being neutral about other peoples kinks is necessary by the way. when consenting adults are doing things between consenting adults, and you prioritize your discomfort over their autonomy and right to exist safely in a space without having their private interests excavated and recontextualized to make them out to be predators, that says way more about your willingness to place yourself in the position of moral authority than it does about them and you deputizing yourself on the basis of nothing but vibes and your personal traumas makes you very dangerous politically.
Really glad we’re all into harm reduction now, suddenly! I look forward to everyone’s continued support of needle exchange sites, decriminalization of drugs and sex work, affordable, multi-unit housing (yes even in your neighborhood), and free universal sex education, contraceptives, menstrual products, and pre/peri/post-natal care.
i think the thing that fucks me up about anti-fatness is that it's a pure disgust response but people don't even realize it cause they've wrapped it up in so much moralizing and bad science. Like they can't even look at the part where they're just taught to view people as disgusting anymore and understand that that's all it is. And when they see fat people trying to be or do anything that isn't being sorry for existing they have to push it back into that mold. I have to be a walking talking anti-fat psa.
every time i see porn where its like, very clearly attempting to appeal to the gamer aesthetic or whatever, its so funny to me bc its always some pristine stick-thin model with a switch controller vaguely in frame or something while she shakes her barely extant ass and its like . you have no idea what the appeal is here.
when i say i want to fuck nerds i'm talking about unkempt neets who want to infodump to me about kingdom hearts lore while they're fully hilted in my mouth. im talking about barely clothed tgirls cemented to their gamer chairs from tryhard sweat bc shes spent the past 4 hours trying to get to heaven in strive, my face buried between her fat fucking thighs and feeling her cock twitch against my face when she hits a heavenly potemkin buster . what was i talking about
Maybe I'll expand on this on one of my days off, but having a weird kinks has driven me to do so much research on sexuality, arousal, and sexual fetishes. And like. The more you read the more you realize it's all fetishes! It's fetishes all the way down. The only difference between me and the guy who finds skinny blondes with big tits arousing is that a lot of fetishes are so normalized that we don't think of them as fetishes, we just assume they're natural. But they're not! what arouses us is not innately biological, it's dictated by culture and personal experience, and almost everyone has fetishes even if they aren't aware that they are fetishes.
i genuinely adore hearing people complaining about politics in their own countries because it's like yessss i do want to hear about how the government is corrupt and uses religion to justify their greed, i DO want to hear about the cost of living in nigeria. everyone has something to complain about