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Via rossharrismusic’s Instagram Story - 31/12

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Romeo + Juliet dir. Baz Luhrmann | 1996

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One thing that has made me a much more well-adjusted person is a clip I once saw of Hank Green saying that anyone can be in amazing shape as long as being in amazing shape is one of their top three priorities.

(This is obviously a generalization that isn't true for everyone. But it is true for most people and I'm proceeding from there.)

This "top three priorities" framing has genuinely reduced my tendency toward jealousy and self-comparison a lot. Now when I feel envious of someone’s spotless, aesthetic home, I think to myself, “Having a spotless, aesthetic home is probably one of their top three priorities. It’s definitely not one of mine, so I shouldn’t expect my home to look like that.”

Or when I see an influencer with a body that takes a ton of work to maintain: “Maintaining that body is obviously one of her top three priorities, because it’s her livelihood. My livelihood is my brain, so I’m never going to prioritize my body like that.”

It also helps me to identify areas that I actually DO want to prioritize more. I realized in recent years that my envy for my friends who prioritized writing more than I did was NOT going away, so I started to prioritize writing more. (Not top three, but higher priority than it has been in the past.)

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I’m not sure I can take any more information about anything

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Remember bonus features on DVDs? Those were the best

Interviews, behind the scenes

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did you know that you can just go online and be nice to people? you can give people compliments and helpful advice when they ask? you can encourage people when they need a little cheering up? you can even share cute pictures! more people should use the internet like that.

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i just need a kiss. and then another kiss. and maybe another. and just a couple more. okay i think that should be good. no i lied, a few more. and another and and

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2 more days and I’ll be up north in a cabin and I can read all day

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Still not over "I need to stop letting me down" tbh

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if you’re struggling lately, i hope this reaches you.

we will be okay. you will be okay. you will grow and evolve and heal. you will enjoy life again even if it’s not the same as it was the last time you were happy. you will live your life not feeling stuck. you will do more than survive. you will thrive.

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Sophie Baek and Benedict Bridgerton at the Masquerade Ball

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Very very sad I won’t be able to see Halsey this year😞 she’s performing at the place was supposed to see fall out boy and had a horrible experience and spent lots of money and didn’t even get to see them perform. Halsey’s my favorite solo artist and I’ve only seen her once 😞😞😞

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JOE BURROW Pardon My Take Podcast | February 12, 2025

"When people say like, 'Oh, you look like Ellen DeGeneres and this or whatever', they say that about me in like, a bad way. With you, it's like, 'Oh yeah, you can look like a lesbian and be hot.' With me, it's like, 'You look like a fool.'" - PMT (x)