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Ok but there's clearly one number with the most circles on the list, so technically...

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Na ezt figyeld, ez a kemény.

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Sometimes classics can be improved upon.

The Tree Who Set Healthy Boundaries : an alternate ending for Shel Silverstein’s The Giving Tree by Topher Payne 💯🌳❤️

https://www.topherpayne.com/giving-tree?

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On the topic of Leftist Andrew Tate and other mythical creatures of the liberal mind

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little clown otter

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via @swatercolor [insta]

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Having sex isn't everything, Have y'all tried just laying down, playing with someone's hands while they talk about life.Those are the moments to live for. Deep talk and understanding someone's background, Opening up to someone and actually falling for them more and more

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Normalize this response

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a mai team meetingen mutatta nevetve az egyik lead dev, hogy milyen vicces ez a generativ AI, hogy behallucinal maganak dolgokat, mert megkerdezett valamit, amire a genAI beidezett egy reszletet a kodbol, ami tartalmazott egy sort, ami nem is volt a kodban, majd amikor rakerdezett, hogy azt nem talalja, akkor a genAI ugy tett, mintha sosem emlitette volna.

En meg csendben sikoltoztam magamban, hogy es erre a fostalicska tulhypeolt randomgeneratorra akarjatok bizni, hogy majd segiteni fog.

hmmm…pretty sure one of these is not quite like the others

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We all know what erectile dysfunction is but literally no one is ever taught what vaginismus is and it can cause people to feel extremely lost, broken, and cause people to take their own lives. Raise. Awareness.

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Yarn for Christmas?

An open PSA to anyone with crafting friends (and isn't really sure what they like):

DON'T BUY THEM YARN

Part of the hobby is the purchasing yarn, which some might argue buying yarn and using yarn are two different hobbies. "But OP," you might argue, "I just know they'll love the Red Heart Super Saver I got on sale at Joann's! One skein should be plenty, and they can make me a sweater!"

This is one of those rare cases where a gift card to their favorite yarn store is more personal. First off, nothing against Red Heart, but if they're a yarn snob, it's going to collect dust. If they're a project-oriented purchaser, it's going to collect dust. If they like to buy yarn, then it's just mean.

Also, NEVER imply that your crafting friend should make something for you. If they love you, they will. If they don't, then you're not close enough to be making expensive demands.

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The author's poorly disguised fetish

The author's proudly displayed fetish

The author's fetish you're pretty sure they don't realise they have

The author's fetish which they're firmly convinced everyone has and is just pretending otherwise

The author's non-sexual special interest which just sounds like a fetish because of their habitually unfortunate phrasing

The fetish the author is making a well-meaning effort to cater to in spite of clearly not understanding it themselves

The author's fetish that never quite makes it into the text because they keep getting sidetracked by the requisite worldbuilding

The author's utterly pedestrian sexual preference which the text treats like a bizarre fetish because they've got shit to work through

The author's seemingly innocuous recurring trope they're going to have a personal revelation about ten years down the road

The author's fetish you missed on a first reading because it's so far out of pocket, it never occurred to you that you could sexualise that