I'm gonna try and use this Tumblr strictly for my meditation, and what that actually means in a nutshell is I will be posting my views, and opinions on all different topics. And for now I will also use this page to share my art work I recently discovered I had a knack for, but will eventually have its own page. Now I'm hoping to accomplish a number of different things. Some I will finish and complete, and some will always be ongoing even after I'm gone, I hope. If I'm completely honest, and I demand that when commenting on here or posting, My main Goal is so that I can hopefully become a successful, responsible, Loving father by writing down my thoughts and feelings on different subjects in hopes that I can make, at the very least a good enough living so I can support me and my daughter. Simply meaning. I hope that I make money off this so I can get at least an apartment and take care of my daughter. Nothing fancy. Just good enough that it makes my daughter smile genuinely everyday. Now, and this is always important to me. I hope that the things I share or talk about, and anything that goes on here is helping someone at all times because really at the end of the day if we can't help one another, and think we don't need nobody, then what's the point. Just quit now. No one makes it in this world with out at least needing someone's help at some point in their life even if it's without them knowing it. So I'm just gonna leave it like that for now. I'll add or minimize it as we progress. because we will progress...
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I gave social media a break cuz it was really starting to look like a place where mostly everyone came to complain, cry, speculate, assume, showoff, and pretend to be something that we weren't, and I was guilty of it to. So if my 14 year old daughter doesn't even have a Facebook account by choice then I think I can give it a break for a lil. And it's not because she's not allowed to have social media that she doesn't participate. It's because she realized right away what it was, and even worse where it's going. And that's what made me take a real hard, honest look at myself, and what I been doing as far as the negative energy I been putting out into the world. And let me first be clear, I'm not accusing everyone of using social media that way, but let's be honest. I'm just guessing, probably 80% of what we post and see on social media sites is bullshit, lies, propaganda, fiction, and I can go on, but you get what I'm trying to say. That's what we're wasting our time on, instead of using that time to better ourselves, and the world around us. That's what we're filling our heads with, and even worse its what our children are filling their heads with, and we're allowing it, basically telling them that it's okay to believe everything you see on social media. It's okay to treat people the way a lot of people are treated these days on social media sites. I've heard parents try to explain to me their logic behind them thinking "social media isnt that bad for the children", And I'm overreacting, "it's really not that deep" they say to me. I'm just gonna give one example but I've heard worse then this but I heard a parent say "it's doesn't mean anything, or it's ok for lil Johnny to treat someone with evil intent, bully, or make fun of other people on social media because it's only a computer".............. If your jaw isn't already stuck wide open in shock I'll wait a little longer for that comment to sink in..........
Ok, isn't that just the dumbest, most naive thing you ever heard? What's even crazier then that is that a lot of people actually think like this. Their is another human being on another computer, phone, laptop, what ever smart device that is reading that. Someone else's daughter, or son. Please try and think about that. And definitely think about that with even more concer before whatever it is your about to post, share, or comment on because you really can't say how many people possibly are going to see it and we have to be more mindful of that. I'm gonna stop here cuz I can go on for ever on this topic, and all different directions with this. I definitely will continue to post more of my thoughts like this in the days to come. But I'm asking you to do just a couple easy things during these crazy times we ARE ALL going through.. Turn off the news, stop watching/listening to all the Coronavirus hoopla for at least a half hour. I would recommend more time but really this can help even if you do this for a half hour each day.
1st. Go on social media, and scroll down your wall and really try and pay attention to all the different posts, examine everything, the messages, the messengers, the reactions/comments, the language used, the ages of the people of some of the comments that catch your eye. Really pay attention, and do this all with an open mind and being true to yourself.
2nd. Now, ask yourself. And again really try to be honest, because your only fooling yourself in the end.. Is this something that is good for humanity? Should children be allowed to navigate on these social media sites freely and without any kind of proper training (that's a whole topic I'll get into another time), ask yourself is this really something that is helping humanity in a positive way, or is it hurting us?? Seriously, their is no right or wrong answers. This is all a matter of opinion, and who knows, (my ultimate goal) We can learn something from all this if we are true to ourselves, and respectful, and open to others opinions. Another question I almost always find myself asking when I login to my social media, Am I going to finally not see a negative, disrespectful comment or post today, because theirs never been a time when I logged on to social media sites at least for 10 mins and could say, Finally, a day where everyone was nice and respectful today. No one's feelings got hurt, and Everyone told the truth.(another goal I want to achieve).
Now this has always been on my mind. I have a lot of mixed emotions about social media, and let me say this, not everything on social media is negative. It has its moments, but let's be real. Their few and far between. Since this Virus,(I refuse to say the whole word ever again) has lead us to social distance ourselves physically from each other, and the government pretty much stopped and we were forced to stay inside. Here's another one of my wild guesses, I'm It's prolly just easier to say we have increased our social media use a lot more . So I've had a lot more time to really get to know myself, and others as well, and I'm including human beings as a whole in that. I'm guilty of this to. But we really need to take a look at how were acting, what were saying to each other, what were teaching our kids and that means what were letting them think it's okay for them to just log onto a site that you really don't know who's on the other end of one of them mean, disrespectful, or even positive comments aimed to lure them in for all the wrong reasons.
Ok ok I'm rambling.. . I think I heard this on Jerry Springer show ages ago..Lol
My Final Thought: "Be mindful of what we say on the internet, and how we say it. Pay more attention to what our kids are looking at on the net as a whole not just social sites. Let them know not everything, and everyone is truthful on there. But this most of all and why I originally started this post, WE NEED TO BE HONEST AT ALL TIMES TO OTHERS, OUR CHILDREN, but most of all, OURSELVES....
This was started mostly as a form of meditation for myself because writing is one of the few things that relaxes me. Another reason was Im always in protection mode for my daughter. And to take my mind off all the Coronavirus BS, and all while doing that I always hope I'm helping others in some way. Thank You,
D.J.
Feel free, I encourage you to comment, leave your thoughts, and share this with others please. If you wanna help others like I do then please share this, cuz that will help me to continue to write, and better myself and hopefully reach others that don't know certain things and get something from this...
#keepingit100#meditation#howifeelisreal#realone#uownyourbrain#savehumanity#makeyourmark#scaredishealthy#pain=life
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New beginnings can be scary. Also they can be an adventure as well. It's all how we wanna look at it. How we go into situations is gonna determine how that situation will turn out. Just remember that you control how you feel in turn most likely that will be how things are going to be......
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Be carful out there doing that last minute shopping or if it's the first Xmas shopping you done if your like me. Just don't let the Crazies, and/or the miserable, ignorant people make you act out of character and stoop to their level. Do what I do: Smile and keep it moving. That also gets a lot of people mad cuz they can't for the life of them wonder how you could be smiling when they were purposely acting like idiots.
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NFC East Champs
Where is all them whining ass cowboy fans? Funny how they disappear when they lose.. GO EAGLES!!!🥇🥇🥇🥇🥇
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A favorite quote I recently heard:
"I know you're lying because your mouths moving"
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The house fire even took all me markers but I'm slowly gaining more...#cntdraw4sht #215-DJ #100irish
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4. Constructive Criticism
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Now that's a Xmas tree!!!!?😁😁
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PLEASE KEEP THE PRAYERS COMING!!. The doctors took him off the life support around 11:30pm and said we would lose him anywhere from 30 mins to an hour. At 4 AM his heart was still going and they are now saying they wanna put him in hospice because he's still fighting. I don't know how else to say it but it's A MIRACLE!! GOD is GOOD. And Reef, your a tough SOB. Please continue praying https://www.instagram.com/p/B1f9W0VAhwd/?igshid=nthmw9r51ukd
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Please send 🙏 🙏 out for my Brother from another NAS.. Hold on BRO. You can pull thru. Your strong.. 1💟BRO. You can do it. , I can't take losing another close friend/family member. And there's no room on my R.I.P. wall for another name at this moment so you have to wait https://www.instagram.com/p/B1QbX0cgalJ/?igshid=eda4va1t9lgh
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