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If you don't use your library's Libby and Hoopla collections, you run the risk of losing that access. Your library will see the low numbers and think "no one is using this service and we need to save money so let's get rid of it". I am saying this because at the library I work at, the collections team reduced the number of books you can check out each month for Hoopla. They reduced the amount by more than half - 25 to 10 - all because people weren't using it at the same capacity they were during lockdown.
Digital collections are expensive yes but when libraries are able to show the library board or city that their services are highly sought after and used in large numbers, that aids in arguing for increasing the budget - or at least keeping the budget where it's at.
Whatever your opinion on pirating is, you are doing not a single person favors by not using library resources just because you have a misunderstanding in how it actually works.
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Wow. The patience, kindness and calm communication skills. Outstanding.
From raindovemodel
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remember in 2007 or 2008 when emo was at its peak and gay marriage wasn't legal and so we had boys in eyeliner and skirts making out with each other at the mall in protest. i think we need this again
#i mean iunderstand the add on#but also#i think an inherent part of it is the need for the teens of now to become the floppy haired emo boys of Now#we need to figure out how to cultivate letting go of Cringe within teenagers#and getting rid of how hyper sanitized everything has to be#and embrace being weird and expressive and Cringe#like#this specific element is something that comes down to our ability to foster in the Youth#not in our ability to do it ourselves
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Marathoned a show with a friend tonight and felt compelled to make this
Hope this clears things up
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losing my mind at this amazing story from r/dndmemes some people’s dnd adventures are just. So Fucking Cool
here’s the link and the story, it’s Amazing
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Words from On Earth We’re Briefly Gorgeous by Ocean Vuong
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ya gotta stop caring what people think and start being extremely weird. but never cruel. i think that might save you
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Life-changing OCD hack is learning that you can literally call poison control to check if you fucked up and took medications wrong in a way that could kill you instead of having a panic attack while reading reddit and quora threads for an hour. They won't even be mad at you. Like obviously don't do it every day or something but genuinely you can do this if you need to
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my boss accidentally added a wrong number to our group chat 😭
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Every time I see an obviously-queer middle schooler wearing a walmart Nirvana shirt try and discreetly stare at me, i remember why I dress like this. Every time I see some 7th grader with a pixie cut and a 'how to pass pre-t trans men' outfit trying to glance at me without seeming too obvious, or every time some 9th grader sees me in goodwill looking through the men's black T shirts for band tees, with a leather jacket or a pair of ripped jeans over my arm, and they come up and say they like my outfit. Every time I see a kid I could have easily been, who will easily grow up to be me.
It's not just for me. It's showing people who I used to be so similar to, that they can be themselves too. The same way 17 year olds showed me when I was 14, acting the same way they act, trying to be slick about watching what the cool goth girl in the thrift store was getting, so I could dress just like her when I grew up.
I got there. Now it's my turn to turn around and help others get here.
#one thing i miss about retail was i had trans pride glasses#they didnt do anything for me tbh#its not my preferred flag#but i cojld always see when it Meant Something
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