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“10. You take accountability for your mistakes. Feedback and constructive criciticsm don’t make you defensive anymore. You’ve grown too much for that. Now, you apologize when you screw up without thinking you’re a totally shit human for the mistake. You just learn from it and do better.” - 11 Signs You’re Healing So Much More Than You Realize by Molly Burford
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Viewing my Gmail tonight and I realized that I had a unopened e-mail from the Nurse Practitioner clinic letting me know they’ll be moving their location and conveniently for me, it’s closer to my house and in walking distance. Small win? I’ll take it.
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Feeling safe in someone’s energy is a different type of intimacy.
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Tonight I applied polysporin, lotion, bio-oil and Vaseline to my body and then took my medications. I feel old. I’m still pretty unhappy about my body because of all the scarring. I know it’ll heal or fade but right now I feel ugly. Ugly and old.
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I need to buy jeans that fit properly, feel comfortable and look cute but I actually dread wearing jeans, spending money on jeans and going jean shopping.
What happened to cheap jeans that don’t hurt.
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I complain about this every winter but I really wish people washed their outdoor clothes (coats, bags, mittens, etc) because of the smell and even the filth.
I hate when someone will hand me a soiled reusable bag while I’m on cash. I don’t want to handle that.
The people who come in and you know they’ve just finished a cigarette, smoked weed, ate Chinese food, was around a bonfire/wood burning stove or was cooking something hearty like roast beef.
I don’t want to second hand smell these things.
Obviously there’s also people who come in smelling like body odor/sweat, greasy hair, cat litter, piss and even just self-rot.
I wish people just washed their things and showered more.
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It’s been almost 4 years of sobriety and I’ve come to that point that I don’t want people drinking in my house because I can’t stand the smell.
I don’t care if people smoke weed here but I really don’t want alcohol in my house. I don’t want that smell in my house. It changes everything including the energy in my home. It lingers even after they leave.
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My Phone has been showing me dr.pepper posts but I am a Coca Cola girly.
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The word “moots” is one of those words that I feel unjustifiably angry about. Please just say mutual.
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I don’t want children but seeing a little one wearing camouflage, carhart or little overalls makes me reconsider every time.
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Update to my last post: my store manager said she’s good with that. “That’s totally fine if you think you can handle both.” “Yes I would like to handle both”
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Work stuff
When I first started at my job I was asked to be in charge of the candy isle and I had a lot of pride in it but I saw the health and beauty isle needed work — (plus the previous “owner” of the isle was lazy) so I went to my manager and basically told her that I would like to take it over and than we hired new people who would work on the candy isle but no matter what I say to them (or what our store expectations are) they just don’t push items out or they have everything, everywhere. Boxes won’t be properly opened. We are not supposed to have closed boxes on the floor even if it’s behind an opened or under a box.
If you have ever worked in retail you are supposed to have the same item in a straight line.
I kind of want to ask if I can have it back over officially while keeping my health & beauty. It’s stretching myself somewhat thin but I spent time my last shift re-arranging so the same product was together, more can go out and so much more can be condensed. I hate seeing other items behind/missed.
Thin line between: not wanting to come off as thinking I am better than everyone else but knowing I can get more out of the warehouse/back room, as it currently has too much candy sitting back there.
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