilege or toxic behavior, but as part of a broader narrative about flawed individuals working through their complicated feelings. For many, the emotional complexity and messiness of Stolas’s character make him more relatable, not less.

The assumption that fans of the ship must be overlooking the political context of Stolas's wealth also misses the mark. Yes, Stolas is an aristocratic figure in a world where wealth and power are deeply ingrained into the structure of society, but fans of Stolitz are generally more interested in the emotional dynamics between the characters than the surface-level politics of Stolas’s wealth. Helluva Boss is, after all, a show that combines humor, dark themes, and emotional storytelling. While the political context of wealth is present, it’s not always the primary focus of the narrative for viewers engaging with the relationships and character development.

Fandom Engagement and Narrative vs. Political Ideology

The argument that “eat the rich” shippers supporting Stolas is hypocritical also fails to recognize that fandoms rarely engage with shows through a purely political lens. Fans often connect with characters based on emotional resonance, personality, and their growth arcs, rather than idealizing them as representations of political ideologies. In shows like Helluva Boss, which blends humor, horror, and emotional drama, characters like Stolas are appealing because of their multi-faceted nature—they’re not just symbols of wealth, but characters who are dealing with internal conflicts and external struggles.

This approach is fairly common in fandoms. For example, many people who enjoy characters like Walter White in Breaking Bad aren’t doing so because they endorse his choices but because they’re captivated by his transformation and the moral questions his character raises. Similarly, Stolas’s flaws and his journey resonate with fans who appreciate how the show highlights the complexity of power, privilege, and personal growth. Stolas’s arc is an exploration of his own mistakes and his attempt at redemption, which makes his character relatable and emotionally compelling—even if, on the surface, he comes from a position of wealth.

Furthermore, it’s essential to recognize that many fans of Helluva Boss are aware of the complexities of privilege and wealth in the context of the show’s world. They’re not supporting Stolas because they condone his position in the societal hierarchy, but because they’re invested in his emotional journey. Fandoms often separate character analysis from political ideologies, enjoying the stories for their emotional resonance rather than fitting them into a rigid political box. To assume that a fan of Stolitz supports wealth or classism because they like the ship overlooks this nuanced engagement with the story.

The Appeal of Stolas’s Privilege Journey

One of the main appeals for “eat the rich” fans is watching Stolas slowly come to terms with his own privilege, but without the show forcing him into a preachy “woke” narrative. Stolas is not going to suddenly read a bunch of books on imp oppression overnight—he may get there eventually, but for now, he’s grappling with his privilege in a real and messy way. It’s not about him being lectured by another character, but about him experiencing firsthand how his position in society has shielded him from the struggles that others face.

This dynamic is engaging because it presents an opportunity for organic growth and learning, rather than a sermon about morality. Fans who appreciate Stolas’s arc aren’t looking for a perfect, all-knowing character—they’re looking for a character who is, in his own flawed way, trying to come to terms with his actions and the consequences of his privilege. It’s a relatable struggle, one that feels grounded and human, despite the fantastical setting. Watching Stolas go through this process without being immediately “woke” or sanctimonious is what makes his character interesting. It’s not about perfect morality—it’s about growth, learning, and grappling with uncomfortable truths.

Fandoms and the Appeal of Complex Characters

At the end of the day, the appeal of a character like Stolas in the Stolitz ship isn’t rooted in a rejection of social justice issues or an endorsement of wealth but in the complexity of his character and the way he evolves throughout the series. The fandom’s support for Stolas and his relationships is about understanding that people—both fictional and real—are multifaceted, and that redemption, emotional connection, and personal growth are possible even for deeply flawed individuals. By focusing on the emotional stakes of the character dynamics rather than superficial political concerns, fans are able to engage with the show on a deeper level, appreciating the storytelling and the characters for their emotional depth, not their ideological purity.

In short, the idea that Stolitz shippers are hypocritical or blind to the show's deeper themes is an oversimplified view of fandom culture. Fans can be critical of characters, recognize their flaws, and still appreciate them for the emotional complexity they bring to the story. And, like many fandoms, the support for a ship or character is often about the connection to the narrative and the characters’ development, not an endorsement of every action or belief they hold. This is a core aspect of how fans engage with shows and characters that are morally complex.

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HE LOVES HER SO MUCH I CANNOT

Please lord let this conflict be over my heart cannot handle this

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Ohhh this hurts

Please, let me explain.

Helluva boss season 2 episode 12 vs Helluva boss: Look my way parallers

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I don't think they're officially dating yet. They're just living together and their couple-y behavior is probably due to the fact that they were fuck buddies for a while and are extremely comfortable with eachother

Stolas still needs to finish his arc before fully embracing their relationship and that's made clear by the final shot of Stolas not showing interest to Blitz back

anyone else find it weird how stolas and blitz just started dating out of nowhere just bc they live together?? like literally no proper conversation they’re just dating now??

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Why does it feel like stolas gets smaller throughout the season

Was this secret foreshadowing to his shrinking mental health (im totally reaching here)

Quickly threw together a little collage of every single season 2 thumbnail now that the season has ended.

Now the question is, how are we planning to survive the wait until season 3 starts?

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Kinda disturbs me the discourse on Stolas not reciprocating that hug, did y'all forget that Stolas is genuinely convinced his daughter hates him and he has a lot to process in general?

Stolas has yet to start his character journey, it has been only one month since the events of Mastermind, and he has been off his antidepressants the entire time.

Aside from the fact that these boys still have a lot to unpack...

Guys, please remember...

Stolas has absolutely NO IDEA on how to react to genuine care and affection, he has never been in a healthy romantic relationship.

Stolas is still very much in the process of letting go of those fantasies of his, and Sinsmas shows that he's just now starting to.

Blitz, despite the mess he was in the beginning of their relationship, IS the more experienced partner. He's been in several relationships, and Blitz himself knows that he is the more experienced of the two.

It's why Blitz's patience is so important right now, especially for Stolas who is still struggling. Blitz knows what Stolas needs right now is his emotional support and nothing else.

It is so important that Blitz doesn't pressure Stolas in anyway shape or form right now.

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He can’t stop touching his bird.

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Stolas realizing exactly how Blitzø was doing all that with his tongue on full moon nights

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say it louder for the people in the back!!!

Out of all the reasons Millie could be nervous about having a baby people choose the possibility that she's cheating, which has like no evidence??? sometimes I think people are watching a completely different show lmaoao

I can think of many reasons why Millie is freaking out over her pregnancy, but cheating on Moxxie ain’t it- stop being gross.

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Stolas has not felt one moment of happiness in the entirety of season 2 oh my god

The circus ended with him sad and miserable

In seeing stars he was stressed out over Stella's bullshit and Octavia going missing

In western energy he was kidnapped, tortured, and ghosted

We all know what happened during full moon.

Apology tour was full moon but drunker and longer and somehow even more miserable

In mastermind he lost everything

And in sinsmas he's coming to turns with losing everything + off his meds

Please vizipop give my fav a break 😞

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Getting ahead of myself here but does anyone remember Vizipop's instagram story of Stolas's VA speaking to a judge about blitz? The whole "Honorable Judge Gina, blitz bucko-"

When I first heard the clip I assumed that Stolas was using his power to defend Blitz in court for using the grimiore which he already did in Mastermind, so I'm kind of dumbfounded now as to where they're going to take this. Obviously we don't know where in the show this line takes place so the status up could be completely changed by then.

That being said, who is judge Gina? Blitz's case was judged by Satan though i guess the argument could be made that it was a more serious trial with a lot more at stake. My best guess is that Stolas is defending Blitz in a settlement hearing rather than any criminal charges, so at least we can hope that they won't get into much trouble

Overall I can't wait for season 3 and more stolas content, especially seeing him actually come up with a legal defense rather than going wild and defaming himself

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It was not, in fact, a happy episode for Stolas

Please let sinsmas be a happy episode for Stolas because God knows he needs it

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Fuck this show.

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WHATTTTTT

THE

FUCKKKKKK

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THE STUPID ICE BIRD CHANGED STOLAS'S MOTIF OOOHHHH IM MAD

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"And you will only know my name" Oh my god.