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hi we’re alive i’ve just been preparing for a trip + posting on bsky more

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too tired to be alive rn

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I do not require Benadryl to see The Hat Man! Her name is @unknwnprcnt and we already share a brain.

- Locket 💛 (they/them)

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DID/OSDD Journaling Ideas

[Hi, it’s Jordan. I thought I’d post this on Tumblr for other DID/OSDD systems. It’s a list of ideas of things to write/draw in your DID/OSDD journal, like if a system wanted to make their own. It’s a little scrambly, sorry about that. Lol. I left it mostly how I wrote it in our notes for our system, so change some things to relate it to yourself, if you need to. Here’s copy of the document below.]

[Also, I do refer to people in one’s system as “alters”, just so you know. You can totally change that, though. Do whatever you need, copy it, modify it; I don’t mind.]

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Tip

Use a big binder! Punch holes in some lined and blank printing paper and stick them in your binder. You can even put stickers on or paint the front/back of the binder! Also, washi tape is your best friend. :) 

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Main Organization (for new book and dailies)

The title of the book, our system name, the date of creation of this book, and an introduction to this book

Index and main key (for any symbols or colors) 

Emergency phone numbers and our caretakers outside of our system

Explaining briefly what DID/OSDD and their symptoms, causes, and treatments are

Main calendar with birthdays, holidays, festivals, and events that will or have happened in our life of this year

Birthday/holiday/festival wish list(s) for [month]

Birthday/holiday/festival gift list(s) for loved ones ([month])

List of the alters in our system

Brief introduction to each alter of their main information

Each alter’s inner world living space

Each alter’s appearance, clothing type, accessory types, cosmetics, etc. 

Each alter’s testimony of morality (basically, whether you’re a positive or negative kind of person)

Each alter’s hobbies and interests in general

Each alter’s favorite things (movies, shows, colors, food, bands/singers, etc.) 

Each alter’s favorite aesthetic/decor for our bedroom 

Each alter’s “things to do to entertain yourself”

Each alter’s mental disabilities, disorders, illnesses, and positive and negative triggers, things to do to cheer yourself up when you’re mad/sad/overwhelmed

Each alter’s religious/spiritual views

Each alter’s sexual and romantic orientations, genders and pronouns

What I ate today by each person who fronted that day

Daily horoscope summary for each alter who fronted that day

Daily “one paragraph or less” contribution to our system group chat on Discord

“Two/three random unmentioned facts about me” by each alter

Things each alter fronting that day just, in general, remembers that we’d previously forgotten, written down for future reference (it’s okay if it stays blank, it’s not required; also, if you need to remind another alter of something, write it down on a sticky note IRL and place it on out computer desk–thank you) 

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Weekly Ideas

Favorite songs or adds on Spotify from each alter for the previous week

Chores trackers for each of us (and whose turn it is for what!) 

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Main Organization (for new month)

Daily routine for this month, including workout, yoga, skincare, etc.

Things to do this month for each alter

Goals for this month for the system as a whole

Trackers for this month for each active alter (weight, hydration, mood, sleep, soda, medicine, tv series, etc.)

Habits to stop and habits to start in this month for each alter

Weekly free-flowing journaling (at least half a page for each alter) and/or  a five or four inches by five or four inches box of random doodles (you can do both, one or the other, or neither–totally fine)

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Yearly Ideas

Each alter’s new year’s resolutions for the new year

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Random One-Timers

Ways to care for our pet(s) for every alter to know

A page of our system values we hope everyone will look over and follow as best they can (please try) 

Dream wedding of each alter (if applicable) 

Usernames & passwords of everyone’s accounts

Each alter’s favorite recipes of food for each meal (breakfast, lunch, dinner)

Expenses, budget, savings, and things to pay for each month

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Please donate and share Lama and her unborn child’s story! She is due in only ONE month.

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(asking my system friend who's fronting)hey so uhh.. what user is logged in right now

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Hello dear friend,

I’m Noha from Gaza, Mother of martyr and wife of martyr .

17 people of My family was forcibly displaced from their homes to the southern Gaza Strip, and they now live in samall tent , The occupation completely destroyed our house and our business and we no longer have anything that we used to own.

MY mother suffers from joint pain and back cartilage pain. Also, she had surgery before the war to remove a tumor in the intestine 💔!!️ and she needs to continue her treatment.

As for my middle brother, Darwish,He has a family of 10 people, he is paralyzed in his right leg, he suffers from severe leg pain.  Two months before the war, he had surgery in Egypt to implant a joint in his leg, and he was supposed to return to Egypt to continue his treatment, but the war prevented him from doing so, so he urgently needs to go to Egypt to continue his treatment.

As for me, I lost my small and beautiful family in the 2014 war, which consists of my husband and my only child, whom I gave birth to after 7 years of deadly waiting and a very long and expensive treatment journey. He was only two and a half years old. I lost him and did not hug him enough to forget the agony of waiting for him to come. I also suffered injuries, which resulted in several operations on my right leg and other parts of my body, the effects of which I still suffer to this day. So, I don't want to experience what it's like to lose someone I love again. It's a very painful feeling. Please save my family.

Life here is unbearable, especially tent life is very difficult, and the situation is getting worse every day.

I urge you to support us to save our lives, Your support is our only hope for survival after losing everything.

We hope you will continue to support us by donating or sharing to help save and rebuild our lives. Every contribution matters, much appreciated

Many thanks to everyone who supported us.https://gofund.me/b5922332

Olive Branch Masterlist #78 // Please donate & share this family's story. They are so so close to their goal.

Hello Noha, thank you for sharing your story.

I am so sorry for the losses that you have already suffered. I can't begin to imagine the type of pain you and your loved ones must carry.

I hope that your mother and brother are able to receive proper medical treatment soon. I'll do what I can to make sure you're heard and your story is shared.

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Hello👋🫀

My family and I are facing incredibly difficult times due to The war of extermination and starvation in Gaza 💔.Our dreams and future have been shattered, leaving us feeling lost and without purpose. My family and I have launched a GoFundMe campaign to help us escape Gaza, continue our education, and support our family.

Making a small donation or sharing the campaign_ would mean the world to us🙏🏻

🤝🏻

✅️Vetted by @gazavetters, my number verified on the list is ( #275 )✅️

Link:https://gofund.me/5eb5fe42

Thank you so much for your humanity and kindness and support ❤️‍🩹❤

With gratitude,

Ahmed totah

GazaVetters #275 // Please donate and share Ahmed's story!!

Hello Ahmed, thank you for reaching out.

I am so sorry you and your family are facing such inhumane treatment. I hope that you are able to escape and rebuild your dreams and future. Please stay safe and stay together.

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Hello, my dear friend 💚

Could you help me please 🥺??

I apologize for reaching out like this 😔, but I’m urgently in need of help to survive these difficult times due to the GazaWar💔. Any small donation could be a lifeline for me.

If you can’t donate, please consider rebloging my pinned post. My full story is here:

https://gofund.me/0dd287db

Thank you for any support you can provide. ❤️

Vetted by @gazavetters

Please donate and share Farah's story.

Hello, dear. Thank you for reaching out. I'll gladly give my support.

Please do not apologize for reaching out. What you are living through right now is horrid and I am sorry you have had to experience it in your lifetime. You and your loved ones deserve better than this.

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URGENT HELP🚨🚨🚨🍉🇵🇸

Hello,

How do you do ? I hop to be in a good condition.

This is my special campaign

We hope to help us by donating or sharing to others.

Every donation makes a different even if it a small.

As you know, the war began on October 7 and lasted ten months. During this period, we were unable to obtain food, drink, or treatment because we did not have money.

There is no source of income for the family at the present time, so we are unable to buy food, clean water, and medicine, especially after we are afflicted with the ongoing infectious diseases spread in the north like Hepatitis C disease.

Our house has been damaged a lot since the beginning of the war. We are from the north of Gaza and we are still in the north and have not displaced to the south. We displaced 10 times from place to another seeking to safety .

We hope for your help and support, even if only a little.🙏🙏

Vetted by Femme intifada on telegram.

Also, vetted by gazavetters on tumbler and my number is #60

My campaign was recently vetted by butterfly effect group on Instagram and my number is #964

This is the link if you would to read our story well 👇👇

https://gofund.me/4e896ac1

Thank you all

GazaVetters #60 // Please donate and share this family's story!

Hello, thank you for reaching out.

I'm so sorry that you and your family are being made to live through this nightmare. It's inhumane. I hope that you and your family are able to have full stomachs and a roof over your head soon.

Stay safe. <3

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I hope you, your family and your loved ones are well

We are not well. We are now homeless and in a very dangerous area. Tanks are now approaching us and missiles are above us Can you donate to me today so we can escape from this area to a safer area

The cost of the transportation vehicle is $100. I hope you can afford half. We are now in the street

and it is late at night

I hope you can help me, my dear

https://gofund.me/00edbb8a

Please donate and share. Funds are extremely low.

Thank you for your kind wishes.

I am so sorry that you and your family are being exposed to such dangers. My wish is that you all remain unharmed and are able to find stability at the end of this.

To my followers: This is an unvetted GFM but the reverse image search is clean and it is donation protected. I do believe that this is legitimate.

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Hello! I need medication for life to prevent my lungs from collapsing, this implies permanent treatment with steroids, oxygen therapy, control of oxygen in the blood and antibiotics to prevent the development of bacteria in the lungs.

I'm afraid I have to insist on this because it may be the only way to get my treatment.

I need medication for life to keep my lungs from collapsing, this costs around $700 per month.

Things are really tough on me,I can’t afford. Please donate🖤

SCAMMER MOMENT!! 🤮

The pictures on this scammer's blog were stolen from an ACTUAL fundraiser for a patient with Cystic Fibrosis named Alessandra Olivera.

GO SUPPORT ALESSANDRA INSTEAD.

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If life is a never ending loop of dirty dishes and laundry then that means life is a never ending loop of home cooked meals and comfy clean clothes

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“My body”? oh no you must be mistaken. This isn’t my body, this is just a thing I’m inhabiting for a while cause the other one was unavailable. No I will not elaborate.

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in the club wondering if people can tell i’m traumatized by the way i carry my body

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trauma so bad my coping mechanisms have names and pronouns