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You know, Sub Rosa is a ridiculous episode of Star Trek that most of us like to joke about but what always sits wrong with me are the jokes about “just letting Bev fuck the candle in peace”

Because this isn’t something she truly wants to do, she’s under the influence of the entity and that means she can’t consent

It’s that dubious consent that makes the episode uncomfortable for me, not the idea of a fucking a candle ghost

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I really think seeing Elon do the Nazi salute during the inauguration caused something to short circuit in my brain

It should not be such a shock but it still is and it’s been even worse to see people defend it, blame it on neurodivergence, or gaslight us into believing we’re making it up when we call it what it is

I think it’s a sense of helplessness because there’s nothing I can do about it. And people I love and care about support it

I’ve also been seeing so much Cabaret on my feeds and it’s just all been a lot to process to the point where I think my brain has stopped processing

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I bought myself some blue light filtering reader glasses solely to make reading fanfiction late at night less of a strain and I’ve never felt more ancient 😂

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Truly, shoutout to tumblr as a social media platform

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For any relocated TikTok users

you can say sex and kill its fine

If you don't have a profile picture people will assume you're a bot

theres barely an algorithm, if you want to see cool shit reblog things instead of just liking them

follower count doesnt matter

tumblr fame gets you one thing and it is Yelled At

no one knows what the fuck the nsfw policy is

block anyone that annoys you even a little bit

And most importantly:

post cringe

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God i prayed for the tide to turn for her. i’ll never forget for the rest of my life how she was treated

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Literally one of the worst experiences is going to the mechanic at my dealership

“We can inspect your car but it’s going to automatically fail because the check engine light is on”

“Yes, I know which is why I stated I needed my car inspected but that the check engine light was on so I needed that checked first”

And then they get all condescending about EVERYTHING. I’m in such a pissy mood already today. I’m only going to get the info I need and then am having any work done at a local shop

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I watched a video of a Lesbian couple getting married early just in case the new “president” succeeds in banning gay marriage as a federally protected right

And friends.

I literally don’t know if I can do another 4 years of not only him but the hatred he enables in other people in positions of power.

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I don’t WANT a career. I want to cuddle and sleep and eat and read and create and love and be loved.

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*things such as video game systems are not included in this poll

**your own, not a family/shared computer

reblog for reach/bigger sample size!!

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FAVOURITE STARGATE SG-1 CHARACTERS VOTED BY YOU || #4 JACK O'NEILL

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Quitting my old job at a toxic work place wasn't completely "easy" but I felt good about the choice and felt really good once I actually put in my notice.

Quitting this part time, 2nd job that I LOVE and brings me levels of joy I've never experienced at work is killing me. It's the right choice but it just makes me so sad

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“It’s okay if you want to ask some basic questions or just chat but I’m not interested in dating or romantic relationships”

“So what’s your entire life story? What lead to you being who you are today”

Absolutely not 😂

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Update I sent a generic message back and he wants to meet up now 😭

I had a guy dm on instagram and it’s this really nice message where he talked about meeting me at a con earlier this year but ended up being to nervous to talk to me much

And that he talked with his therapist about regrets for this year and not talking to me was his only true regret of the year

And I want to reply to the dude in a nice way but also a way that makes it clear I’m not looking to date anyone

I legitimately don’t have a problem replying to a guy when he’ll message similar things but almost every single time, it’s just because they want a shot at a romantic relationship with me. I can count on 1 hand the number of men who have private messaged me as strangers and not wanted to get with me.

Surprising one of the ones who ended up respecting my boundary the best was the man who asked me if I’d be interested in doing an “adult film”. At a convention. That my mother attended with me for the first time 😂

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I had a guy dm on instagram and it’s this really nice message where he talked about meeting me at a con earlier this year but ended up being to nervous to talk to me much

And that he talked with his therapist about regrets for this year and not talking to me was his only true regret of the year

And I want to reply to the dude in a nice way but also a way that makes it clear I’m not looking to date anyone

I legitimately don’t have a problem replying to a guy when he’ll message similar things but almost every single time, it’s just because they want a shot at a romantic relationship with me. I can count on 1 hand the number of men who have private messaged me as strangers and not wanted to get with me.

Surprising one of the ones who ended up respecting my boundary the best was the man who asked me if I’d be interested in doing an “adult film”. At a convention. That my mother attended with me for the first time 😂

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With Meta owning some of the most popular social media apps it’s not as fun to complain about instagram or Facebook being down

At least tumblr is still here

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It's my 14 year anniversary on Tumblr 🥳