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Truth be told, I wouldn’t normally care too much one way or the other that she did this — it’s a bit crass, but it’s her music, her show, she calls the shots — but I have seen SO many videos and tiktoks of women brining their preteen (and younger!) daughters to this show. Lots of moms treating this like The Eras Tour, dressing up their young daughters in costumes (many of which are frankly just lingerie) and taking them to watch this. This is a very different show from Eras Tour, which was almost entirely family friendly. This is not that. If this was an explicitly 18+ concert with ID checked at the venue doors, I wouldn’t care. But I don’t want young girls going to school the next morning and thinking that this is a normal or desirable way to interact with the boys their age.

I also just think there has been a complete erasure of the concept of boundaries and acceptable behavior for certain age groups, and the fact that there are reasons why those standards exist. Sabrina Carpenter’s music is not for children. Why are there 6 year olds who know all the words to Juno? Why have I seen videos of kindergartners who listen to Sexyy Red and twerk for a camera while their parents laugh? I had parents who were stricter than they needed to be… and yet, knowing what I know now, I’m glad I had that instead of permissive parents who let me listen to anything, wear anything, and who just generally didn’t give a fuck about me or my wellbeing. Thank God for parents who give a shit.

Whether or not Sabrina wants to be a role model for young girls, she nonetheless is one — in part because that’s the nature of her job, but also in part because a decent portion of her audience regularly brings small children to her shows, and those girls will see that and internalize that. It’s not the responsibility she wants, but it’s a responsibility she has regardless.

Ignore the tweet screenshot, I don’t care about that, I just wanna complain about her Juno routine getting more disgusting

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>”stop assuming that I feel entitled to sex!”

>”I’m concerned that if women draw firm boundaries that I won’t find any dates :/“

"B-B-But my penis is different! 🥺 yes misogyny bad but i need sex!!"

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#1 hater of those gym leggings with seam on the asscrack. Have some self respect ✌️

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can’t believe shinji got beat out by a honest to god squid

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Imagine being promoted to shit sniffer

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Eclipse by the Art of Caroline Jamhour

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does anyone else feel sooooo crazy and insane but in the most boring way possible

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wish i was 9 watching TaylorSwiftVEVO on my family desktop

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(poll 2/2)

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Make a wish!

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it's crazy how not having sex with men who hate you is considered a radical feminist movement but here we are

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trying to see if my following is more stoners or alcoholics

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imagine being forced to do all of the courting in your relationships. now imagine having gendered expectations around doing that courting. now imagine having dysphoria that is triggered by those gendered expectations but still being put in a position where if you do not do the courting you will not have a dating life. text that trans gal first.

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