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“ I do not have violent urges, I have violent intentions. If somebody angers me, I hurt them not because I lose control of my temper, but because it teaches them not to anger me again. If somebody causes me sorrow, I remove their ability to do so again. If that involves removing their head, so be it. "

#spiderwarden. an independent & selective Minthara Baenre from Larian's B.aldur's Gate 3. while canon strict, some parts will be sculpted to personal rp experience and headcanons taken from canon actions and psychological reactions. this blog is multiverse & Tav friendly. Non-Killing the Grove Verse pending.

( written by Melody, 29.)

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“ I do not have violent urges, I have violent intentions. If somebody angers me, I hurt them not because I lose control of my temper, but because it teaches them not to anger me again. If somebody causes me sorrow, I remove their ability to do so again. If that involves removing their head, so be it. "

#spiderwarden. an independent & selective Minthara Baenre from Larian's B.aldur's Gate 3. while canon strict, some parts will be sculpted to personal rp experience and headcanons taken from canon actions and psychological reactions. this blog is multiverse & Tav friendly. Non-Killing the Grove Verse pending.

( written by Melody, 29.)

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Since there are hot topics on the dash, remember you can’t love Minthara or heaven forbid Orin and then condemn Kagha in the same sentence.

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Karlach-o'-lantern

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Happy Halloween everyone ! I hope your days are filled with lots of love and candy.

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That’s a good enough promo right.

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The fact that Kagha is the only person who doesn’t judge you based off your race makes me want to play as a good drow, at least once. It’s striking a chord with me that everyone has assumptions seeing you’re drow, what else can I say. Some last minute thoughts on that before I head off to @spiderwarden via mobile.

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A thing in duplicates I’ve had an odd experience. Back when I wrote Cersei Lannister I had tried my best to be welcoming and even at one point tried to tell other Cersei’s they could have my meta. It never really panned out how I thought (being fully accepting I guess was?? Problematic ?? - also I should note the one or two other good beans.) so because of that I eventually got tired of people being mad at me for trying to be open to them. So now I just don’t interact? I don’t like their posts, I don’t read their headcanons or meta thoughts or musings and that’s largely because I want to make sure that said duplicate and myself remain comfortable. I will a 100% support and reblog their promos and even follow in some cases and love them ooc but that’s where it ends. :(

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Bless @bardicfires she found me a URL, made me a header and a Dash icon. HANNAH I DONT DESERVE YOU. EVERYONE FOLLOW MY BESTFRIEND.

Minthara will be on @spiderwarden when the time comes to make her active.

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As an unapologetic asshole who usually write asshome muses, I sometimes look at Karlach and go: I don’t deserve you, YOU ABSOLUTE SWEETHEART.

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Also on that, Minthara is piquing my interest now more than ever.

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Many apologies for my absence over the past couple days! I have reading homework and when I had down time I played BG3.

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Send 🔍 for something you look for on other’s blogs

Send 😊 for likable quality for a role play mun to have / mun questions

That depends on the details of this question, does this mean for a follow back, a follow first, or what I expect when we are on each other's dash?

In terms of following back or following a blog, I look at the air of the rules and the vibes that a person has on their blog and how they compare. Like Karlach and many of the Baldurs Gate characters I work primarily on a gut feeling. If I feel like someone is likely going to make me uncomfortable I won't follow, plain and simple. Again, I got shit going on. I don't want that following into my space.

WITH THAT SAID, I put a lot of sentiment into the fact I follow you. I will never like one of those 'like this post to remain mutuals,' because I feel like my follow will generally mean I enjoy you on my dash - it's also a big reason why I ask people to never soft block me because I like a full dash. I like YOU on THAT dash, regardless of whether you follow me or not. We could have little to nothing in terms of interactions but as long as I follow you? I will be there. And I've got nothing to prove to anyone, if you want me there, fine, if you don't, Okay?

@charlatann

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Being able to take a goddamn joke and be open minded. I'm the type of person that when I get close to you I playfully talk shit, and I will absolutely a 100% tell you if I don't agree with you. They go hand in hand because I have so many people take it so seriously when I start to joke around and in the same breath refuse to talk about it. Just relax, have fun, none of of us are here to stress. I, want to joke and have fun. And that's what I expect when I get online, because like many of you I have shit going on, if I don't want to be serious today then - let me not be serious..

@bardicfires / i love you.

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Force her to carry the Selûnite idol & she will haul it into the next chasm 😔

And carry it throughout the trials of Shar. OH THE IRONY!

SO. Tell me. How would she feel about it and react to such a thing as they enter the temple of Shar.

@nerimoi

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Send  🐶 for a role play related pet peeve. / mun questions

I am a many peeved person, but one of my biggest peeves is being unable to differentiate ficiton from reality. There's an RP blog for a character you don't like? Well I guess it's time to judge the person running that rp blog and call them a piece of shit or treat them like shit. Nooo. You dimwit asshole, that person is due the same respect that is given to any other rper on this sight. And people complain all the time that 'there isn't enough interaction space!' THAT'S BECAUSE YOU CHASED EVERYONE AWAY!!!!

I had a MANY first hand experiences of this when I rp'd as Cersei Lannister and then Dolores Abernathy from Westworld, I had people pushing all of their hate onto my person and I remember that it was very very off putting until I put my foot down. And naturally, of course I became the asshole for setting boundaries.

If people can't differentiate the WRITER from the CHARACTER they are RPING, (it's not life altering we are all adults here playing with the dolls that are muses), then there is obviously other shit going on in their lives. Sort your shit, before coming after someone who is also exercising their love as a character. Also these people need a reality check in the fact that NOT EVERYONE IS GOING TO AGREE WITH THEM and that's OKAY.

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