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Exclusionists: *start interacting with my posts*

Me:

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The LGBTQ+ community is for people who do not benifit from the cisnormative, heteronomative, or amatonomative systems in society

This includes demisexal and demiromantic people *as well as every other acepec and arospec identity*

Exclusionism in the LGBTQ+ community is so dumb and really only divides us. We should be working together

Anyways thanks for coming to my TedTalk

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A Aromantic Bop

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Meme edit by me

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Happy Asexual Awareness Week!!!!

Everyone under the asexual umbrella, regardless of whether they use micro labels or not, is valid. And no, that's not up for debate.

Aphobes better keep their nasty hands off this post :) 🖤🤍💜🏳️‍🌈

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good morning to aromantic people who have too many succulents, aro people who would buy a shirt because it was green, aro people in relationships, aro people who don’t have enough time to create the art they want to create, aro people who live with their parents, aro people who don’t have a tiktok, aro trans people, aro people who put stickers on their laptop and water bottle, aro people who are vegetarian, aro people who adore seasonal starbucks drinks, and aro people who only wear black

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Friendly reminder that if you're aromatic but not asexual that's okay and I love you. I hope you have a lovely day 💛

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[ID: Robin from Stranger Things holding a white board that says: "You don't need to understand how our attraction (or lack of it) works to support us". End ID]

Tbh this is valid for everyone, about any sexuality or gender. You don't need to understand others' feelings to recognize they are oppressed and need to have basic human rights

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Shout out to aros in romantic relationships! Shout out to aros who want to be in a romantic relationships! This goes for either aros on the grayromantic spectrum or aros who are strictly aromantic. Some aros do still experience romantic attraction, just rarely, weakly, or inconsistently. Some aros aren't sure if they experience romantic attraction or not, but still want romantic relationships. Some aros are romance favorable. Some aros enter romantic relationships based on other types of attraction. Some aros enter romantic relationships based on factors other than attraction. The important thing to remember is that all of them are not any less aro.

[ID: A banner with a light green rectangle in the center with text that reads,"Aro focused post, alloromantics can reblog but do not comment." On either side of the rectangle is the aromantic flag. End ID.]

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hey if ur aro have a good day

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black aros: breathtaking, i love

latinx aros: lovely, i love

asian aros: amazing, love

hispanic aros: heartstopping, i love

middle eastern aros: magnificent, i love

indigenous aros: incredible, i love

afro latinx aros: astonishing, i love

mixed aros: marvelous, i love

native american aros: noteworthily beautiful, i love

basically i love my aro poc💞💞💞💞

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Don’t feel forced to use a certain label

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And you’re both valid.

Ace version here

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Just a reminder that non-ace aros exist and are as important for the aspec community as ace people. Aro isn't a subset of ace, but an identity on its own. Aspec should be a safe community for both for ace and aro people. There are lots of different experiences in the community that need to be heard.

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boys 👏 can 👏 be 👏 asexual👏

rb if you agree

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You can still identify as ace or aro if there’s a reason or cause for it. You’re always allowed to choose labels that are true for you and resonate with you now.

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To my aromantic allosexual darlings

You are valid. You do not owe society any romantic attraction. You are not broken. Nothing is wrong with you. Romantic love is not the epitome of love. You are allowed to have sexual attractions and enjoy yourself with your partner without romance. You are valid and I’m glad you are here.