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Yall can run in your nightmares ??????!!?!!?!??!!

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ILOOOOOOVEEEE THIS BOIIIII

My baby colde is so aesthetic haha

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194 i'm laughing so hard i expected it to stop in 20 or idk

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people were cheering so loudly for namjoon, that he didn’t even know what to say… he was so surprised :(

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On night like these when i just sit here , think back at little precious memories while blasting rex orange country in the room ...

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“my rapist told me that he understands my feelings about it but will not accept it - gas fucking lit. honesty has never been your strong suit, has it? he knows what he did - i was anonymous for years on here and wanted to be off the grid but my name is shelby starcher and he’s finally reading this shit.”

— smspoetry

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being interested in serial killers and their motives and what drove them to kill but understanding that they were awful people who did awful things and not normalizing/romanticizing them

romanticizing/being attracted to/admiring/shipping serial killers

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Guys I think we have our new mission 🤩

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To the True Crime Community.

As somebody who studies Criminology and somebody who researches true crime on the daily… Don’t make this about yourself. Following the news about Sol Pais (the woman infatuated with Columbine, making threats and trying to buy guns) I saw many angry posts from people in the TCC about how not everybody in the community is a serial killer obsessed psycho. That is absolutely true. However, by choosing to defend yourself, you’re not hearing the concern, the fear, and distress of the people affected by what happened. That’s something that you shouldn’t do. 

Many people died, many survived and are living with the consequences of what the Columbine shooters did. Many high schoolers in America are still experiencing the consequences of their actions to this day, as we all saw today. More than 500 000 students missed a whole day of education because of this, education is important, so is the image of a school as a safe haven for those whose homes aren’t a safe place. 

Many children are abused or witness abuse at homes and school is that one place they can get away to, with the current events in America - that was taken away from them. Schools aren’t safe anymore. That must be terrifying. 

Also, let’s not act like there isn’t a part of the TCC that is infested with people drawing the shooters, imagining relationships with them or calling them pet names and obsessing over every moment of their lives. There’s fascination and then there’s obsession. 

History is there for us to learn from it, especially the most recent one. That’s what true crime is to me, a learning opportunity. I want to learn from this tragic event, so in the future, I can apply my knowledge and possibly prevent the same from happening. It’s an opportunity to open a discussion. It’s an opportunity to celebrate the victim and their life.

Many in the true crime community instead of seeing the bigger picture, fixate on the details, defend the killers and start to live in a fantasy. If you seek solace in the life of a serial killer - go to a therapist. Somebody else’s tragedy shouldn’t be your happiness.

What I’m trying to say - Don’t make this about yourself. People have a reason to be angry and they have a point. Stop immortalizing serial killers, stop feeling bad for them, stop defending them, stop putting their faces as your icons and stop romanticizing murder. It’s sick and it needs to stop.

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murderers aren’t cute

murderers aren’t cute

murderers aren’t cute

murderers aren’t cute

murderers aren’t cute

murderers aren’t cute

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i think this is maybe an unpopular opinion but honestly there’s a line between respecting the victims of violent crimes, esp famous ones like columbine, and being really creepy and disrespectful about your interest in them. like i totally understand that when you’re really into a case you get into all aspects of it, including the victims. it’s so important to acknowledge who they were as people beyond just being victims of heinous crimes! i appreciate good posts about them, and there are a bunch of really good blogs who are really respectful about it! 

however, imo it gets really creepy when people like, post every single intricate detail of the victims’ lives no matter how personal it is, and actually fucking argue with each other about that stuff, or post their family’s information, or like constant social media updates (altho i know there are some families who’ve said they dont mind that iirc). i cannot and will not speak for the victims, but i can’t help but wonder how their families would feel seeing random ass ppl putting their loved ones’ lives on blast, or themselves on blast. 

like, while there are extreme examples-like that anti who actually wrote a fucking whole comic series reimagining the lives of the victims, shipping them, headcannoning them as autistic, trans and a host of other things they were not irl. just completely fucking obsessed with them and it was reallllly shitty. or that girl that says a victim is her soulmate etc. however, i see smaller examples of this too, and idk it’s overall really weird to me. like they deserve privacy too and for me personally? if i had a family member who was murdered, id be really fucking grossed out if there were like fangirls for them and did this shit online- that might not be true for everyone but i imagine im not alone. you dont know them personally so maybe just. take a step back if you’re getting obsessive about it.

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being against incest and pedophilia (yes, even in fiction) doesnt make me an “anti” it makes me a normal god damn person with like, morals and stuff

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Morocco, africa

All you homans in the TCC

Where yall from?

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