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Words cannot express how badly I want that soft, lovey, butchfemme romantic sex... Slow touching and gentleness as you watch me completely unravel before you? Kissing for long enough I'm running out of air all while just trying to match my heart rate to yours? Lingering eye contact, not by demand but by chance? Running my nails through your hair and down your back while you fuck me, not to leave a mark but to just keep my focus on only you? Feeling as your body collapses on top of mine by the end of it and holding you so tenderly in my arms? Godddddddd pleaseeeeeeee

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On stone

“My arousal has always come from what I could touch or see in her, it has never come from the attention to my own body. When many years ago I finally met someone who liked to take as much as I liked giving and who recognized that it was her stimulation that triggered mine- that I understood that I could find women who wouldn’t run away from a stone butch. I’m not uncomfortable with my body, it’s just that my erogenous zones lay within her.” –Anonymous Commenter

As a high femme, reading this for the first time a year or something ago was equivalent to cathartic.

This article on Medium.

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Stone femmes, I love you.

Sex with you is whole and beautiful. Don't for one second think otherwise. Being with you isn't a sacrifice. It isn't some agreement to be okay with half an experience. It is an entire, beautiful, versatile experience in it's own right. Fulfilling, exciting, and pleasurable for the both of us. You are perfect, you are desirable, and you are anything but selfish.

The idea of stone bottoms not "giving", tsk! I have never heard of a stone bottom who doesn't "give" endlessly. Having boundaries around certain activities during sex doesn't change all of the wonderful, intimate acts of pleasure, love, and effort that stone bottoms can (and do) give, inside and outside of the bedroom.

I love you, stone bottoms! You are safety, you are home.

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I need u all to know that for the past 3 nights, I have had a gorgeous femme reading me stone butch blues whilst she strokes my head and I do not have the words for what this is doing to me x

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wait just hear me out,

wearing a strap over the boxers she bought for me so she can absolutely soak them when i fuck her in the skirt i bought her

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me? jealous? no… i just think you’d look so handsome with my lipstick all over you… and that way nobody gets confused, you know? hard to get the wrong idea about who you belong to when the shade on my lips so clearly matches the smudges on your neck

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This’ll be my first slide when I teach butchfemme 101 to my non-butchfemme queer friends

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Hi young butch here. I’m 22 and live in a pretty bigoted area. I’m non-binary on top of my butch identity. Do you have any advice on staying safe while also standing firm and proud in your identity as a butch lesbian?

I live in the Midwest and I have been out in my community a long time. Being a working part of the community goes a long way. There is value in making yourself known and valuable.

I have always been involved in helping with local events like parades or celebrations. I support local businesses and I smile and say hello A LOT. Remembering other people makes them feel seen and it then makes it harder for others to "hate" and if they are uncomfortable in my presence, a smile and a nod can go a long way to diffusing that tension.

I do have the privilege of being an extrovert but also being perceived as a man of first glance so in passing most people just don't even notice they are seeing a butch lesbian. Also, the women of my area and I kind of share the same fashion sense because many are farmers or union factory workers, or at least work outside at some point of their day.

When I am out and about I now hold an air of confidence that I belong in my community as a butch woman. I feel no need to get upset when called "sir" or to be overtly pushy about my sexuality. Making sure people I interact know I am friendly and really just getting on with my day at the feed store or Dollar General helps them to, at the very least, not put much thought into my looks or sexuality.

Anyone looking at me long enough to realize I am not a man probably know they are looking at a butch lesbian and a little smile and "hello" allows us all to just keep moving in our day.

It is not easy for everyone and I am aware that I hold extravert privilege. My best advice is to love who you are and dress as you are comfortable and let that confidence be known with eye contact, cheerful acknowledgement and kindness when you feel tension rise.

True bigots are going to hate even if you make their day better while the majority of people are not bigots but just not used to things outside the status quo of their straight life.

Be aware of your surroundings. Say an authentic hi to those you interact with and be confident enough to know not every side eye and smirk is out of hate. And even if they are, you know you are a valuable and belong in the community in which you live. Don't let haters take that knowledge from you.

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Minnie Bruce Pratt and Leslie Fienberg in the late 90s photographed by Mariette Pathy Allen (source)

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Femme who collars, leashes, and muzzles me just so she can pull my face into her pussy close enough to smell and see it drip but unable to even get a taste

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Kevin Brisco

Discipline, 2024

Oil on canvas

21 × 24 in | 53.3 × 61 cm

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“pillow princesses are selfi-“ i don’t give a fuck !! does my girl just want to lay down and spread her legs ? i’m right there swirling my tongue around her clit and she won’t even have to worry about her legs cause i’ll place them on my shoulders !! my princess only wants to climb on my lap ? good ! she won’t have to lift a finger cause i’ll be the one pressing a vibe right to her sensitive spots. my lovely angel just needs to ask and i’ll do anything for her. and never forget about the bath after, that’s what princesses deserve !!

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need to take a femme out to a bar with our friends and just nod along to conversation like 'mhm' 'yeah' bc im lowkey staring at her tits the whole time AND shes aware + very into it. then we go home and i make her cum a lot. that would fix me i think

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sometimes fucking in clothes is hotter to me than fucking naked. like I want your hiked up skirt to frame my strap. I wanna pull your panties aside and be able to enjoy the way the lace looks on your hips as I fuck you. I love the way tits look with a top hastily rolled up over them and the nipples just peaking out.. so hot