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[tessuhhh]

“I want to be your favorite person. I want to be that person you’ll think of when you’re sad because you know that i can always make you feel better. I want be someone who you can tell everything to because you know that i’m always willing to listen to you. I want to be someone who you want to be with most of the time because you enjoy ny company and even if i don’t talk a lot, you’ll still choose to be with me. I want you to tell me everything, no matter what it is. I want to be the person you call in the middle of the night when you can’t sleep. I want you to trust me and i’ll promise to never break it. I want to be that person you think of when everything’s falling apart, i’ll be your strenght, the one who’ll help you to lift you up. I want to be the person who will always make you smile and laugh and can make you feel how beautiful it is to wake up every morning. I want to be that person. I want to be that person you can entrust your heart and i promise to take good care of it and will never break it.”

[tessuhhh]

I’m trying to write down what I feel for you. And I can’t ever get it just right. Some days it’s blank. Some days the words spill out of me like a knee jerk reaction. You make me feel like I’ve experienced all the feelings I can feel and that’s dangerous, I realize it now. Because no one person should ever make you feel like they are everything. There’s more to life.

[tessuhhh]

Stand for what you believe in. Don’t apologize when you’re not sorry. Argue back with logic even if your heart is roaring. Don’t let them see you cry. And if they do? Keep speaking, even if the tears glisten in your eyes.

don’t apologize when you’re not sorry.

[tessuhhh]

Whoever taught us that closure was sitting down and having coffee with someone to talk about what happened and why it all went wrong? Sometimes closure is just one conversation too long that opens up another can of worms and a whole lot of heartache. Maybe closure is just you, on your own, deciding it’s no longer important enough to be in your life.

phone calls with a wise friend.

[tessuhhh]

Kabit, mistress, other wowan, higad, number 2, buiset, linta at kung ano pa!

A MINUTE OF HEAVEN FOR AN ETERNITY OF HELL. There are many possible reasons why some people would agree to being the other woman/man. One would be that this person loves this person so much that beside the fact that this person is already married, would rather ”share” with the legal spouse.. Another would be that the kabit finds the love and attention that she/he is looking for and could not find it somewhere else.. Definitely true. Ang ibang kabit kasi masyadong panatag na sila ang pipiliin kesa sa original. But come to think of it, kung ikaw ang pipiliin, bakit ka tinatago? Bakit hindi ka kayang iharap publicly? Keeping you as his secret mistress is an obvious sign that he is not ready to lose his spouse. As a Mistress, you will never have the last laugh. Because as a Mistress you will never be allowed to walk down the aisle with your lover.

Mistress has no right to demand, lumugar ka kung san ka dapat lumugar. Pinasok mo ang ganyang sitwasyon, kaya dapat alam mo kung ano ang dapat at hindi dapat. In the first place, kung alam mo ang tama, wala ka dapat sa sitwasyon mo ngayon. It’s not about the money dear, it’s about dignity.

Kapag once nang nawala ang tiwala, mahirap na talagang ibalik. Kaya ikaw wag mong hanapin sa iba ang mga pagkukulang ng partner mo, dahil minsan ba naisip mo rin na may mga pagkukulang ka rin, kaya lang siya tanggap niya kung anong meron ka, dahil marunong siyang umintindi sa mga bagay-bagay na ganyan at marunong siyang makuntento, ‘di tulad mo! Sabi nga, “Makuntento ka na sa mahal mo kahit alam mong maraming hihigit sa kanya. Dahil ‘di mo ba naisip na mas marami ring hihigit sayo, pero ikaw pa rin ang pinili niya…” 
It’s better to stay single than having a relationship with a married man. Think twice before making yourself a mistress. It is important that you ask yourself why you would want to get involved with a married man in the first place? There are plenty of single men out there for you to get to know. Wag puro puso ang pinakikinggan, dapat ginagamit din ang utak. Bago ka kumabit, siguraduhin mo munang walang sabit. If you know he’s taken, back-off! Don’t get yourself into something you can’t easily escape off in the end. One thing you should always keep in mind is that his wife and family will always come before you, no matter how many problems he claims to have at home, he’ll always come back to his one and only love, his wife and definitely not you.

you’re only number 2 and you can never be number 1.

[tessuhhh]

Fall inlove with her everyday.

Don’t just tell her how beautiful she is, because she won’t believe you. It’s hard to convince her but you have to prove to her that she’s the only beautiful girl in your eyes. repeat it until she believe you. Even you’re surrounded with beautiful and sexy ladies, your eyes are only for her.

Don’t just tell her i love you’s everyday. She’ll feel that you are sincere if you’ll show her how much you love her. She may not be perfect but she deserves to be treated right. She’s quiet odd. There are times that she’ll hate herself, there are times that she’ll hate the world, even you but try to understand her. She’s a girl and that’s part of being a girl to have different kind of mood.

Don’t just tell her everything’s gonna be alright. That won’t make her feel better. Just hug her, don’t say anything and be there for her always. Don’t let her fall asleep feeling unwanted and unloved. She’ll take that feeling the next day and she will never forget that.

She’ll cry for no reason and gets sad without knowing why. I hope you won’t scold her or try to ask her why because she doesn’t know the answer. She just need your presence. She’ll push you away whenever she feel like she’s the most complicated person in your life and she feels like she’s a burden to you, but i hope you’ll be there to pull her closer and don’t ever give up on her.

Fall in love with her everyday. Fall in love with the way she laughs like there no tomorrow. Fall in love with her sweet gesture and silly mind. Fall in love with her smile and the way she walks while holding her hand. Fall in love with the way she talk and even on days where she’s so talkative, even on the day she doesn’t feel like talking. Fall in love with her heart and soul.

She needs someone like you. Someone who can make her feel that she’s loved and enough to someone.

[tessuhhh]

“I want you to hug me, hug me so tight so that i will never feel worried, sad and empty. Hug me so i can feel the tenderness of care. Don’t let go until i say so. I need long hugs, i need to feel the tightness of someone’s hug to make me feel that i have someone at my back who supports me. Please, hold my hand. Entangle it with your hand too. I need to know if you’re really beside me.”

[tessuhhh]

Appreciate her for every little thing she does, for the efforts she never fails to give, and from her shortest story to the longest. Laugh at her lamest jokes, sing with her until the rain stop falling, dance with her even in the middle of the streets, cuddle with her not just on cold rainy days but on days when she feels like breaking down, smile with her even at the smallest thing, and put an effort in getting interesting things that drives her crazy. Appreciate the way she reads her books, the way she sips her coffee in the morning, and the way she comfortably sits on the couch during lazy days. Don’t get tired of sending her random messages, and be the silliest guy just to make her smile. Give her the love she deserves without second thoughts. Be there for her dreams, her success and even when she fails to achieve it. Appreciate her even if she looks demented because of the clothes she wears. Tell her how pretty and great she is. It will make her more confident. Stay and hold her tight when her emotions play with her again at 2am. You are the only one who can calm her down when she overthinks, or the times when she’s being grumpy, nagger and bitch rolled in one breathing body. Try to understand all those senseless words and alien words coming straight from her mouth. Sometimes she doesn’t know what she’s saying when she gets mad. Fight and argue with her when she’s being pointless and when her ego is higher than the Eiffel tower in Paris, but know when to apologize to her. Appreciate her for who she is without being neither judgmental nor asking tons of things, and adjust to fit inside her crazy world, in her crazy life, and in her broken heart. Appreciate her and she will do the same thing to you.

That’s how you keep her (via misskhae)

[tessuhhh]

Crying doesn’t mean you’re weak, you are just brave enough to accept your own flaws and weaknesses. Kung feeling mo sobrang bigat na niyang hinanakit sa puso mo, kung feeling mo walang nagmamahal sayo, kung iniwan ka ng taong mahal mo, kung puro kamalasan nalang dumadating sa buhay mo, o kung trip mo lang talaga umiyak, iiyak mo lang. Walang masama sa pag-iyak, Siguro ang tingin ng ibang tao dito ay kahinaan pero ang totoo eto ang nagpapalakas satin. Sa bawat unos na madadaaan natin, sa bawat takbong idadapa natin, at sa bawat pagkakataon na iiyakan natin matututo tayong tumahan, tumayo, at magsimulang muli. Kaya kung sobrang lungkot mo wag mo pigilan nararamdaman mo, okay lang yan. 😁

[tessuhhh]

Words can cut deeper than any knife, be very careful with it. No matter how bad and hopeless the situation gets, you should always think about the permanent outcome before letting yourself go into the storm. Don’t say the words you might regret and you can’t take back. Because no matter how long and tiring this day gets, tomorrow will always be different but your heart will keep beating for her and it will stay that way for a long time. Don’t let small issues develop into large ones and carry off chances from both of you.

(d.r.n)

[tessuhhh]

Don’t blame yourself for the broken pieces, it’s not yours to keep anyway. I’ve done this to myself and I didn’t regret a thing - you; not ever, not even once. You made me yours, you made me your queen and shown me my purpose. We did our best though, to make it all alright, to make it last a little bit longer, but it was never for us and I don’t blame you for that at all. So I want you to go on with your life, I’m not going to follow you this time. I want you to head at your place, to where you must go, to where you’re meant to go and be with. Do everything to survive and stand, so the next time we cross paths, I can finally see your smile again, for the first and last time.

d.r.n  (via dakilanggerlpren)

[tessuhhh]

Please appreciate those people who always finds time just to talk to you and be with you and who’s willing to drop anything just for you. You don’t know how much they’re willing to sacrifice everything just for you, that’s how much that person loves you. Please do anything to keep them.

[tessuhhh]

Happy 6th birthday Kuya Ajie and Happy 3rd birthday my minime Nijel!!! 😁😘🎉🎉🎉 My boys share the same birthday which is a special thing. They were both born on the same day August 22 and they were 3 years apart/ age gap. 😁💕 I thank God for them each and everyday and I will be forever grateful that God chose me to be their mom. I have learned so much from them -especially all about boys and how to be patient. 🙄😒😂 I love that they have become this amazingly compassionate little boys. (Kaso minsan sobrang kulit talaga! As in super!) 😒😩😜 My boys, they are my inspiration and my loves. ❤️ On this day I wish them nothing but all the best in life. That they grow to be successful and the man they choose to become. May God always guide and protect both of you. I LOVE YOU FOREVER AND ALWAYS MY LOLOVES! HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY! 🎉🎉🎉 Love, Mommy ❤️

[tessuhhh]

SERIOUSLY POPOY, “BAKIT NGA BA TALAGA TAYO INIIWAN NG MGA TAONG MAHAL NATIN?!”

#1.

Si bes na mas makati pa sa kagat ng lamok.

#2.

Pati yung thigh part kinukuha natin. Bastus tayo eh.

#3.

Pero di naman tayo naligo.

#4.

Tapos puro aso na filter yung gamit natin para di tayo magmukhang pango. May pa-flower crown pa tayong nalalaman mukha tuloy tayong paso.

#5.

Feeling natin runway yung kalsada. May pa-‘Pak pak ganoin’ pa tayong nalalaman.

#6.

Hindi naman si Mr. M yung tindero.

#7.

Tapos ang nakalagay sa FB mo, works at ‘E di sa puso mo.’

#8.

Nag-abot ka lang ng pamasahe sabi mo agad “Keep the change. Sanay naman po akong hindi nasusuklian.” Eh wala ka naman talagang sukli hayup ka.

#9.

Tapos sabi mo pa, “Comment lang po kung sinong gustong magpabati.”

#10.

May pagtayo ka pang nalalaman sa upuan eh ang dumi naman ng paa mo.

#11.

Sana Caramel Frappe na lang sinabi mo para mas madali.

#12.

Tapos puro side view ka pa para kunware blogger pose.

#13.

Eh di ka naman nag-ambag leche ka.

#14.

Isa ka lang rebound, panakip-butas, parausan at dakilang assumera.

#15.

…. ang pride mong mas mataas pa sa kilay ni Daniel Padilla.

#16.

Walwalan ng feelings ‘to eh! 

Pero mas masakit kapag iniwan ka ng isang tao… lalo na kapag nasa kanya ang pamasahe mo.

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Sabi nga ni ma-emote na Popoy, “Siguro kaya tayo iniiwanan ng mga mahal natin dahil may darating pang ibang mas magmamahal sa'tin - ‘yung hindi tayo sasaktan at paasahin…'yung magtatama ng lahat ng mali sa buhay natin.’

Dahil may darating na MAS magmamahal? Ano yun pakunswelo sa lahat ng sakit? Reward dahil nasaktan ka? Wow, thank you! Pero paano kung kuntento ka na dun sa dating pagmamahal at hindi mo na kailangan pa ng MAS magmamahal sa’yo? Pakshet, ang unfair.

Kaya tayo iniiwan ng mahal natin kasi HINDI NA nila tayo mahal. Dahil kung mahal tayo, hinding-hindi tayo susukuan. Yun lang naman yun, Popoy!

[tessuhhh]

girls, no one will respect you if you won't respect yourself in the first place. stop telling yourself, “I'm ugly” or “why am I not beautiful” or “why am I not skinny”. don't compare yourself to others. you're the one making problems with yourself. embrace your flaws, respect yourself. :)

[tessuhhh]

note to self

Learn to take compliments. Not because you’re being polite but because you actually believe them. Believe in yourself more. 

You don’t need to say yes all the time. But you also don’t need to say no all the time either. Do what makes you feel good and most comfortable. 

Call Mom & Dad more. Tell them you love them. 

Exercise. Not to be thin, not because you need to make use of your running shoes for something other than a fashion statement. But because it’s healthy and you should really invest in health.

Work up the guts to say hi to that cute guy you see on the bus every morning. 

Don’t go shopping because you’re bored. Money should be spent with more purpose than that, especially since you know what it’s like to earn money now. 

Don’t judge people too quickly. You’re one of those people who need time to bloom, so give others the same privilege. 

Do something new and do it alone and do it in silence. Some things don’t need to be shared with anyone.

Recognize that not everyone will give you closure, you just need to find a way to get it yourself. 

Spread knowledge. You’re young but you’re not without skill. Help people whichever way you can with what you have. 

[tessuhhh]