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I really really really need your help! Or someone's help! I have a friend that was in a relationship that they have since ended. There was a significant age gap and some sexual stuff happened I’ll just leave it at that. They really regret ending the relationship and calling him out on what he did. I don’t know what to do! Do I convince them not to get back into the relationship? Do I support them in whatever decision they make, even if it will und up hurting him? The thing is I don’t know (1/2)

their ex personally so I don’t know if they are an actually bad person or a nice person that fucked up. I really don’t want them to get back into the relationship because I don’t want them to get into any more potential harm. I just don’t know what I should do! And even if I did know what to do I don’t know HOW to do it! It is really stressing me out and I want to help them! Please help! (2/2)

MOD ZERO;

I really say that you should not support something that you feel will end well. If your gut is telling you that it won’t end well, and you think something is going on, I would definitely stand your ground. Being a friend isn’t supporting them in whatever they do, but not letting them stray into harm’s path. If you really feel they are in danger in this relationship, I think that you should let them know. If not them, someone else you trust. However, i do think that looking into your friend’s ex and how they are as a person plays a significant role in deciding on how to act in this situation and judging whether this is a decision you want to support. I hope this helps you.

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I have three friends that are all in a hate circle… thing? A hates B and C, B and C hate A back, and B and C aren’t quite friendly with each other. I feel like I’m doing something wrong by like people other friends hate. I’ve see things from almost every angle and I wish everyone would see that everyone else are kind, caring, nontoxic people! I wish I could explain it in more detail, but I really, really shouldn't. It seriously feels like one of those fucking sitcom episodes were everyone (1/2)

tells their side of the story and completely demonize the person on the other end of the argument! It’s maddening! I don’t know what to do. I just want everyone to stop hating each other. (2/2)

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I’m fearing interaction with people A LOT lately. I fear that if I ask people to not do something because of my mental state they will start to purposely do it, or if I show symptoms of a mental illness the people around will either all leave or won't leave me alone. I’m afraid to talk about my mental illness because it feels like I’m just a bother that they want to get, and people just won’t care. I know that the people that do this are bad, but I still need to know how to interact with them.

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okay

So I can’t remove inactive mods. I’m going to ask that once they see this, they leave the blog. I have given them enough time to check, and if they havent thus far, they likely wont. I will be removing them from the mods page.

-Mod Zero

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There’s a lot of people around me that are in a rough spot mentally and I wish I knew how to make them feel better. I try and I try and I fail. I want everyone to be happy because they deserve it! I take it as my responsibility to make sure they are okay, and I’m only bothered by it when I fail. They have to be happy! They deserve it! I hate when they are distressed! It’s all my fault. I can’t make them feel better because of my own ineptitude. Everyone feels bad because Im just not good enough.

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its good to love the people around you and wish them well but remember that the problems they have are theirs.you are not a failure. their feelings are not because of you. you wont always be able to help them and that doesnt make you any less of a person.  (i have a feeling i know who wrote this. i could be wrong though)

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I’m so scared of speaking my opinion and I hate it! When I see something that I don’t agree with or when I see someone overeating about something that I don’t think they should worry about, I want to talk with that person about it. I just want to have a calm levelheaded conversation to sort out who is right and who is wrong. But I know for a fact that isn’t going to happen! The other person is going to say that I’m a bad person for not agreeing with them, (1/2)

or say that because I said these thing that means I think these things and that means I’m bad. I just don’t want to bad a bad person! I wish I could have a calm conversation with someone about what I believe and my opinions to find out what is wrong and right, what is harmful and what isn’t, what is bad and what is good. It is so so stressful, and I wish I could say it only happens on the internet, but It’s been happening more and more irl. (2/2)

I know it’s hard to stand up for your opinions, especially when you want to avoid conflict or the loss of friendship. It’s like being stuck between a rock and a hard place, and-pardon my french, either way you feel like you’re fucked. Personally, I too struggle with holding my options, as I hate conflict and hate making others upset. However, if what you believe is what your believe then the other party should respect that! (There are few exceptions, but I don’t feel like any of them would apply to you) Misinformed people are the worst to talk to about the topics they don’t know about, because they will claim to you, just hold your head high and remind yourself you are the alpha party. I believe in you!

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i will be removing inactive mods in one week.

this is a warning. if you wish to stay contact me. otherwise you will be removed by next saturday

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I want to be beaten. I want to be abused and kidnapped and torchered and punished and beaten senseless. Is this bad? I don't want it because it's something that turns me on or something, I want it because I feel that it is necessary, like I need to suffer. I haven't put myself in harm's way because of it... *swallows nervously* yet. I just want it to happen so badly!

I sort of understand, due to my whole “I am bad, hurt me” thought process. I want to tell you, you don’t deserve to suffer, pain can be horrible, pain is scary, you don’t deserve pain. It’s good that its not a kink, as this shouldn’t be done to others either. Please just remind yourself that you are worthy, and that you don’t deserve to suffer.

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(toxic friend anon) Okay i'm pretty sure he's toxic (ノдヽ) I felt so positively about him before I moved (he drew me a lot of neat picture on my birthday and before I left, and I sought him for support), but now I've kinda seen how bad he's been. He's a huge hypocrite: *I show him an Omocat shirt* “Why are you such hipster weeaboo trash!? *asks me to buy him a shirt from the same place for his birthday*, “You need to do more when we play basketball (in gym). You’re just afraid to touch them (1/3)

because they’re girls! *says those same exact things about himself while playing flag football*. He’s all around critical about me too: *I wake up at 2pm* “Hehe, well summer’s all about messed up sleep schedules.” “No! You just THINK that’s what it’s all about! Get up at a normal time for once!”, *I go to him for support for my social anxiety* “you know I think you’re only scared of people because you can’t control them!”. He’s even teased at a romantic relationship with me to then turn me down.

 I honestly think he cares more about our plans to make video games together than he does about me. At times it seems that he genuinely cares about me, and other times he act like that. I know I probably should end the friendship, but I’m scared to, and I don’t know how… 

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He certainly does seem like the kind of person you should try to get away from. I think you understand that, and I’m glad you are considering help for this.In your options of trying to end the friendship, I’d say try to tell him what his behaviors are that hurt you, and why you are ending the friendship. If he continues to try and contact you, block him on all accounts and tell an adult or superior about his unwanted contact. perhaps even make new accounts under a nickname. I wish you luck in whatever you do!

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I’m considering dropping out of highschool. It’s just too stressful and anxiety inducing! It’s too much. During the last week of school I started off half of the days with an anxiety attack, and it’s getting worse. My mind just keeps screaming at me to not go to school and it's infuriating how much school I’m missing, but I just can’t handle it! All school is now is the cherry on top of my suicidal sundae. I’ve already considered suicide a lot and “no more worrying about school” is just (1/2)

(dropout anon) another pro to the list. I’m a sophomore, but is that too early to drop out? I wish I could just barely scrape by with my grades for the next two and a half years, but my anxiety won’t let me. I’ll get yelled at by teachers and my parents which is bad, and having bad grades in general is bad and I bottomline CANNOT be a bad person! (2/2)

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Theres is never a time that is too young to drop out. Remember that it is a big decision and that you should take as much time as you need to consider, but if school is driving you to that kind of place, you should definitely take that into consideration. Getting out of stressful environments can really help. I support you in whatever choice you make.

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I'm not here for advice or help (but it's appreciated). I just want to tell someone and not keep it to myself. My little sister has been hanging out with a boy who is toxic. Bad rumors are going around them and the boy self harms. I just came to find out via parents that they're going to her school cause her friends are saying she wants to die. I don't know how to deal with this. I'm terrified and I don't want to lose her.

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This is a hard time for you and your family, I understand. Its good that you aren’t keeping such a heavy weight on yourself. At this time I’d say that its extremely important that you are there for your little sister. Let her know that you support her and share your fears of losing her. Talking to her and trying to understand how she feels can assist you in better helping her. Use active listening techniques and let them know you’re listening. I wish you the best of luck.

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I need some help determining if a friend of mine is toxic (sorry if that sounds weird). Would that be okay?

Yes! This is perfectly alright! I know that it is sometimes hard to come to terms if a friend of yours is toxic / may be, Here x x are a few lists of signs, and furthermore, if they make you just plain feel bad, you’d probably be better without them, you can also send us some things about them and we can help you determine that way, I wish you the best!

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rabbits only flop over like that if they feel completely safe btw

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Just finished a new blog theme!

I hope you all enjoy it. -Mod Zero

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Suicide Hotlines galore

I hate to make such a long post, but at the same time I don’t. Please do me the favor of writing down every single one of these that apply to you or someone you know and put them somewhere you can find them. I hope you never need any of these, but I also hope you have them if you do. Here we go:

USA 1-800-273-TALK (8255) 1-800-SUICIDE (784-2433) 1-800-784-8433 1-800-231-1127 1-888-971-9979 800-621-4000     Burnet County, Tx     1-800-841-1255     Llano County, Tx     1-800-682-7382 Eating Disorder     1-847-831-3438     630-577-1330     1-800-931-2237 Rape/Sexual Assault/Abuse     1-800-656-4673 Depresion     1-630-482-9696 LGBTQ 1-800-398-4297     Trevor Project     1-866-488-7386     1-800-850-8078 Sexuality Support     1-800-246-7743 Grief Support     1-650-321-5272 Runaway     1-800-843-5200     1-800-843-5678     1-800-621-4000     1-800-843-5078 Exhale (Post Abortion Support)     1-866-439-4253 Domestic Violence         1-800-799-7233     1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) Self Harm 1-800-366-8288     SAFE(Self Abuse Finally Ends)     1-800-DONT-CUT (1-800-366-8288) Panic Disorder Info     800-647-2642 ARGENTINA 800-555-5522 54-0223-493-0430 01-713-3374 AUSTRALIA 1-800-817-4000 1-800-799-338 AUSTRIA 800-5555-5522 01-713-3374 BARBADOS 429-9999 BELGIUM 800-5555-5522 106 BOTSWANA 391-1270 BRAZIL 21-233-9191 0800-891-7391 CANADA 514-723-4000 866-246-9224 1-416-408-4357     Ontario     519-416-486-2242     Alberta     1-888-787-2880     British Columbia     1-866-872-0113     Quebec     5-14-723-4000 CHINA 852-2382-800 800-5555-5522 852-2382-0000 COLOMBIA 800-5555-5522 COSTA RICA 00-800-5555-5522 5-06-253-5439 CROATIA 01-4833-888 CYPRUS 357-77-77-72-67 DENMARK 00-800-5555-5522 70-201-201 EGYPT 762-1602 FINLAND 800-5555-5522 040-503-2199 FRANCE 01-45-39-4000 GERMANY 800-5555-5522 0800-181-0721 GUATEMALA 502-252-1259 UK 0857-90-90-90 0800-068-4141 HOLLAND 0900-0767 HONG KONG 800-5555-5522 HUNGARY 800-5555-5522 INDIA 000-800-1006-614 92-22-307-3451 IRELAND 1850-60-90-90 800-5555-5522 44-0-8457-90-90-90 ISRAEL 800-5555-5522 ITALY 800-5555-5522 06-705-4444 JAPAN 800-5555-5522 3-5286-9090 LUXEMBOURG 800-5555-5522 MALAYSIA 800-5555-5522 MEXICO 525-510-2550 001-800-514-3716 5-25-510-2550 NETHERLANDS 800-5555-5522 0900-0767 NEW ZEALAND 4-473-9739 800-5555-5522 NORWAY 800-5555-5522 47-815-33-300 NEW GUINEA 675-326-00 PHILIPPINES 02-896-9191 POLAND 52-70-000 PORTUGAL 239-72-10-10 RUSSIA 8-20-222-82-10 SPAIN 91-495-00-50 SOUTH AFRICA 0861-322-322 SWEDEN 031-711-2400 SWITZERLAND 143 THAILAND 02-249-9977 UK 0857-90-90-90 0800-068-4141 1850-60-90-90 UKRAINE 0487-327715