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reckon shen jiu and abel gideon would be friends?

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🎋🎋 quality time with shizun

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Sqq sketchpage bc I'm still just trying to get used to drawing on my tablet

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in the same vein : shen jiu and snape

does anyone else see the similarities between zzl and dobby? just me?

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i read mu qingfang's voice like gaius'

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does anyone else see the similarities between zzl and dobby? just me?

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just noticed how much binghe's dream powers get milked in ff

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Wanted to ground my Sha Hualing design a bit more so. Ref sheet

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I was drawing some sphynx cats, but they turned into aliens somewhere along the way

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pirates and their unconventional weddings (marines crashed it seven times)

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Beyond preciously sweet and tender c0mm from Ruthie: https://x.com/kkcoocool

I seriously love this c0mm so much 🥹 Jin Ling's little pout~ The way Lan Sizhui is looking at Jin Ling... Gods, they so clearly adore each other 🩵💛💐

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Goin' up!

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shizuns

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Peak lord of Qing Jing peak, Shen Qingqiu, is completely blinded by love...

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mom says it’s my turn to do a post TS redesign

i like to think zoro adds red to his palette for luffy. more design notes under da cut

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this is my leg hair acceptance journey (for anyone interested)

i'm still not there yet but my perception has changed

before starting, even with my legs covered in winter i'd shave everything (even my arms and back)

then i started letting it grow in winter and still shaving/waxing in summer

i did that for a few years and last summer i decided to keep my leg hair, only to bleach it (cuz it's very dark)

i even went to the beach with it in a bikini and it wasn't easy but it was surprising how not so many people noticed, although i was only with family so it definitely helped feeling more comfortable

i've progressively gotten used to seeing myself with leg hair and i like the feeling of it now and would rather not shave anymore

i still have trouble fully accepting it though, i still don't like how my leg hair looks with more feminine clothing such as skirts or dresses, and i'm not sure i'd be willing to wear shorts to work with leg hair yet (i'm thinking of waxing at first and letting it grow out again so that i can slowly get used to having more and more leg hair in a work/public setting)

basically, it takes a lot of work, and a lot of time, but it is possible to free yourself from this gender norm and it's very cool not having to be obsessed with every unshaved hair and not having to spend a lot of time and money shaving/waxing (also a lot less pain and less blood)

i'm lucky to hang out with mostly women who have the same mindset as me on body hair

i did get comments from my dad but a little feminist lecture put a stop to them

so next step is in a work environment which will be very hard bcs they're not the most progressive bunch but i'll try