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boys i swear to you you can just use the word "transphobia" to talk about your issues. gay men don't have a counterpart to lesbophobia. black men don't have a counterpart to misogynoir. it's really really fine.
your issues very much ARE being discussed under the umbrella of transphobia, and anyone telling you otherwise is trying to make you an enemy of transfeminism.
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Actually nauseous when I remember how much data Google collects on me and how much it STILL wants to collect
Why do you want to know my adress you little pervert
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#caffeine#is a migraine trigger for me#much of my mom's side of the family also get migraines from caffeine so it seems a weird genetic quirk#so i hate coffee and tea and anything else with it in meaningful doses
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Shout out to all the Black ppl that can no longer participate directly in the fandom they love because of the stresses of racism 👍🏾 you contain multitudes of value and I'm sorry that the color of your skin and the power of your voice makes people not want to acknowledge that.
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#neither#libra is the most accurate sign archetype for me so that's my sign#no matter what my star chart says#essentialism sucks y'all
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Astrology doesn't seem to work.
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I feel like I'm going insane. Multiple massacres in Gaza right now and no one is paying attention.
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Anon because I feel wildly stupid for admitting this, I'm afab and I wish I was transfem. Not like "Oh, I reaallyy want to assume this label and speak about being transfem and transmisogyny as if I've experienced it, because I was called not a real woman once!" but this little thing in the back of my head that I've never told anyone about that tells me I'd be happier if I was transfem. I know it's wild and I'm worried it will grow to hurt those around me that are tma... but I really don't know what to do about it, and I can't get it to go away no matter how much I ignore it. Am I just being crazy?
something fitting about being used as an oracle behind the veil of anonymity—as someone without sufficient agency to give you an awareness of "showing your ass"—as the already promised hope of giving you your seal of innocence
are you being "crazy"? who cares? but you know your world is too small for you. you see another world that is vast because it is out of reach and you desire it. but it will never be your world. you have to bubble up out of your own constraints and, honestly, just leave us alone
did that sound mystical enough? blows out my candles and disappears in a cloud of weed smoke.
#this transmisogynistic shit is inescapable#ive been fielding these most of my life and they're always this passive aggressive and demanding and bad faith#they want permission to fetishize us and through that claim community with us#instead of actually doing a shred of introspection#transmisogyny
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Dragon Age has always been queer. Dragon Age has also always been "controversial" for it. The homophobes and transphobes now throwing a fit over The Veilguard's queer cast are no different than than the assholes who came before them.
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Much as I like what I'm seeing so far regarding Dragon Age: The Veilguard, I'm keeping my expectations low.
Only if Maevaris is revealed as a major advisor, and romanceable, will I truly invest myself. I've been waiting for ~12 years for her to play a major part.
They're in Tevinter, spending lots of time in Minrathous, with Shadow Dragons fighting the Venatori. There's no excuse now, with her being a Tevinter magister that fights the Venatori.
Give me Maevaris, Bioware, you cowards!
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americans think ABSOLUTELY NOTHIN of driving 7 hours. they’ll drive 7 hours just for dinner. they’ll drive 7 hours just for chips and dip
#my previous job's work commure was 1.5hr there and 2hr back#2hr is not so far#a friend of mine drove over 3 hours because they wanted to drive me home when i got out of the hospital#I've driven 5.5 hours to visit a friend and driven 5.5 back early the following morning#ive driven the 9+ hours in a day to see my aunt in Massachusetts#i am long distance lesbian trained#how is a 2hr jaunt a considerable social obstacle in a nation where transit is even somewhat functional
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That poll just reminds me of how much I wanted and expected Succession to be a good show. It's such a bummer for it to be a dramatized Real Housewives-type schlocky show that sacrifices everything under the sun for blatantly artificial tension, to its own great detriment. I guess that does provide a noteworthy parallel to what the .1% will sacrifice for wealth and power, but there were ways to accomplish those same ends with good writing instead of aggressive laziness and piss poor writing.
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forget about touching grass, i need to touch THE SEA I NEED TO GO INTO THE WATER I NEED TO DIVE INTO THE SEA!!!!!!!!!!!!
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internat habits that are good to learn
#yeah#outside of rare slips i dont tend to post the shitty dms and reblofs i get#which is wild since we're close to a decade out from most of the big posts that garner the most hate#i must've done something right to leave that impact
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