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“We won’t be able to organize/ protest under Trump”.

People in the Global South have been organizing and protesting under dictatorships that America has installed as puppets for decades. You will be fine.

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Like, you could be attached to and want to date only like three other people in the world and you'd still be a "real"* lesbian. Like, I can't imagine any lesbian (or anyone of any sexuality for that matter) is actually attracted to every single potential person that every other person that uses the label is attracted to, you're certainly no different. Like, if you start being a dink to other lesbians because /they/ are attached to the subset of folk they are, that'd be a dick move, but like you just being you? That's as real as anyone.

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*inasmuch as the word real even makes coherent sense in the context of loose, fuzzy, constructed categories that mean different things to different groups of people using the same word to self-describe or identify

I feel like im not a real lesbian because i only want to date other trans women and the pressure to make my body avalible to transmascs is unbearable. Idk wierd

i feel you anon, a lot of transfeminists recently have been talking about the tendency for transmascs to feel entitled to trans women (esp trans lesbians)

you are, without a doubt, a lesbian. fuck those creepy transmascs making you feel that way. you can only date tgirls and be a lesbian. in fact i’d say most of the people who dare only tgirls are lesbians lmfao

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They're dating. Well, to noncommittally fucking anyway, but sometimes that's the same thing

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and with your help it can rack up 700k notes on tumblr in 2024

no tumblr this doesnt need tags im releasing it into the wild as god intended

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queer people on this site really make me feel like a confused straight guy at pride. the discourse here could kill a man

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Anytime I’m told by someone how Star Trek is the tamest science fiction I just-

The thing that started the fuck or die trope that led to the A/B/O universe???? The thing that established that the android CAN fuck within the first three episodes??? The thing where it’s canon that a species has two dicks, another species ears are sexual, and another has to fuck every seven years or else they die??? The thing that has to have a fuckboy for every crew??? The thing that had two people turn into lizards and have children??? The thing that canonically has a species that has four in a typical marriage???? The thing that started fanfiction and fandom????

Nah, bruv, you don’t know anything, that ain’t even the worst of it.

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Your gender is now the first randomized wikipedia article you get. No rerolls.

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Like I certainly don't want to say I disagree, because like piloting a ton of so of material safely is very important and our laws do largely align with that, but like. Traffic laws are some of the most continually and flagrantly broken laws. Like, rolling stops and speeding while passing are like two handy examples of generalized illegalism that are enforced at best infrequently (and when they are enforced at all it's either for egregious examples, or to make an example of some strategically and dehumanized population). Like, in a lot of juridictions you can both get fined and dinged on your licence for speeding and also get the same for going no faster than the speed limit if the flow of traffic around you is consistently faster. The baseline illegality of typical road practice, and the way that illegality is encouraged by contradictory enforcement, is like a whole ass indictment of legalism.

I think people need to be more comfortable with illegalism and I’m not kidding. Of course the more legal something is, the safer and easier it is to do, but the more people who disregard the law, the harder it is to enforce. There are plenty of laws on the books that people just ignore and are never or rarely policed.

Becoming more comfortable with little illegal activities makes you more comfortable with bigger more important illegal activities. Additionally, it is crucial to build a wall of silence. Nobody talks everybody walks.

People who give out food without a permit, hold a march without a permit, grow a garden without a permit, are more likely to be people you could turn to to work with on preventing an eviction, or keeping people out of cop hands, or helping your friend Jane get crucial healthcare when it’s not legal in your state.

Communities comfortable with these acts won’t call the cops, and then nobody knows that it’s happening.

People have got to shift from both the idea that lawful = good/ illegal = bad, and that the illegality of something means that’s the end of it, and the only fight left is to make it legal again.

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a weird thing is that we got waves of people going "who cares if its cringe or youre annoying! have fun!" but no one really learned how to accept the fact that some people will find you annoying or think your art or your work or posts or anyrhing sucks and thats ok. rather it just became a weird "if people think youre annoying theyre just morally bad. let people enjoy things!". like no i think this yes man only biome sucks and people are allowed to not like artstyles and shows and media and other things

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Today's aesthetic: straight fanfic where the characters in the fic are (mostly) normal about the fact that the girl is trans, but the authorial voice has this weirdly intense preoccupation with making sure the reader understands that sucking a girl's penis doesn't make you gay.

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can't stop thinking about this movie tbh..

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pentiment

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yesterday when working with my case manager, she went through a long checklist of my comprehensive needs to refresh our treatment plan. as a part of the questions she was asking me, she asked for various areas of my financial struggles, including if i was able to afford social activities such as hanging out with friends, going to the movies, etc. as part of my necessary purchases. the question was specifically phrased as "Do you have enough money every month to be able to afford social activities?"

this was not proposed as a "luxury". the question was not phrased as "Do you have enough money every month to afford luxuries/luxury purchases?" this was listed with the necessities like food, housing, bills, and clothing. this made me burst into tears when i realized it was considered a necessary part of everyone's mental and well being. my case manager told me that not a singular person on this planet deserves to have to "earn" the right to socialize, interact with leisure activities, or to do things that bring you personal fulfillment. your money does not, and should not entirely go toward survival and practicality. it will ruin your mental health.

to anyone who has ever been told that they don't "need" or "deserve" social or leisure activities or that your money "needs" to go 100% toward survival: they are straight up lying to you. it is a fundamental part of your mental health. don't fucking listen to them.

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happy lesbian day to dyke perverts only

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ahem, trust me bro, you wanna see this call ou- I mean google do- I mean warning on this person I've been stal- i mean keeping an eye on. I heard they're [complete baseless accusation]

proof? um well you just gotta trust me bro I know this wait aha! I got it [out of context screenshot] mmhm! this is it right here!

oh no I'm just doing this for the community they were always a freak I think it's good to remove freaks and keep our community squeaky clean and safe. what!? I don't use that website like that aha... I just have a source from it that's all. I'm totally trustworthy btw.