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we’re gonna be ok btw

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I want all animals to become sapient enough to produce art specifically because I want to see what sort of sex homunculus caricature each species would create if given the ability to draw

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“why don’t you wish you had been born cis lol” well first of all being trans has shaped my lived experience and if I was cis I would be a fundamentally different person and even for all my flaws and failings I am myself and I would not trade that for anything. Second of all being trans makes me exponentially sexier then i could ever be if I was cis.

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Honestly this is the best thing I've ever heard

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Having a good pen that you use at work is like. If anything happened to this pen I would kill everyone in this building including my coworkers

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hi tumblr i know this isn't my regularly scheduled fandom content but it IS bones and i know for sure there are some bone appreciators amongst the crowd so i thought it could be fun to share anyways

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I have to draw a lot of gold and metal for my work, but wasn't happy with any of the metal tutorials i could find around. I prefer really specific instruction, so after some research i put together what i think works as a generalist's guide/tutorial. Not perfectly accurate, but i hope it's helpful!

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emotional support dog (dog you have to emotionally support)

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Being loved by me is a privilege, because I will literally love you with everything in me.

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ok. enough suffering now. i am seeking out delight

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If you hurt someone’s feelings, it’s super valid to be upset about that and have feelings about it.

It’s not so valid to make it so they have to comfort you because of your guilt, which may make them reluctant to come to you in the future with problems.

It’s okay to say “I’m really sorry I hurt your feelings. I feel really bad about that because I’d never intentionally want to hurt you”.

It’s not okay to say “oh my god, I’m a terrible person. You shouldn’t even be friends with me.“

Even if you’re genuinely feeling the second one, it can lead to the other person feeling bad they expressed their feelings, feel a need to comfort you and may lead to their feelings having to take a backseat.

It’s so valid to feel that way, but it’s important to try and regulate how we react to our feelings. If you need to talk it out, I think that’s okay but how you do it matters and please let the other person feel heard.

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breaking news: i love you and good morning

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Happy new year! Here’s your reminder that it is a new year, but that does not mean you need to make sudden changes. If you have something you wanna change, you can do that at a pace that suits you. You don’t have to hit the ground running.

And extra thing: Making changes to your life from a place of love and joy, will do you far more good than a place of hate and punishment ever will. 🌸