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I’m over at @agravicartist these days!

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WE-KIN-HELP’S FIRST EVER GIVEAWAY!

disclaimer: this giveaway is in no way or manner affiliated with tumblr.com

❥ To enter:

- You do not have to be following this account but you do have to be some kind of ‘kin!

- USA/Canada entries only please. I currently cannot afford to ship overseas; although I hope I can for the next one!

- 18+ or have your parents permission. You have to be comfortable with giving me your address as I’ll need it to ship these things to you.

- Reblogs and likes both count! You can reblog as many times as you want over the period of this giveaway.

- Please only enter with one blog! I will be checking winners to make sure.

I will draw the winners via an online generator and will contact them through the tumblr messaging system (so please make sure you have yours enabled! If I can’t contact you, I will pick the next person via the draw!). You will have 48hrs to get back to me!

If you are reblogging this as a promo, please tag it as “not an entry” so I will know! Thank you!

❥ The raffle starts with today, and ends on the 22nd of July or when we hit 2.5k followers!

First place gets:

- $25 (excluding shipping) of whatever kin related thing(s) they want (within reason)

- Two bags of candy of their choice off Amazon

- Playlist/Moodboard/Self care set of the winner’s choice

Second Place gets:

- $15 (excluding shipping) of whatever kin related thing(s) they want (within reason)

- One bag of candy of their choice off Amazon

have fun !!

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OC Outfit Doodle Asks

Send one of the following symbols and one of my OC’s names and I’ll doodle:

👀 OC in their typical underwear 💤 OC in their sleep attire 🔞 OC in something sexy 🏄 OC in what they would wear to the beach/pool 👔 OC in what they would wear to a formal event (such as a wedding) ☠ OC in what they would wear to a funeral 👖 OC in what they would wear to a casual event (such as a birthday party) 👑 OC dressed as royalty 🚪 OC in what they wear when lounging around at home 💕 OC in what they would wear on a first date ❌ OC in something they would absolutely never wear 🎃 OC in a costume they’d wear for Halloween 🎄 OC in an ugly Christmas sweater 🚓 OC in a prison uniform 🚲 OC in athletic gear  🐰 OC in a kigurumi of their favourite animal ❄ OC in what they’d wear on a very cold day 🔥 OC in what they’d wear on a very hot day 👕 OC in a T-shirt with something stupid printed on it (think Zazzle) 🎭 OC in another OC’s typical attire 📦 OC wearing something that isn’t clothes (such as a fig leaf, a barrel, etc.) 👻 OC in a really bad disguise 📷 OC in a stereotypical tourist getup 🙎 OC in something embarrassing 👗 OC in something from the 50’s 💀 OC in goth/emo/scene attire 💃 OC in some radical 90’s clothes 🌁 OC in a hoodie 🌋 OC in camping or adventuring gear ♠️ OC in their armor (or in some sort of fantasy armor if not applicable to their story) 🎨 OC in a cartoon character’s outfit  🏨 OC in a maid outfit 🏥 OC in a nurse uniform 🐑 OC in farmer wear 👍 OC in a crop top

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Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but until I am less spread thin, this blog will be on a hiatus. Once I get more update news on that front, I will reblog this post staying what it is. Sorry.

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RPers, please reblog this if you’re okay with ICONLESS threads!

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This is mesmerizing to watch.

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The memester now has his own sideblog too! So, if you wouldn’t mind reblogging this if you’d be willing to rp with a Gaster rp blog. He is a sideblog, so I cannot follow you back from here, but I would love to interact with you all! Thank you so much for your help!

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When trans women are mocked and made into jokes in the media, I get very upset, and I am often told “Kay, you can’t go through life getting offended every time someone makes a joke.” And I sputter and object but they don’t hear me. So I want to be clear for once, about why the jokes make me angry.

I learned to hate myself for being transgender before I knew I was transgender. I laughed at the jokes in stand up comedy routines, and prime time sitcoms, and animated comedy shows, and in the movies, and in books, and in games, laughing at trans women for existing, about “men in dresses”, about people who “got their dicks chopped off”, and I learned to think that was worthy of ridicule.

And then a day came when I felt a pang of envy at what my female classmates were wearing and I repressed it, and felt guilty, and a day where I felt incomplete because I had no breasts and I repressed it and I felt disgusting

And a day when I realized the only images of romance that made me feel anything showed two women together and I repressed it and I felt like a monster

And a day when I realized I felt sick when I looked at myself in the mirror after every shower before work and couldn’t bear to look at my own face, and I hated myself.

And then there came a day when I hated myself so much, and I thought I could never understand why, and so I just wanted it all to end. And it was just a miracle that I swerved my car back into my lane in time.

And all of it started with a joke that I heard on TV, and then kept hearing from all the voices from the ether, over and over and over, worming an idea into my mind before I was old enough to realize I was absorbing it, the idea that a man in a dress is funny, and that changing your body parts makes you a freak, and that women who have penises instead of vaginas are liars and hurt men.

And they’re still making these jokes. And somewhere out there right now, just like all those years ago, there is a little girl in a t-shirt and cargo shorts with buzzed off hair watching the TV, hearing that joke and absorbing it without knowing it, who will someday have to pry herself apart to tear it out of her head, just like I did.

That is, if she doesn’t kill herself first.

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Things I do not think as forcing ships

Since I don’t want people to ever have the idea that I’m trying to force anything or that they are forcing anything by doing any of the following:

Letting your muse fall in over with another muse

Sending crack flirty asks (I love doing this because the answers I get usually make me laugh so hard and it’s so funny. 99,9% of the time I am not expecting us to grow a ship out of that)

Saying to your rp partner that you ship the thing (as long as you do not force them to ship it too, but are simply interested to know if the characters could work out that way and would like to discuss it)

Your muse finding another muse attractive / saying flirty things to them in a thread

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I am not your senpai

Why? Because I am your equal. I am not superior to you in any single way, shape, or form. You may admire my writing, but that does not make me superior to you.

So don’t see me as someone that you could never get to roleplay with, but instead someone having fun, with a writing style you adore.

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((In honor of school starting up again for me soon, I’m going to be sorting through my followers and who I’m following. If you don’t cut your posts I am unfollowing you. I’m sure you’re great at roleplaying, but I can’t keep scrolling through one post for several minutes, only to find it again (just as long and tedious) a few posts later. Additionally, I’ve noticed a lot of NSFW blogs following me? So chances are most of them from their names, are just bots... :/

If you’re new to following me otherwise, thank you for following me! This is an rp blog and I’m trying to make it an ask blog as well for this character I made, Cela. I have a rules and about page, so please go check those out.

Also, due to the recent slowness of everything, I’m going to be making and posting a blog promotion when I get back from a road trip that I leave on today, and a backpacking trip that I leave for in a few weeks. ))

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Reasons Role Players Abandon Their Blogs:

They get ignored, feel unwanted or easily replaceable.      – Insecurities have a way with getting the best of us. In a community where muns are dropped because real life restricts their time online, or someone else replies more quickly, it’s easy to feel like you don’t matter… Especially if you’re one of the blogs being dropped as though you’re nothing more than a reply generator. 

They feel like you’re only writing with them for their muse / that they’re part of a collection.      – Admit it, we all have our favorite face claims / characters that we want interactions with, but there’s a difference between loving a face claim or character, and collecting them like pokemon. No, kids… You really don’t have to catch them all. In fact, a lot of people get turned off and feel like they mean less to you because you have so many of the same muse writing with you, and definitely if all of your threads / interactions become too similar. 

They feel like you only want their muse for smut purposes.       – Who doesn’t love a good smut thread? Some people write only smut, and that’s fine, but there are some that don’t take their partner’s feelings into consideration. If you want to write smut, or do nothing but shippy things, that’s great. You do you and have fun. But some people don’t like when they’ve been hounded for smut over and over. Please be respectful of this fact.

“I’ll follow you/write with you everywhere!” except for that blog…      – We’ve all heard this from people that offer praise from time to time. I’ll write with every muse you’ve got! (until you slap a self promo on the dash for that female muse, that other-fandom muse or an oc you’ve poured your heart into… Then when you get excited about said muse, they lie to you with “I didn’t know that was you!” as though they’d missed the 30 self reblogs of that promo you made for your new muse. 

Too many ‘tell me you like me’ memes reblogged, but not sent in.      – As much as we all hate feeling like nothing more than a meme archive, these are the worst memes to get swiped from your blog, only to receive nothing in your inbox. It wouldn’t kill you to send in the symbol or a little bit of something to make someone feel good. You’re following them for a reason, aren’t you? Tell them that!

They get ignored out of character simply because they aren’t sending constant replies, memes, etc.      – People seem to think that, if you aren’t keeping their muse entertained, you aren’t worth talking to as a person. You see them on the dash talking about having no one, about needing attention, and you think ‘then… what am I to them?’ Just because your partner isn’t clinging to your muse and making you their top priority doesn’t mean you can’t talk to them out of character, that you can’t plot with the other muses they have so you’re interacting, no matter which blog either of you are on. There are people behind these blogs. Living, breathing people that - if they liked you on one blog, they should like you on another. Stop treating them like only your favorite muse of theirs matters – not the writer behind it. 

… They lost muse

Sometimes it pays off to send a little random love and positivity to people. You never know when someone could be seconds away from never signing on again. Tell your partners what a great job they’re doing, that you appreciate them as a mun and as an rp partner, and that you value their attention and interactions. It only takes a few seconds to share a few nice words and let someone know that they mean something. 

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Magic!Anon! Cela now has a scarf for as long as the mun likes!

((She seems to like it well enough, so this will probably stay for the foreseeable future.))

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“No, not really.” Cela answered, truthfully for a change about how she was feeling. Currently the siilver-haired human was struggling to stay steady on her feet, when all she wanted to do was curl up into a ball.

(Undertale starter) “I’m nineteen years old and I’ve already wasted my entire life.”

UNDERTALE starters

“o-oh my…! are you… a-are you feeling alright…?” The ghost asked, their tone nervous as they spoke, hovering nearby the other.

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Cela raised an eyebrow, wondering what her friend meant by having a possessive brother. “Oh, what is his name?” She asked, her head tilting a bit to the side in curiosity.

It had been ten years since Cela had last set foot inside a Fazbear building. In those ten years, the silver-haired human had gone to what at the time had seemed like an entire other world, full of monsters of all shapes and sizes. With the help of another human who had fallen down before her, they were able to break the barrier that separated the two species. Now however, Cela was finally returning to see if she could 'see' Will again.

Will looked up from the ground. “…Hello.” Someone is clearly lost. There was plenty going on outside the building and the place was a mess. Why visit?

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“Sans.” Cela answered, hoping that by keeping her answer short she would not stutter nor become embarrassed. “He makes bad jokes and is lazy. He also cares a lot about his brother.” Though the girl felt like she was doing a poor job explaining them, she did not believe that Will would be interested in listening to a long explanation.

It had been ten years since Cela had last set foot inside a Fazbear building. In those ten years, the silver-haired human had gone to what at the time had seemed like an entire other world, full of monsters of all shapes and sizes. With the help of another human who had fallen down before her, they were able to break the barrier that separated the two species. Now however, Cela was finally returning to see if she could 'see' Will again.

Will looked up from the ground. “…Hello.” Someone is clearly lost. There was plenty going on outside the building and the place was a mess. Why visit?

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