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saying something dominant that completely flops is the most embarassing thing ever. like okay i guess mommy needs to kill herself now

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trans perverts are always safe here. on my blog. and in my dms and ask box. and in my house. and in my bed. and in me. and

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“how did you know i was a sub?”

baby I looked at you for 0.3 seconds before you got flustered and shy, cleared your throat, and looked away. you literally almost slipped trying to volunteer to grab something for me. I saw your eyes flutter shut when I leaned in to whisper something. I heard that sharp intake of breath when I told you that you were doing so good.

so go ahead, straighten your posture now. try to delude yourself that you’re not obvious. but you know as well as I do that it really doesn’t matter that you’re taller than me, bigger than me. it’s still just one look from me before you’re on your knees. it’s still my fingers leaving marks along your pretty skin. my voice taunting you, my lips swallowing your whimpers.

my hands working you over until you’re dripping, desperate for more. you like that, baby? feels good, doesn’t it? my pretty sub. so strong. so needy.

my kisses leaving an imprint on your brain that’ll outlast any bruise or scar. permanently rewiring your brain until all you can think about is how to please me, how to be good for me.

the world looks at you and sees someone composed, capable. but you know that you’re naught but a toy for me. ardent and willing. good sub.

let me show you how nice it feels to surrender. let me tease out your moans and your arousal until you’re pulsating and gasping. let me show you what pleasure is meant to feel like.

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pov: pleasure dom who’s neutral about kinks you have but gets off on seeing how desperate you get

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Use your soft mouth to suck my tdick. Feel it stiffen and throb with every suck. Tell me how big I am. I'll thread my fingers into your hair and push you harder against me. Let my cum run down your chin and thank me for getting to service me

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sorry for being a bad sexter i’m just a boy

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i was born in the right era i love jerking off and tdick and t4t frotting and intox sex

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Let’s not pretend doms don’t need after care too.

Ask them if they are satisfied, whether they came or not. Do they want to cum?

If they need anything to drink.

Perhaps they might be cramping from putting a lot of effort.

Tell them they did well and which parts you enjoyed the most.

Compliment them for their work.

Cuddle up to them.

Offer help for the clean up afterwards.

Order food together.

Sex can be something casual, but might be intense too. Either physical or mentally. Take care of each other and regularly communicate with each other. No question should be taboo. It’s better to be safe than sorry.

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wants to praise the cute boy's little pre-t cock.

Aww look sweetheart how cute your cock are!

Look how it twitches when I call you a good boy!

Oh such a good boy stroke you little dick for me is so cute!

Look how pretty you look when you stoke it for me!

Such a cute puppy cock!

How did you call it? Clit? Oh darling that is just a little cute dick give it some time.

But maybe I should make fun of it too?

Oh look how your small pathetic cock twitch for me!

What a pathetic dog you can't stroke it properly maybe I should help you hm?

Aww your little dick is getting wet from that?

Aww you only can hump with that thing don't you?

There are so many options.

But you love them all don't you puppy?

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sometimes I'm tempted to make posts like "stop assuming trans men all want to bottom and trans women all want to top" but tbh people really need to stop assuming all cis men want to top & all cis women want to bottom too.

stop assuming what people find arousing or pleasurable based on your presumptions about their bodies and ask them. and then, importantly, listen to their answers, believe them, and respect their desires as equally important to your own.

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tboy dick can turn a respectable man into a pathetic whimpering begging whore. many such cases.

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Any tips on becoming better at domming? I enjoy it in concept/online but struggle in person to take myself seriously or think of what to say

When it comes to what to say it’s just a skill you have to work on, it’s basically improv and will get easier over time. My advice would be know as many kinks as you can about whoever you’re domming has so you have stuff to talk about. When it comes to taking yourself seriously it’s definitely something you get more comfortable with but also don’t think that domming means you need to be super serious dark and broody, that’s not what it has to be. Saying dominant stuff in a normal, causal tone of voice or like a slightly condescending one shouldn’t feel to intense but its also really hot. General advice is follow what feels most comfortable to you, there’s no right way to dom as long as both people are happy, communicative and consenting

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also ur incredibly real for ur comment on my post i FEEL you i definitely talk a loooooooot like irl i never shut the fuck up but it’s hard for me to understand things i haven’t experienced and i haven’t experienced a lot sexually so when i try to communicate whatever sexiness is happening in my brain it’s a bunch of word vomit and that doesn’t translate well over text lmao,,,so uh sexting tips appreciated HAHA

Sooooo real. I get that. Irl pretty much nothing but I'm really good with theory and abstract concepts so I get to wisdom check all of the charisma checks instead lol

Alrighty, let me try to put tips into words!

Clarifications. Use them! My best friend in sexting, especially with people I haven't talked to a lot is brackets (you can use any other indicator too) to signify breaking the scene for a moment. Ask the other person "would you like x" or "are you trying to get something specific as a response". Sometimes the sub wants something but doesn't want to ask for it in the scene, outside of the scene they can tell you what they hope you'll do

Buzzwords! You can make any sentence dom by just taggin "right, puppy?" At the end. "Riding x" is a perfect way to discribe a wide aray of sexual things without having to figure out the specifics. Writing "awwwww~" immediately makes the next thing either degrading or genuinely cute without having to imply it in the text itself

You are now playing sexy DND. You now have a character. The character is you! It's hard to think of words sometimes but it can be easier to ask yourself "well, what would horny me say?" Horny you has favourite vocab, has a way to form sentences, grammar rules they bend to fit them. Make Horny you and fun figure and you can do the things!

Catch phrases. This sounds silly and it honestly is, but sometimes you have to give your brain time to buffer. You don't want to leave the other person hanging but you can't get out anything good right now. You need catchphrases! These a quick short messages that fit into most scenes. For a dom role this could be "What a good pet, do you want something? Hmm? Tell me what you want, darling, and maybe I'll give it to you." Bamm. You now have three full sentences out there you didn't have to think about and your brain can now buffer the response you initially wanted!

Be a bit pathetic about it. This doesn’t work quite as well with a mean dom role but it honestly might do. Most people don't mind babbling as much as we think they do I have found. It's hot to know that someone is so horny that they can barely make their words work. Doesn't matter that it's not sex-dumb but neurodivergent. Tell them the bits and pieces you imagine. "I want to see you ride my fingers" is a perfectly fine sexy sentence even when the scene is nowhere near there and you don't have an idea how to get there. It's a fantasy in a fantasy

I hope this helped a little <33

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i lovveeeee pillow prince transmascs you guys are soooo cute i love sucking tdick and getting to watch you squirm around and whimper and cry i don't even need anything in return i just want to watch you while you're getting your dick sucked

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“Yeah, sometimes sex really is weird or gross or embarrassing or everything at once — and that is part of why it is awesome.”

— Carolyn via 9 Totally Normal And Not Gross Things That Happen During Sex We Promise It’s Normal (via autostraddle)

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Listen I understand the humor behind “oh yes this smut shot is definitely necessary as a character study, the way they suck dick is integral to understanding them as a person” but like also……this is not incorrect!! You can do a lot in literature with various narrative devices, including and especially sex! Your character study is not less poignant just because it’s framed through the lens of sex! Sex has been used historically in literature as a way to explore character and plot and narrative themes and I just think we’re missing out on a lot if we dismiss anything smutty out of hand instead of giving it the credit it deserves for being one of the most useful storytelling devices of all time.

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Testosterone makes trans men incredibly horny and increases the size of the “clit”, forming the tcock.

If you’re a cis ally, this should be in the back of your mind every time you interact with a trans man on T.

How soft are your lips? How wet is your mouth? Dont you think you could use your mouth to take the edge off his throbbing tcock so he can function in his day to day life? He may get incredibly horny in public. That’s a normal side effect of testosterone. If you know what you’re doing, it shouldn’t take you long to make him cum with your mouth.

More and more trans men are realizing they’re trans men, which means more trans men are starting testosterone. Why not use a signal to let these men know you’re available? If you dedicate your time to sucking, you’ll get more trans men going on to accomplish greater things without the struggle of his libido clouding his brilliant mind. Sure, this also means you hold yourself back busying yourself with tcock sucking, but we don’t need any more cissies holding positions of power and prestige. As an ally, you should know this.

So what are you waiting for? Find a tcock in need and get to work.