theshiningsapphire

[theshiningsapphire]

Being known as one of the most crucial stages of life; Teenage comes with its own pros and cons. It is often said that it either makes you or breaks you!

Being a teenager myself; I would like to address an issue that is often not discussed at all!!! I myself come from a society in which arrange marriages are much more preferred then the love marriages..though they are not compulsory but you see people here think that the arrange marriages work out much better then the loved ones even if the spouses are not in love in the former ones. But not all the arrange marriages are same!!!!

According to me, arrange marriages most probably work out much better either because the spouses do not have any expectation from each other or due to the pressure of society . OR most importantly they might stay together for their childrens' welfare..

But the story does not end here ...with it comes along the fights, taunts; abuse and much more.

But in all this...we the so called 'SOCIETY' forget about the children that the spouses might have in future!! Have you ever thought about what a child/teenager might think seeing all those aimless fights which never end because one of them can't let go of their ego...

For eg: Just imagine its your birthday in a few minutes... and then its 12:00 am and your spouse is sitting right beside you and not wishing you even after everybody else in the family has!! And then he straight way ignores you for the whole night and wishes you in the morning!! And sitting right beside them both is their daughter who's a teenager and observes every single thing from not wishing to ignoring to not giving a shit about the feelings of the other person!

These senseless and aimless fight just makes the teenagers believe that good arrange marriages never exist!! Which in my perspective is not true even though I have never seen one myself.. But I surely wish to see one in this lifetime of mine! Would love to know your thoughts and experiences about the same!!

Thanks alot for reading!