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Well to be honest I don't even know if anyone read my first blof but if you have and you can relate please do comment. I have got a bad news a while ago. My dad has cancer, and well it was the worst news in my whole life. Ever since I guess you could say I am not me anymore. The joyful side has died and the fake smiles have come along. My dad is an alcholic which is another reason towards his cancer. He just can't stop. He also gets very bitchy and rude and well I do not know what to do anymore. I understand he is not in the best position but really? I wish things would get better.

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Haha very true!!

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Here we go!

So here I am.

As you can already tell from my bio, these blogs are basically just a way of expressing how I feel rather than bottling it all up inside of me.

I mean we have to let it out some way right? Well this is my way. I thought it would be nice creating a blog, and with many teens reading this hopefully you will not feel like the only one and well will have someone to relate to.

We all at times feel like, I am the only one likes this which lead to many other depressing thoughts well not any more. My friend you are not alone! Trust me I have been there and realised alot. 

What I have realised is many of us teenagers feel depressed now and then. Reason being, we want to look our best? Or want the best? Want to look flawless? Have loads of friends? We all just want to be perfect. I’m afraid perfect doesn’t exist. Society has brain washed many teenagers and the generation has got out of hand. All these ads and models any sort of advertisement to do with looks and perfection has ruined us. 

All we want to do is just be and look our best. Here is a little secret though, sometimes you don’t have to be the best. Be yourself! Just be you. When you are yourself you will find true people to surround yourself with, because they love you for you! Be the unique you! God has made us to be different, not the same. That’s boring! Also remember our flaws make us who we are. A small pimple on the forehead? Oh well who cares! It is all part of puberty, human nature. Just wash your face, apply some face cream and you are good to go! Some of you must be thinking what?! No no, I can’t just go out with a spot on my head. Yes you can! Everyone has those spots, it is nothing to be shamed of. You don’t need tons of foundation or concealer to cover up. I remember my friend always saying, ‘Natural beauty is the best.’ She is right! 

My older cousin used to get bullied for her eyebrows alot! She never used to get them done and now her eyebrows are so good! All the bullying in school paid off in a way, she never let them get to her. All she can do was ignore them, and that is what you can do. Ignore. It might seem hard but you just need the mentality to do it.

Overall, the point is you are not alone. Someone out there cares for you even if you refuse with this but it is the truth. Most importantly you are not alone.

Have a good day! xx