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“When a person tells you you hurt them, you don’t get to decide you didn’t.”

— Louis C.K.

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“Always defend your right to heal at your own pace. You are taking your time. You are allowed to take your time.”

— Unknown

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Me? How am I doing?

I’m working 10 hour days, 5 days a week, I love it!

I’m getting up at 3:15am to go to the gym before work with my three best gals, it does make me tired but I know it’s good for me.

I eat two pies a day, I’m not a huge fan of the habit but it’s called laziness and I have a lot on my plate.

I’m studying for a diploma in business and marketing, I don’t prioritise this enough which leads to stress that is unnecessary.

I find that with going from waking up at 3:15 for the gym, then to work at 5am, leaving at 3:30, I’m exhausted when I get home, then I have to study for 2-3 hours. The things I juggle is my study, my quality family time, me time and house hygiene. I can only do one if I’m hitting the gym, because I’m too tired at the end of the day.

Next step…. Eating better, maybe that will help me stay awake.

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When your husband tells you he thinks it’s time I get my contraceptive rod removed..... omg

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Being in a relationship is hard, you give the love you want to receive, kind of like love languages, and your partner does the same thing back, it’s tough to find a middle ground. My relationship has been surprisingly easy, it’s insane that we fit together so well, we understand each other. I know all he wants is to make me happy and all I want is to build my world around him..... I can’t wait to fuck him in that Police uniform tbh... drippin just thinking about it.

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Something so subtle and simple can represent the biggest moment in you life. I'm walked with my fiance to the oceans edge this evening and I was just with him, being held by his warmth, by his eyes, his lips. I took a deep breath and relaxed because in that moment I knew I was exactly where I am supposed to be, I'm doing what I was placed on this earth to do, all the while gazing at this amazing view.

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If someone has to constantly remind everyone on social media that they are “so happy” and “today is a good day” or “I’m am the happiest me” then they are full of shit and they are posting to make themselves feel better, BE REAL

We know you are going through some shit, I’m sick of reading your fake ass posts

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“Everybody has a secret world inside of them. All of the people of the world, I mean everybody. No matter how dull and boring they are on the outside, inside them they’ve all got unimaginable, magnificent, wonderful, stupid, amazing worlds. Not just one world. Hundreds of them. Thousands maybe.”

— Neil Gaiman (via thoughtkick)

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Change is good…

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I listen to break up songs, I post quotes about sad things because my relationship is so truly solid and perfect that I seek those sad thing so I can still experience those feelings, sometimes I crave those feelings, they make me love more, appreciate what I have in front of me and around me.

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“Honestly I don’t even play an active role in my life. Shit just happens and I’m like oh is this what we’re doing now? Ok.”

— sushie (via thoughtkick)

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“I think people spend too much time staring into screens and not enough time drinking wine, tongue kissing, and dancing und the moon.”

— Rachel Wolchin