#yourself up for failure if you dont AND you need to establish boundaries immediately so your friends dont offer you smokes | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

wellenklavier · 25 days ago

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man. i really want to push my bf to stop vaping sooner rather than later but i also dont want to be some kind of asshole. like he's expressed that he wants to quit many times and has tried in the past,, esp if i move in i think i'd like to bring it up that he should try again. idk man

#his sister who he lives with also vapes #and his best friend vapes like a fucking steam engine #and his friend is gonna be living with them for a while next year as he searches for a house/apt at his new job so quitting during that tim #would probably be rlly difficult. but at the same time he needs to learn to say no #and his friends need to respect those boundaries bc it sounds like last time thats what went wrong. like he didnt have a quit plan #anyway its just smthn i think i could help with? i want to sit down with him and be like okay ur making a quit plan. bc youre setting #yourself up for failure if you dont AND you need to establish boundaries immediately so your friends dont offer you smokes #or vape rigs whatever. like its not an individual effort...#and yeah i can tell its affected his health both physical and mental. and hes said that. soo

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